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| SITARA |
Posted
on 27-Oct-02 04:33 PM
She was Fate's bride; against his will. "Beware!", Fate had warned her as he quietly gazed upon her upturned excited face. "Beware, for I am unpredictable! touch me only if you want to be scarred for life! Kiss me only if you want the intoxicating kiss of death!". Defiant, she was as her name;as she jutted her chin out, raised an eyebrow and tossed her hair at his stark warning. Defiance, wanted him... at the risk of death, of pain, of treacherous grounds and even at the risk of losing him. She was innocence personified; unudulterated pure energy of faith. She, was suffused with ignorant optimism, as she vowed that she would flirt with the devil himself, dance on shards of glass and jump off a cliff IF she could woo Fate into her arms. For Fate was irrisistible; he seemed to haunt her, taunt her and almost seduce her into overstepping her cultural boundaries imposed by her birth. Fate was the fatal Fire that Defiance radiated toward......... For, only He knew she would be destroyed by her own attraction. He was her destiny; a consequence of defiance! She stood perched at the chiff's edge holding her lover's hand, breathlessly waiting to take the plunge into free falling. As she looked into his eyes, she refused to acknowledge the dark foreboding, reluctance and danger in his intense eyes. As she closed her eyes and inhaled deeply, she stepped off the cliff dragging her lover with her. As Defiance spiralled down through the ether, her memories of life, births and deaths whirled around, her merging into one instance of amnesia....a blissful amnesia! Defiance's groom he was, as he softly touched her sleeping face... as he cradled her nubile body..... and slowly planted a long last kiss on her forehead. It was that moment in time when the past and the future merges into one timelessness that FATE chose to leave without a backward glance. Fate's bride now, no longer, she slowly trudged up the very same cliff, with an empty heart, lead feet and dragging soles. She stood once more where she had once been. No longer defiant was she...she was wisdom personified, suffused with pride.... standing straight, calm, serene and unwavering.....and yet Alone! As she stepped off the cliff in deliberation, She was Fate's widow...experienced, mellowed and unembittered by her past....independent of her destiny, aware of her present and mindful of her future! She was the Phoenix rising!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Written for all Nepalese women stigmatized by cultural and social "norms"! In Peace! :)
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| Nixon |
Posted
on 27-Oct-02 04:49 PM
Sitara Hajur!!!!!!!!!!! you better limit your postings to " chhotto and mithho". haina ra bhanya?????????????? Hajur ko Clinton hoina Nixon Bata
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| SimpleGal |
Posted
on 27-Oct-02 05:19 PM
Sitara, Brilliant work! It felt like I was reading Milton's "Paradise Lost" and Dante's "Inferno" at the same time! Imagine the double bliss in that. Excellent use of diction, imagery, and personification. Keep it up. The last line was particularly vivid. Thanks. To my mind at least, it relates well in the context of Shrisha Karki's tragic suicide. She is indeed a phoenix rising--in more ways than the mythical bird. Good bless her soul. In peace.
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| slipknot |
Posted
on 27-Oct-02 06:43 PM
Sitara ji: You write with passion. With baffling ease, you can portray life in its fullest, giving strength to people sapped of zing, showing directions to those with clouded minds, and provoking a sense of healthy challenge to those with wits. This piece of your writing, to me, is a blend of hindu reincarnation, the resurrection of christ, and the enlightenment of buddha; it brings out in people an innate but often subdued capacity to reason with oddities in life, to survive, and to move towards the purpose of life. Hoping to catch more glimpses of your thoughts as they materialize in writing, I remain. Sincerely, Slipknot
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| anepalikt |
Posted
on 27-Oct-02 08:04 PM
Very nice.
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| Paschim |
Posted
on 27-Oct-02 08:15 PM
A strong poem, Sitara. Great read.
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| ruck |
Posted
on 27-Oct-02 08:18 PM
Sitaraji, I am speechless.. all I can at this very moment is "THE ABOVE ARTICLES IS AS BEAUTIFUL AS YOU ARE" I hope to read more of your work..... God Bless !! Ruck
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| paramendra |
Posted
on 27-Oct-02 08:24 PM
"Written for all Nepalese women stigmatized by cultural and social "norms"!: SITARA! O my! The banter woman! This is one of the most powerful pieces of writing to ever have emerged across the Sajha screen! Goodness....... "You go, girl!" (Borrowed from Girldom...)
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| czar |
Posted
on 27-Oct-02 10:14 PM
Exquisite ! One in my family faced it and I watched it in frustration and anger. Yet she dared to fly again, higher and farther than ever before. Sitara, you dared to express the sentiments of those that can not speak, of matters society deliberately turns a deaf ear to. Bravo !
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| Sakshi |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 06:48 AM
Haina, tarif nai tarif matrai suninchha ni?? Criticism pani ta chaiyo, haina bhanya? Mailey ta kehi bujhina baba.....stitara diju, ali sajilo lekhnu paryo ke. natra limited audience hola. hehhehehe. pheri ke ko halla khalla yetro??
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| soulfree |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 07:09 AM
Sitara ji, You look sad. What happened? I read your posting for a while. I didn't finish it, coz I was scared that I would end up being sad. ;) Here is something for you to smile. "The Seven Dwarfs were sitting in a tub feeling happy. So Happy got up and left" ;)
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| Soleil |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 07:31 AM
Excruciatingly poignant! Gleaming with skillfully crafted words telling tales larger than life itself.
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 08:34 AM
Aafule keahi bujhya bhaye marijau........Maile ta yetti bujhe....." Kohi aaimai Bhir bata hamphlecha, ani tehi bhirbata pheri uklera mathi aayecha.. Bhir bata hamphalera marya manche pani pheri byutera mathi aaucha?...pakkai pani Jesus christ bhanya hola bhanya ta..pheri " To all Nepalese women " bhanne dekhe. Aba majority Hindu bha nepalese women lai Jesus ko swashni bhanya ta pakkai pani hoina hola....ke ho ke ho...kurai bujhina... DEEPle bhanthyo bhanna ta " Yo TRIKAL ko Prasad dherai khana hunna" bhanera.. Sitara! khoi sabaile ramro bhanchan...maile pani ta bhannai paryo ni , nabujhe pani.... SLC ma English ma Jhannai phel bhako..jhannai chiplantaru bhayera arko barsha kurnu para thiyo " AAnshik dinalai".. "ma jasto abujh dekhi chakka pari khitka nachadnus hai..."
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 09:01 AM
Simple Gal; You have understood much...thank you for your comments. Slip knot ji; Well, what can I say? Touching words hajur...thank you, means much. Anepalikt, Paschim ji and Ruck (sweet one :)... Thank you for reading and commenting.
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| Deep |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 09:05 AM
Sitara hajur, darshan. lekhai khatara chha. Ma ta kayal bhaye. Sambho! ...mera bhawanaharu pokhi halam ki... Praise to break- for faith it's blind you bow once and you're slave! lambaste your heart emotions strike don't rely on tears for they are unpredictable!! Try, see what you feel close your eyes don't be mislead for a belief, base is imagination!!!
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 09:11 AM
Paramendra ji.... Yeap social issues big time hajur :) Banter woman banters for the heck of deflecting nagative energies! Czar and Soliel.... Thank you... that is all I can say for the moment... :) Sakshi, Life is a mystery, unravel it and interpret it at your leisure. Soulfree ji You are my hero as always hajur.... thank you for finding my muskaan ... I do smile a lot by the way. :) Dhumbasse ji Oh no!!!!!!! you mean to say you did not understand my erratic ramblings? :( Nixon ji Can I please post a few many liners (as opposed to oneliners) including white spaces? Next time I will ask your permission hajur! :)
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 09:16 AM
Tyo hajurko unmukta bichar- lahari ko dosh hoina.......yo abujhko gyanko kami.....jasma sabai bhanda thulo haat chahi " Trikal pratiko Bhakti" ra " chahine bhanda badhi Prasad Grahan" ho.. tapaiko lekhai lai ke bhanna sakincha ra..khali tadha basyo ..ani.chuk chuk garyo.."hera kasto lekhna janya bhanera"
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| Poonte |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 09:23 AM
BRAVO!!!!!!!! Need I say more? Alright, once again...ahem! BRAVO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Deep |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 10:05 AM
yo seken tyam ho...Sitara le malai .... bhaigo...thikai chha... dhumba , tyar aauna layo...paral chheuma lagera ROCKET chhodne haina ta?
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 10:10 AM
Deep ji.... We posted simultaneously hajur!!!!!!!!!! :( Thank you for your poetry.... eloquence ma ta no one can match you ni. You put me to shame sire. :) Rocket re????? I am safer in the sky bhanya tyo pani bhayena.. sob!!!! :( Poonte ji... :) thank you!
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| Deep |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 10:30 AM
Sitara maiyya lai takera rocket chhodne haina n ta. Paral ...gharko jhyal...transformer tyasto takne ni ta. Hamro tole ma tyastai hunthyo....euta lure sisi ma rocket ko puchhar chirayo...linthin linthin....ani yaso dhalkeko rocket ko niskya tuso ma aago salkayide pachhi sisi (botal) ladara rocket hunkinthyo nagbeli style ma....ghar tira... paral tira.. rocketle land garne chhat lyayo bhane tyo rocket bhanda chado afu adhyaro galli tira tap haninthyo.... "I am safer in the sky bhanya tyo pani bhayena..".....You still are, at least from me. Can't swap respect for fun. "..eloquence ma ta no one can match you ni.." ufff! Jay sambho!
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 11:40 AM
Deep dai ! yo hamri Sitara, ( bhannale Sajhapurki bhanya.. milayera padhnus hai).. Akash tira udauchin bhanne lagyathiyo, pheri yek manle ta katai DIllibajar Pipalbot ra Kalikasthan ko serofero udaune wala ta hoina jasto pani lageko cha.....yespala tyttai tira deushi khelna gaincha...tal pari halcha ki...hamro Sitara ra aru SAJHE did- bahini ko kripale..., yeso yek choti Darshan paincha ki... Huna ta DC ko party ma darshan-bhet garne rahar thiyo....Tara Trikal bajelai Beskana Cherpati lagya bhayera baje ko chillim thik gardai din bityo...janai paiyena.. Ke garne Ani trikal baje ko cherpatti ko aaushadhi ke thaha cha? bajeko tyo baghko chala ( phalatinako) muni tin pyaket pataka rakhidiye....baje Shauch tira gaeko bela..pharkera aayera " Yaiya ni !" bhandai thacchakka matrai ke baseka thiye, patata ta ta ta ta ta tat atta .......garera sabai patakha padke.. yekkaicchoti ..baje ta yekchin ta khub ufre..yeta herchan..patakh, uta herchan ...patakh..patakh..patakh.. baje naramro rishaye ni! ma sanga. ..tara bajeko Cherpatti thik....la ja ..chuhina lagya pani saba bhitra tira gayab.. Yo Sitaralai bhetne rahar jhan jhan badhadi gayeko le tyo tapaiko ali thulo khalko Rocket chaina..tyesma malai bandhi dinus Dai.....ani bhetna paincha ki .. Aba Dhobi kholako khetko paralko kunyu ma dhar parera golteen ko twakbata Rocket udaune kura chahi ma pachi leckhchu......pheri San daile tihar najik aayeko bela..pheri dher lekho bhanera Ghumayer hanlan " jaisa ka taisa mila" bhanne geet gaundai bhanne dar kya....khulching..khulching gardai kalo aankha liyera tika launa ta garo po huncha pheri.. Ye dai ! thread ta aantai jana lagyo...pheri sitarale dine ho ki kya ho 7 numberko Bata chappale.. dar po lagcha.. mathi bata aayeko jhattaro chalna pani garho..
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| jira |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 12:35 PM
ye deep! khatara chaina, yasto beejog po banai dee ta mailey stuti bhanchna lai aundho chu biswas ko lagi nihunrida timi das mutu samhaldai bhawana ley teer marey ansu dhoka ho batawuna yogya chaina herera koshis garnu ankha banda garera galut batoma najanu biswaas ko lagi aadhar kaulpera
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| Deep |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 02:03 PM
Jira, Kaha srikhanda kaha khurpa bid!***********huna ta kath ta duitai kath nai ho. Jiradai ko rupantar le tyahi "kath" samma bhyayo...marma ra mahatwa chhoyena! **********
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 02:07 PM
Yo jirale garcha translation pani garcha , sanskrit pani padhaucha. paryo Acharaya baje! la ja!! Jira kauda nahanni bhanya.....ki Rocket ma rakhera udaidiu timilai handi gaun tira.. SITARA!! kata ho kunni hajurle sodhibaksya thyo mero SLC ko batch , hajurko Kun saal paryo. ladies first bhanchan.....Hajuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuur pahila, Ani i following ni pheri.... Arko kura.....out of blue.......hajurko katai Rimal harusanga tandhako bhayepani pariwarik Sambandha cha ? If u prefer not to answer, that is ok too...
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| Logical Sense |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 05:18 PM
:]
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| najar |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 07:07 PM
Sitariji, Hauntingly beautiful creation. You offer a wrenching account of harshness fueled with empowerment. In awe I remain.
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| Rusty |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 08:36 PM
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| krishna |
Posted
on 28-Oct-02 08:49 PM
Sitara, Very well written and plucky..... Looking forward for your next one.... Kind Rgds, Krishna..
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| Dilasha |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 10:17 AM
Beautiful Sitara! You remind me of my friend Adeline whose writing style is similar to yours. enjoyed reading it!
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 10:29 AM
Dhumbasse ji I did send you an email hajur... :) I had a question about a friend. Jira ji.. Your translation quite charming . Logical Sense ji :] Najar ji Thank you for your kind words. I still owe you something... :) Rusty ji A POINT in time? Bindu? Dilasha, Ma ke bhanoo? I am flattered that you find my writing so... :) Always nice to read your comments. Krishna ji Thankyou... you seem to be a newcomer in Sajha...if you are, Welcome! :)
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| Suna |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 10:32 AM
Sitara! Really beautiful!!!!
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 10:44 AM
SItara check your email
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 10:44 AM
Suna Thank you.... This, for the past we've all lived and a future we create! :)
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| najar |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 10:53 AM
Sitara, You are welcome...keep glowing--chamak chamak like you have been :) Tehi ta, I also think you owe me something, khai ta kata gayo, phursad nbhayera ho ki, low priority bhayera ho? Anyway, look forward to it when you get a chance :)
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| krishna |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 11:02 AM
Yes Sitara jyu, you are abosolutely correct..I am a new comer here..I feel this is the time to introduce myself if Sitara jyu doesn't mind on her thread..I am looking foward to reading those interesting and beautiful articles as yours throughout my stay in Sajha..and I am sure its going to be for a long long time..Though posting is definitely not my expertise but I am sure to be reading those long and very challenging observations and lots and lots of other articles.... I will certainly be commenting on the pros and cons of the writing..and expect them to be commented on both sides..bcoz I dont just illustrate the merit side of it but the demerit as well, though I know this might cause some of my fellow companions to turn their back against me but it will definitely not be my intention to do that...I hope that will be of some help to our fellow sajha intellects, though my comments are but a mere thought... Once again, Sitara jyu, I am very greatful to you for letting me introduce myself in your beautiful thread and I hope my introduction will not hamper the excellent comments you are receiving for your hard work and intellegentia... Good luck on your future endeavours... Best Wishes, Krishna..
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| Nepe |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 12:30 PM
Sitara, I must admit I did not read this piece when I saw it first time thinking that it is probably some grandiloquent word play so I can put it in my 'to be read later' list. However, when I read it, after praises started to pour in, I was deeply moved. It filled me with inspiration, hope, longing and anguish at the same time. You wrote it for Nepalese women stigmatized by cultural and social "norms"! But one can immediately recognize the universal appeal of it. I strongly feel that this piece equally addresses the so called mainstream Nepali intellectuals- particularly those self-defeated, dreamless Realists who are not budging an inch to give room to dreams of the "Fate's widows". Sitara, keep holding the tourch. Its time to talk about the disillusion of the "Fate's brides" with their honeymoons there are not. Nepe the dreamer and yes "Fate's widow" too.
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| Suna |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 12:32 PM
Nepe! VERY WELL SAID!!!
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 02:02 PM
Nepe ji As always, I look forward to your comments; they are candid, insightful and brutally honest (at times :).
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| punam ghimire |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 02:16 PM
It is not great but just alright!! why is everyone after her, praising her s*@#!ky ass. I am good looking 34-29-36, tall and long legs come to me babies!!!!don't waste your time here. post your email addresses , I will show my pictures . That will be better than this.
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| jira |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 02:24 PM
"Jira ji.. Your translation quite charming . " Sitara Ji! mailey ta yaso thad-thado translation dya mattai ho, yuassai ta malai deep ley uta hawuu gari sakyo. Thanks for your compliment anyway. Tara, I would rather be honest, I have not read your thing yet. I will try to deciphere tonight. Let us see whether or not I can get deep inside. Sabbai ley ramro cha po bhanya chan ta.
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 02:37 PM
Punam ji I don't know about the others but I am CERTAINLY IMPRESSED!!! Come now, there must be more to all that beautiful brawn... Brains???? :)
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| dhumbasse (dumbass) |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 02:47 PM
Sitara! did you recieve my reply? Ye Jira dai kasto raaaaaaaag garya. uta pani yetapani....Ani hamro Jiralai Chat garna aauncha.........hijo yeuta le nimta garya bhayera yeso gayeko ta .......amma ni ke ke ho keke. yeso mouselai chalayo bahni jodne bhancha, ghataune bhancha, Banda garne bhancha ani bichama rakhe pachi chai je type garyo tehi aaundao rahecha.......ramro gauff gaf bho yekchin ta ko sanga ho thaha chaina.tyesto thaha payeko bhaye ta ma hijo nai gai halethe ni tyeta..... Jira baje! tyo Trikal baje kina bepatta ni pheri. timro kura sunera ta ghat lageko cha tyesaile ali pheri china heraunu cha....
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| Rusty |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 03:33 PM
Sitara Ji I thought the dot (bindu) was meaningful to you... Here's my another JPT;) The dot I jotted down was my wordless praise for your brilliant work; for your shrewd imagination. The dot I jotted down was a speck of RUST for wretched Defiant; for the doom she stumbled upon The dot I jotted down was to END the deluge of tears for a love without any lover; for ‘ a widow without any widower’. The dot I jotted down was a finale for your epic words; for your sensitive message to us and our culture.
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| Rusty |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 03:36 PM
Najar Ji, You deserve something from me too.....a big Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii !!!!!;)
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 05:22 PM
again*
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 05:22 PM
Rusty ji Well, I am speechless again!!! Twice this time: First, with Poonam ji's beauty.... :P Ah your poetry past compare, These bright jewels I wear... Bianca Castafiore of Tin Tin Comics! hehe! Rusty ji, Your dot does encompass all, it seems... Just the fact you read my posting was enough hajur :) Again, thank you agian.
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 05:25 PM
Jira ji Well, I'll be!!!! I could have sworn you were gravitating to this thread because of my post but it seems Deep ji has lured you away! hehe! nevertheless, thanks for writing!
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| paramendra |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 07:52 PM
A related theme, from an African poet............. "Kaalo manchhe Chandrama jane hoina Ke garne chandrama gayera Yahan je garchhau, tyahan panee Tyahi ta garne chhau."
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| paramendra |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 08:03 PM
Sitara, I just read every message posted here to see if there was a follow-up piece to your first one ................. :-/
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| jira |
Posted
on 29-Oct-02 09:33 PM
Sitara Ji! Yeah! I finally got myself deep into your literary whirlpool. Kasto ! dwui chotee paudhna parya bhanya! I think I got it one hundred percent, atleast I should say this time I got it. Ramro cha la! yassai bhanya haina your nick resembles the best bhanera. Aru ni jawose na ta. Tara aba fate ko lagi defiance haina Triumph lyaidiney hai, my request ke yo.
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| diwas k |
Posted
on 30-Oct-02 03:31 AM
Sitara jyu, SAhrai chitikka pareko chhoto mitho sAndarvik kathA padhna pAye. Defiance sangai ek chhin ma pani sunyatAmA almaliye. "... ma murda bhayeko timi aaja hera..... " (swar: Narayan Gopal) Euta arko prashamsA kherA jAdaina holA. _diwas
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| kalankisthan |
Posted
on 30-Oct-02 06:57 AM
Sitara Jyu, (kapal chilaudai) Maile ni padhe. Dhilai bhaye pani padhe. Ramro laagyo. Keep on writing. (I'll email you a cold bottle of water, raspberry flavor -- enery dine wala water) hehe
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| najar |
Posted
on 30-Oct-02 08:30 AM
Rusty, thank you for a due 'big hi' on time or else you'd have been in trouble. And your JPT above was simply beautiful. Keep it up buddy! Sitara, thanks so much for delivering me what you owed. Will get back to you :)
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| Rusty |
Posted
on 30-Oct-02 12:02 PM
Sitara Ji, I am flyaattered!!!!:) Hajur ko ghati kasto cha aja? Hajur ko aawaj ko speed recovery ko kamana gardachu:) Najar Ji, I said that "hi" yesterday ..on time!!! ;) Transfer protocols must be having party. Thank you for your compliment. Rust
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| najar |
Posted
on 30-Oct-02 12:15 PM
Rusty, i think transfer protocol (TP) fulfiled its responsibility on time, fire nagarnus TP lai----the blame is all mine, slacked on sufin' sajha last night. Had to do some other things besides visiting sajha, you know :) Aba nepal crisscross ma bhetaula hai..uta chiple le arkai plan banai rakhya chha..
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 31-Oct-02 12:00 PM
Paramendra ji Part 2 chahina ni hajur! Pleas don't send me any links or pics hai? Jira ji Thou art back....by coercion ki ke ho? Thank you hajur...flattered! Kalankisthan ji... H2O..... how do you know I get high on H2O? Diwas K ji Thanks.. you have broken your silence??????? :) Rusty ji.. The song I am singing at the moment is "The hills are alive with the sound of silence" improvised from "Sound of Music"!!!! thank you Najar ji.. You too visiting Sajha frequently hajur? I hope the 100 generation sajhaites have not asked for your green card to visit sajha !!!!!!! :)
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| kalankisthan |
Posted
on 31-Oct-02 01:24 PM
How do I know you get high on h2o? Well, kahile kahi ma kidney le sochchu ni. Tyahi kidney le sochya belama i came to know that you get high on H2O. H2O on the rocks pesh garum???
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 31-Oct-02 01:28 PM
No wonder kalanki always sounded high. Kalanki thanko tyetro badema ko pani tyanki... bihanai belukai KAlnaki ko baas nai tehi pani tyankima.......ani jhayaapa jhayaaaapa hundai basdai ......... Ye kya ho yesto .maila harulai jhyaaaap parera ke garna khojya ?
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| Biruwa |
Posted
on 31-Oct-02 02:17 PM
Hi Sitara, Nice Story! :) But I don't agree when you say that Nepalese women 'are' stigmatized by cultural and social "norms"! I think that it is a very biased comment. Do we the Nepali men in general characterize the nepali women as disgraceful or think of them as causing shame to all Nepalis? Well if so then aren't the women (Whose postings show ample proof of their disregard of the prestidge of Nepali men) to be blamed too. Then does this not make for a mutual disrespect and hatred. Then why sympathize only the women? Because you are too?? ;) Justa a couple of thoughts!
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 31-Oct-02 03:26 PM
Biruwa ji Thank you for your "thoughts"; you are entitled to them. You have missed much....but that is ok, happens! We seem to be having communication problems, yet again... :( What happened to the "black hole" that ate many stars and thus was brilliant in its radiance? ;)
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| Biruwa |
Posted
on 31-Oct-02 05:57 PM
huh! communication problems yet again? Thought I understood what u wanted to say :( Ke garnu tapai ko jasto photographic memory nabayera, kya bore! ;) Any way, San le Villian khelyo ke garne? Aru "black hole" ta lyauna sakthen tara bekarma kina kich kich banera ni!
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