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on 04-Nov-02 12:01 AM
O-e Krishna, I do NOT know MP (MP with no dots) at all -- certainly not in his/her MP avatar on sajha. I have, in fact, asked MP to reveal his/her identity so that I can take appropriate legally valid actions, if I so choose -- either now or later. So, there is NO question of my knowing MP prior to all this. I hope this satisfies your curiosity. *********** Sure, I freely and frankly admit that my INITIAL reponse to MP could well be perceived, by some people, as a strong, jolting, in-your-face kind of a posting . I accept that. [Jokingly, I even attributed to the tone of my posting to, well, Vin Diesel effect -- I had just come then, waching Vin Diesel in action in that non-porno action movie XXX. :-)] If the perception was pointed out to me, especially by MP however strongly, I would have happily said something like, "Oh, sorry, I didn't mean it that way . . ." or something similar to that effect. That would have been: Kura khattam, and may be I could have provied more specific info about life in Kathmandu. But the other person went way OVERBOARD BEYOND any reasonable parameters and, in fit of extreme anger, started accusing me of SERIOUS crimes, crimes that I have NEVER thought about committing, let alone committed. That's when the thread STOPPED being about any person's rudeness or any other person's acceptable reaction to rudeness per se, BUT degenerated into a deliberate ONE-SIDED smear campaign against me -- a ONE-SIDED campaign that many others by now seem to have understood and seen for what it was/is. Having done nothing wrong with any woman ever (except, well, loved one dearly before she ran away with her co-worker :-) . . . an insance of wrong love which I now recall with a smile in my face), I am glad to have stood my ground here and NOT let these attacks disturb me in any way. Besides, I have NOT called MP any names nor given him/her foaming-in-the-mouth kind of "gaali" to defend myself. San and I had a little private email conversation yesterday, and I have decided that I am NOT going to request him to remove these silly attacks against me. That's because I want to let more people know about the kind of sheer depravity, the kind of sheer viciousness, the kind of sheer malice that I as an identifiable, known poster have to endure in an OPEN public forum. The attacker(s) need to understand once and for all that their silly attacks, full of lies, are simply NOT going to unsettle/unnerve me . . . EVER. And if posters too can stand up to such attacks and more -- when they too are personally attacked -- then we'd begin to have the kind of open, yet self-confident, forum we all deserve. As they sa in Nepal: na.bi.rau.nu na.da.rau.nu. Have a great Laxmi Pooja everyone. May Laxmi come to all your homes. oohi ashu ktm,nepal
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