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| Paschim |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 02:19 AM
For many months now, every single friday afternoon, there is one thing I look forward to eagerly: reading a column called "Sata ki Grihini" -- or The Housewife of the Week -- in a weekly publication called Saptahik.
The frank and brief views of usually married women who are little-known, or somewhat well-known in their small community, or are wives of moderately well-known bureaucrats, sportsmen, artists, business folks, etc. are quizzed (by a woman correspondent) on the simple, mundane questions on life and household matters (in a respectful, non-sexist way). Frankly, in addition to my own roots, and my contacts with people from all walks of life, this column has informed me terrifically on how OUR women in urban Nepal view life, nation and the universe! Sure the women who are featured are random and not scientifically representative, and all that, but I think people will still learn a lot of ground "reality and thought" from these quick readings as I have for so long now.
So here goes this week's treat:
http://www.kantipuronline.com/saptahic_html/gharparivar.htm#5
Let me know if you also eventually get hooked to these columns over time. We can then start another fan club on Sajha by the same name that honors Hahooguru -- HFC II -- Housewives Fan Club. And yes, by virtue of my devotion to these columns, I claim the presidency straightaway :)
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| nuts |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 02:34 AM
Paschim,
Frankly, the questions they ask are all *tallo khaalko ra ghatiya*. I used to read this column while i was in nepal and realized how people used to like all this low quality patrakrita. Saptahik is one of the jhoorest patrika I've ever come across; all they want to focus is on sex, one way or the other.
Now, I am prepared to be struck by showers of criticism from people who love saptahik.
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| Paschim |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 03:12 AM
Nuts, are you sure we are reading the same column? :)
I am not talking about "Saptahik" as a paper overall, just that particular column -- I don't think I have come across sex-related stuff in this column ever; overall, you maybe right, that paper (another tabloid) seems to be a masala mix of poltis, cinema guff, pics for the boys, horoscope, penpals, etc. -- but since I don't look at the print version, online I just click on that particlaur section. And there, I think the questions are "shishta" yet "chalan-chalti" ko bhasa ma, rather than "ghatiya and tallo"...
Take this week's column. It features Mrs. Ganga Subedi from Biratnagar, a struggling artist and wife of Mr. Dinesh Subedi, President of the Cable Association of Nepal, who aspires to build an art gallery in Biratnagar later. Brief questions deal with how she dealt with her studies, art, interests, and motherhood; and habitual stuff about her husband, and family support! These aren't cheap, glamourous, or sexy -- but day to day neighborly guff, hoina ra?
Anyways, aa aafno bichaar...let's leave Sajha-ites to form their own views on this by reading the above link or looking at the archives of past coverage of Nepali housewives!
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 06:39 AM
The greatest housewife in my world is:
MY MOTHER!
She has been the epitome of love; compassion personified, tolerant, with a sense of humor that can kill you with an overdose of good spirits; amazing for a woman who had been in coma [when we (my sis and I) were young]. Her life, suffused with philosophy which balanced a wife's, mother's and teacher's responsibilities. She was my first guru: she taught me how to question life at the age of 10yrs.....
Here is to all the housewives in the world!
Thanks Paschim, as always! :)
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| ruck |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 06:53 AM
Can I ever be the best housewife like my mom???
My Mother….
Uff!! you never said I wonder why
You always said girls ought to be shy
You showed us the importance of life
But most of all to be a faithful wife
At times of pain and sorrow,
Your share of happiness I didn’t have to borrow
You are like a ray of light,
Even in the silence of night,
Aama, how do I express my liking for you?
The importance in my life you hold.
I cherish all the time we’ve spent together,
And those precious moments of gold.
You understood me when no one did,
Held me when I felt blue.
So fortunate I consider myself
Having come through you
You are the answer to all my pains,
Aama is always a beautiful name,
Will I ever be able to convince you?
But let me tell you what is true,
You are the sweetest woman I’ve ever met,
I am so lucky to have you.
Ruck
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| HahooGuru |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 07:35 AM
HFC II -- Housewives Fan Club : President Paschim.
Hon'ble President Paschim, Can I become Secretary General of HFC II ? provided no one else appears to be my rival candidate?
To all my HFC (0) Members, I have returned from the Samundra Par Travel. It was
so great that I completed my targetted lakchya prapti set last time. Let me hope
I can be a good SG in this new job "SG" of HFC II.
Well, in contrast to Sitara, I will not dare to rank my mother here. I will copy Ganesh ji 's words and will not rank my father and mother. Apology to Sitara jyu. Mind nagarnu la.
Well, if I have to find first housewife, i.e. my own wife, without any second thought. She is not only wife, but, great advisor in need, great friend in deed, great rival sometime. Well, I remember an Indian friend of mine, invited us for dinner and the friend said his wife is No. 1 in all aspects including in rival perspective too. I asked him why? He invited me to his kitchen and asked me to watch for some time. He told me that this is new item "parikar" that I have invented my self. Well, his wife immediately rushed to see and my wife also rushed to see how he is cooking it. Then, the friend asked his wife to stay away from kitchen. I was surprised. Then, he said, you know she is my biggest rival. Whenever I think, try and make a new item that our guests appreciate its taste, then, she ask me to explain. Till here, I had no problem, but, next time when I invite another set of guests, she make the item that I made earlier, and it embarasses me, because I am left with no item to offer, and all the guests appreciate the item and her, I get nothing. She even does not acknowledge it, and when she acknowledge it after my pressure, the guests don't believe, and tell that she is joking. So, I don't want to let her know the procedure of cooking this food item, so that I can be proud of my item infront of my guests. She is indeed my greatest rival. Don't you think so? His wife replied, "No, I acknowledge it to peoples, but, peoples don't believe me, they, think I am joking". She added, "he says, I am his biggest rival very hard to defeat". Indeed, I also have the same problem. Ke Garne?
Well, these couple are both going to get 2 doctors degrees. One double Ph.D. and the wife Medical Doctor + Ph.D. in Medical Sciences. So, I realized they are great rivals indeed, but, they are good friend, good care taker, good hostess, good husband and wife and what else. It will be great pride to be SG of the club dedicated to such peoples.
...
Well, I was in Korea and returned a few hours back. In the farewell banquet, that was one of the few great banquet I have ever atteneded, a Prof. from USA (Korean-Native)
and his wife were sitting and he had presented an excellent theme lecture, so was known to many participants, well, his co-author also presented another paper just after mine, and I wonder the number of participants in the room was quite high because of his paper... Lets forget this part. Lets come to main point. The anchor of the banquet requested him to request his wife for a song, she was great pianist. Well, after a minute Parararara tali bajyo, and it was because the prof. got approval from his wife, she will play piano. Then, ancher asked to prof. to give a few words before his beautiful wife vibrate the room with piano music. Well, prof. came and gave a brief talk and at the end he replied " Well, Mr. Anchor(name changed) I don't controll my wife, she is free from me. But, as all of my students and friends know that she control me. She is my boss at home. "
Well, being housewife is really stressful most of the time (when alone at home), but, when everyone return to him, she is indeed a great leader, friend, boss (sometime dictator), care taker, doctor, hostess, and great rival, too. She is the engine of a vehicle. When the engine of my first car broke out, I asked the workshop guy who visited Nepal several times, how much do you pay if I give you the parts to you free, because it has SAKKEN for another 1 year (japanese tax to be payed every two year, the value of 2nd hand car is determined mostly by the remaining syaken period). The guy told, its engine is broken, its not me to pay you, you have to pay me if you want me to handle your broken car. He charged US$200. equivalent Yen + towing cost of 100dollars. Similarly, housewives should be handled with care, if their heart is broken knowingly or unknowingly, my father said "bhare chulo ma ago balne chhat chhaina, because your mother is angry. Yo ghar ko engine tateko chha".
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| Poonte |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 08:14 AM
Why, why...'housewife' bhanne term people haru le ali tallo najar le look garchha jasto lagchha...mero bichar! "Oh, your mom's a housewife?" lai Nepali ma ultha garda kheri (mero aafno bichar, once again) "Eh, tero aama ta anpad?" bhaneko jastai lagchha. Chwassa ghoch-chha, bhanya :(
Personally, I think housewives are great! Yes, my mom was one, and growing up in Nepal, there were plenty of housewives to be found all over the neighborhood. They may have been coerced into becoming housewives due to the lack of education, independence and the overall structure of our society; however, we must not forget that their deeds were as important as any other profession.
After having lived abroad for over a decade now, ironically I have come across a couple of house husbands in this "land of opportunities"!! Both of them are very good friends of mine, and both are very well educated. Yet, they have taken a long-term time off from work so that they can look after their new-born babies. One of them thinks it's such a rewarding job that he might even consider becoming a house husband permanently!
Three cheers to all the house wives and a few house husbands...heep heep, hurray! heep heep, hurray!! heep heep, hurray!!!
Very pleasant poem, Ruck. I would have forwarded that to my mom if she could read English! I hope I have been expressing the essence of your poem to her through the things that I do every day.
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| HahooGuru |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 08:42 AM
Poonte Brother,
In asia, Korea and Japan realized the importance and power of housewives, and therefore, they said every girl should go to school and learn. Today, major portion of educated females even big famous celebrities, they just become housewife after they give birth to kids. But, its not correct that their everything and all knowledge gone wastage. In fact, a kid remains at home for about 16hours a day, they are in home more than 2 times they spend time at school (think of Sat/Sunday, too). Thus, housewives is not trademark that represent uneducated women, but, its well recognized teacher at home. A kid without father prefers street corner, but, a kid without mother prefers no where "hates the world", considers home made of stone, brick, wood, and a place to spend night like a hotel where neigbours are always mystrous, most vulnerable to commit a serious crime "against public" (source forgotten, and if you don'T believe, then, take granted as if its my own imagination), and double earner's kid will be the most confued person in the world, would never like to return home one grown up and leaves his/her parents "because he considers these two elderly peoples were two persons who shared same hotel, and lived in next room, met every morning and night in the dining room and lounge, said good morning, hi, hello, how are you today, have a good day. Never shared the feeling of my heart.".
I am sorry if I disappointed some of you whose parents were doulble earners. I am sure double earner's kids either do not like to return home, or don't have friend, does not know how to treat friends when they come together, or are noisy to neighbours. Conclusion: "Abnormal ". So, housewives are great in this sense. They are great leaders, teachers, hostess, caretaker, police, some time army, some time gangleader, sometime patient seeking help and care in the society. Only uneducated peoples consider a housewife as an uneducated ugly women who only spends time doing nothing.... We need to teach every woman in the world, give education equally to male counter parts or an earning woman. My understanding is that a Ph.D. holder housewife is not wastage of education, she can be still be a great productive mother to her kids. After all every "EDUCATED" parents want their kid to be great leaders among next generation. Mothers whether work or not, their education is vital to us.
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| SimpleGal |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 09:14 AM
Paschim,
Thanks for starting this thread. Indeed, the role of housewives and their outlook on life and global issues has been severely overlooked in recent times. And I'm glad to see that there is such an effort as the column you are addicted to that seeks to bring out those muffled voices!
No one can outdo our mothers, who were from the generation when women, though educated, were not allowed to work outside the home. But when I think of it, though it may seem insensitive to my mother's ambitions (and those of other housewife mothers) I am glad that my mother was home. Without her enduring presence at home, I don't think I would have been the person I am today. For a growing child, it is important that the mother, or primary care giver, be at home when the child returns from a long and sometimes grueling days at school. It provides a sense of security for the child, which he/she is then able to carry with him/her through the various walks of life. And today, with the soaring number of women who are entering the workforce for whatever reasons, the plight remains to be the divided attention. In a way, our mothers had it "easier" (of course, they had their own share of things to forgo) since they knew that the dictates of society would confine them to their homes. But now, with the pressure, yes often times it's for economic reasons, women have to step out to work and come back home to do the same. I ascribe "pressure" to the reasons for the growing rate of women's employment because we must not just look at the section of society where women are encouraged to be educated, ambitious, and pursue high profile careers. A prominently large slice of the economic strata of society (speaking globally) consists of families where the income and literacy rate are so astoundingly low, that the families have no other recourse to support themselves than to send off their wives, daughters, sisters to take up jobs which are low in pay, require minimal or no education, and promise no potential for growth. I was briefly in Delhi this summer, requested by my father to join him on a conference trip there on Science and Tech. On the other side of life, the stuffy streets of Delhi were teeming with young teenaged girls just a few years my junior, some my own age, squeezing themselves between the line of cars stuck in traffic with a wailing baby clinging to their chest, trying desperately to sell a few pens.....
Sorry, I seem to have digressed too far from the topic of housewives.....
In peace.
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| najar |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 09:29 AM
Great thread--
I also would like to join the club in honor of all the houswives around the world, particularly my mother, and all the superwomen who are carrying out triple duties (career, family, leadership positions). My kudos to these amazing women!!
Would love to ganthan more on this, but gotto go now, have to catch a flight.
Before i leave, can i put my name to run for a position in the HFC II honorable president Paschimjiu? Perhaps a consultant, an advisor, a technical expert?? I need the position desperately as Junkie does not seem to let go that TSN delivery position.
But more on this housewives fan club next week upon phirta from sahar bahira
"mysterious" Najar
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| slipknot |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 09:34 AM
Nice poem ruck. Sitara, no wonder your humor kills... having been honed and refined thru generations. :) SimpleGal, yes, prude comments and relevant digression!
Reading all this, I feel enlightened. May be, when the time comes for me to ask someone for marriage, I should get down on my right knee, with bouquet of red roses in my left hand, right hand holding the tip of her slender fingers, and say, "Girl, will you be my Housewife?" :)
Peace :)
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 11:07 AM
Hahoo guru ji
Welcome back! A pleasure to see and hear you again!
And I wish you find your "house wife" soon! Mero Tihar ko shuvakamana hajur!
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 11:09 AM
Slipknot ji
I express my heartfelt wishes that you find your "housewife to be!"
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| Deep |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 11:13 AM
Sitara,
why are you flying to hurt Mr, HahooGuru's wife?
Why in the world would you want HahooGuru's current wife to have a "sauta?"
Do you want HahooGuru to have one "house wife" and one "office wife"?
Bhayena ni!
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| Deep |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 11:15 AM
Paschim ji,
thanks for the link. I didn't find the article "tallo khaalko ra ghatiya". May be there were some in the past (I don't know) that caused nuts to write what he wrote.
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| HahooGuru |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 11:17 AM
Sitara ji Arigato!
I forgot it in Korean! Hard to Memorize. "Cha... da".
Housewife paisake-ka mahanu bhav harule (including me) Aba ta tamako gagri ma pani bhari house-buhari lai swagat garne hola ni, hoina ra?
Mero pani tihar ko subhakamana, Mina-sama lai.
hg
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 11:23 AM
Lau, Hahoo is Not an Eligible Bachelor?
I am sorry hajur....I just did not read the loooooooong posting! today is Friday and my mind is on cloud nine.
Hahoo guru ji...
Narisaunoos hola please!
:(
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| SimpleGal |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 11:28 AM
Slipknot,
I second Sitara's motion and hope you do find your "housewife" in time before the waning (or waxing??) days of bachelorhood!! :)
Sitara,
Just read your section. Truly, you are a strong woman! Kudos to your mother who has instilled such amazing strength, stamina, sense and talent in you! :) Here's a << hug>> from me! :)
On the topic of housewives, I am reminded of this powerful poem by Adrienne Rich:
Aunt Jennifer's Tigers
Aunt Jennifer's tigers prance across a screen,
Bright topaz denizens of a world of green.
They do not fear the men beneath the tree;
They pace in sleek chivalric certainty.
Aunt Jennifer's fingers fluttering through her wool
Find even the ivory needle hard to pull.
The massive weight of Uncle's wedding band
Sits heavily upon Aunt Jennifer's hand.
When Aunt is dead, her terrified hands will lie
Still ringed with ordeals she was mastered by.
The tigers in the panel that she made
Will go on prancing, proud and unafraid.
In peace.
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| HahooGuru |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 11:36 AM
Deep arigato.
Thatta gareko bhanera positively sochema sab dwas metincha bhanchan. I guess she was joking. Kohi bhedaunu parne manchi bhayera ta hoina hola ni. Bhedaunai parne nai thiyo bhane pani sarlakka pareka khojnu ni, ma hahoo! lai ke rojya hola ni hou. Ki aghillo janamko rish pokheko ho. Yo yug ko gali ta hoina hola.
Hamra pokhara tira ka aimai le ta arki aimai/KT gali garda
" ta lai sauta paros bhante", aba ta ulto bhe jasto chha "talai duita swasni bihe garna parosa bhanera". Afano ta aghadi ko 7 pusta dekhika jiju hajur bau dekhi kasai le pani duiti swasni nalyaka re. Jiju hajur bau ta jhan 32barsha ma srimati swarge hunda pani dosri bihe nagari 85 barsha bache ka re. Yasto great family ko manche hum ni ta.
So, Deep ji don't worry. Kasai ko tagat chha bhane aao meri dosri swasni banna ao bhanera dhawa boli diu ki ke ho? Tyo pani hunna. feri bhani paso loukha bhanera bhidaye bhane k garne, girija ko jastai garera "GRAND DESIGN" bhanera pani nahune huncha. Afu ta patni brata ho yaar. Modern man hune tarika ho Patni Brata through. Afno ta motto ho Hami dui Hamra dui.
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 11:45 AM
And amen to that (the poetry) S Gal;
Thanks for the hug! And I reciprocate in kind! :)
Hahooguru Sama,
Gome Na sai!
"Mina- Sama" :)
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| HahooGuru |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 12:03 PM
Sitara-sama! iie iie! daijobu desu!
HG
Min(n)a-sama = everyone , or all the peoples or all of you...
Sitara ji, if we volley postings between two of us, probably we will end up "GET HEATED" or make this thread irrelavant. I would like to stop here. I mean I don't want to be part of jeri or aap pahale aap pahale... Neither I want to be like two elderly japanese women volleying "thank you, hajur" "welcome, hajur and thank you, hajur" (yaha train chadne kurama hoina ki, posting ko train stop garne kura ma). No flame intended.
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 12:09 PM
:)
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| SimpleGal |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 12:55 PM
Baap re baap! Puraa Japanese lingo dirachhan ni ta manchheharu le! ;) Malai ta only Sayonara bhanna aunchha....speaking of languages, I remember this funny episode. I had been to Vellore in India once and heard some Bengalis speak something. Later, in high school in NYC, I had a Bengali guy friend. Somehow, I happened to tell him amongst a group of other friends that I knew some Bengali and he asked me to say something.
"I know only one sentence," I said.
"Ok," said he.
"Aami tumako bhalo bashe," I said proudly.
He blushed saying, "Really?"
Everyone laughed.
I later found out that it meant, "I love you"!! :P
In peace.
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 01:03 PM
Maile pani yeso bhanna janeko cha ..Bangali mai ho..
" Rup Jyadi tor yetoi Bhalo
Munda mala Kenao gale
Nam jyedi tor Dayamayi Ma
Shiva keno charan tale"
...Ajha lastma.
Hamro Dr Pimplegal le pani saraha desh khayera sesh bha jasto cha ...re kya ajha jhan lastma :)
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| ruck |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 01:08 PM
Simple Gal, Dhumbasse Ji..
Isssh.... aami kuch bujhte parche na, aapnar ki bolte?
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 01:10 PM
Ruck,
the piece above I wrote is actually a piece by Rabindra nath tagore,
Banki chahi aafai bujhnus re kya ajha lastma..
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| lonely |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 01:15 PM
Paschim ji,
This is a very good topic. Are you serioulsy looking for a housewife for your house as well, ki aaru ko herdai chhitta bujhaudai matrai ho? Hajur dhelo bayena ra gharjam garna lai????
In fact this is a very good thread, and I enjoy reading.
Do you think a wife needs to quit jobs, when she is bringing up babies? Which is what I have seen in most cases. Is that a must or its too difficult for a women to handle. I was a bit surprised to read that 2 house-husbands really liked on what they did. Khai, I can't think of doing that myself, so I must say he must have done a good job.
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| ruck |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 01:26 PM
Dhumbasse ji, kemon accho?
you remined me of my childhood listening to rabindra sangeet (rabindro shongeet as they say it in bangla).....
Dannabadh!
Ruck
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| Dilasha |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 01:30 PM
Aye launa Poonte bawu malai ni khoddyau na tehtai "house husbyaand" mero ta jeeban nai saphal hunecha...someone who can be a stay at home dad lookin' after the babies, doin' all the household chores, prepare meals while i come from work fatigued only to find a table of food and a smiling husband waitin for me..oh wouldn't that be so wonderful? hello anyone out there who's willin to be a stay at home dad? ;-)
Unfortunately, couldn't read the column as it's written in nepali but thanks for the thread Paschim.
Sitara, "like mother like daughter" hope the spirit will be passed on to your daughters as well...i heard your lil' one already possesses your humourous traits which is a good sign perhaps we should think about being "samdhini(s)" ahile dekhi nai, wotsay u? :)
Slipknot, tum sharaarat se kabhi baaz nahin aaoge, will ya? :) i too wish you the best la!
Simplegal, i understand your sentiments....it's a bit sad to witness such extreme hardships faced by women, however i just can't help but commend those women for having the guts to earn their livings unlike some "men" who i've seen doing nothing but play carom the whole day in the sun, babble about nothing but politics the whole day with friends and return home at the end of the day to their wives who could be one of those pen sellers you saw in the streets of delhi or a sainli didi working non stop in her "bhatti" or a parbati didi who wakes up at four in the morning, makes food for her family and carries her doko to buy fruits and vegetables from the orchard owner to sell them in the sabji mandi later in the day. It's simply amazing isn't it?
And ruck, that was a very beautiful poem. thanks!
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| NP |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 01:32 PM
My mother!!!
Your "unconditional” love has taught me to esteem myself and care for others. Your unfailing and unremitting sustain has helped me to grow, find my place, and create a route for my life. Your faith in me has given me valor to cope with new challenges and to be myself. Your selflessness and forfeit has inspired me to surmount any intricacy, and your devotion seems ever more precious and wonderful as time goes on.
Sweet lady, there's no one ABOVE you.
NP
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| NP |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 01:33 PM
And there's no way I can pay you back for the sweet things you did for me:)
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| ??! |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 01:35 PM
House-Husband or House-Jwain hune chahi koi chha?
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| NP |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 02:03 PM
Ruck,
One thing- you're an 'epic' poet. You write poems like poem. I had read your privious poem called "My father". That was also marvelous! Keep it up.
NP
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| ruck |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 02:14 PM
Thank you NP for enjoying my poems:))
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 02:26 PM
Dilasha !!Kina tyesto dukha lagdo gunasho ni pheri , ghar basne husband ta jatti pani paincha .
Khoi hami tira ta najar nai dya hoina re kya ajha lastma..
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| Deep |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 02:34 PM
"Aye launa Poonte bawu malai ni khoddyau na tehtai "house husbyaand" mero ta jeeban nai saphal hunecha...someone who can be a stay at home dad lookin' after the babies, doin' all the household chores, prepare meals while i come from work fatigued only to find a table of food and a smiling husband waitin for me..oh wouldn't that be so wonderful? hello anyone out there who's willin to be a stay at home dad? ;-) "
Dilasha,
Ma aam ma? ma fas klass ko manchhe chhu ni...
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 02:40 PM
Dilasha...
"Samdinis"? IFF you match my 25 children with your 25! The one you mention is my oldest one! Her humor kills surely.... You'd better be a sasu with a great sense of humour.
;)
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 03:01 PM
Ruck...
Oh your poem past compare!
Nice hajur! :)
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| jira |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 03:26 PM
DHUMBA!
Ami bangla bujhtey pari, boltey pari na.
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| Logical Sense |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 03:32 PM
Correction! It is not 'House Wives' it is HOME MAKER.
See, whole logic changed!!!!!! No explanation needed.
It is a FULL time job, which requires inifinite OVER time.
HGjyu, Ahobhagya, Welcome back. Kahan Kahan Khojina Maile. Paschimlai jastai euta email pathayera Sajhako Arko Avatar Bhanidinusna. Just want to know my hunch is correct or not.
I also have similar competing Ph.D couple. At times they used to cook their own food, and argue for 3/4 hours infront of us despite we closing our ears. I think it is Ph.D. thing. SimplGal watch out hai!
Guruji ko Euta Kuro Milena.
"Double Earners Ko Bacha Haru Gharai Auna Mandaina".
It all depends how you manage your life. There is always work around for those who keep their priority straight. We are double earners al;so but our kids are our friends (so far, herdai jaun), we do everything together (sort off). All of us are away from home for 7 hours (School time), but one of us are home for almost 17 hours running around with Kid's activities and household chores. My kids speak English, Nepali, Hindi (mostly because of movies) and some Spanish without mixing each language and without burrowing ascent from each other. In contrast they mimick how a US/UK/India return Nepali talks and it is hilariious.
And ofcourse all the good credit goes to my 'HOME MAKER' - well, pat on my back, I contribute a little (23% last time I checked).
- iti
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| slipknot |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 03:46 PM
Dilasha ji, "shararaat" ko lagi Sajhako dabali ma gayera maile request garya geet gaidinus la, please bhanchhu k, ek patak ... :)
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| lonely |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 03:54 PM
HOME MAKER...
kasto change gardayo ta term..
to bhanda ta house-husband ni ramro suninchha ni..NEpal ma ghar juhai ta suneko thiye..ya aaheya..house husband aaba home maker..
I heard that dad's aren't good home makers as mom's re? Can some one enlighten me on this.....
PhD garne couple ma sadhai jhadaga/argument hunchha bhanne sunda ta...Simplegal be careful..you better not look for some one who is doing phD hai....just kiddin'
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| slipknot |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 03:55 PM
Btw, I sincerely hope you are not one of those disgruntledhousewife.com girls.. :)
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| Junkie |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 04:02 PM
Ruck jyu ..... khatra chha .... love your mellifluous, poetic verses! Tara only if it's original hai. If you are a phata and merely copy pasting it, then I take it back with both of my three hands.
If you are not a phata then, euta kura sodhu hai ...... :
"Jaba manchhe lai bhyanak chot parchha
Taba Kabhi hunchha"
Kati tapai lai pani ..... (?) ..... I am told that everytime I saw daar-lagdo bhut ko feelim, I squeaked out some poems too (to fear or to tuborg, that is the question)
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| NK |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 04:15 PM
Paschim bhai, Once I was an aspiring Hausfrau but the drudgery of waking up and looking forward to make myself useful changed my aspiration. I tried for about 6 months. [i am not counting the year when I lived in my husband's country] I tried to sew curtain, make dresses, give a dinner party, and look preety when my husband came home from all his travel. Phew! I was more stressed out than when I was working. Did I mention I had even started doing gardening? My mother was a housewife/homemaker/childmaker/futer shaper/a slave/Shiva worshipper for 20 years and she was excelled in all these things. That was not her choice except the Shiva worshipping part but she did it and did it well.
I am still a part-time house wife. Once you are married can anybody not be a "housewife?" If my house is messy and no dinner on the table, I can always say, Hey! I make a living too. [ok that "living" might buy us a loaf of bread but no butter] So let's just hire somebody to do the cleaning and go out to eat. What are those restaurants for anyway right? I still have not forgotten about my aspiration. But I have to take up on painting I think to fill all the void and somewhat validate my decision. How many poetry can one write day in day out, right?
This is the pain of modern day woman, especially me. Too many choices and to eager to prove oneself. "You can be anything!" Humph....
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| Dilasha |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 04:18 PM
Slipknot ji, pharmaais pura gardyachu ek choti nazar lai tetatira lagnuhola nazarandaaz nagarikana....:) btw was that q directed to me? if so then I do fall in that category...no wonder i had to divorce my first husband and remarry the Raja of Hastinapur (lol!)
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| Junkie |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 04:44 PM
On house-husbands:
Keta Sushil chha. Amerika batah PC/DC (potato cutting/dish cleaning) garera aaye ko. Experience saxperience chha. Kahilay khayee "hawa taal ko kura garchha". Tara hafta ma ek choti matra-friday. Hail to the new breed of House-Husbands!!!!
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 04:51 PM
Junkie,
Wish you the best too!!!
:)
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 04:54 PM
yo "Raja of Hastinapur" ko paryo hola , Mero dumb dimagle bujhnai sakena. kasaile mero ghinta ma gham lagai diye ma sarai krit kritya hune thiye
Ye hastinapure !! khelchas re kya ajha lastma :)
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 04:59 PM
Raja of Hastinapur lives in the Jungles of the East....kyare! The last I heard....
Ki kya ho Dilasha ji?
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| SimpleGal |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 05:03 PM
I just noticed the notion of House-husbands!! Hahaha....good one. I personally would love to have one!! House-husband....Atti hans uthyo malai...aiiya baba!!
Best word to have emerged on this thread: House-husband!!! LOL
In peace.
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| Dilasha |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 05:13 PM
Sitara, first of all lemme assure you that I too am planning on "santaan ley daanda kaanda dhakney" so don't you worry i might as well beat ya in that ;-) as for the humorous sasu...wo to mein hoon hi, "aur" prove karna padega kya?? wait till ya see me on Saturday Night Live next year...then you'll be knockin on my door requesting me to be the sasu of not just "one" but the rest of your 24 kids as well. :) And finally Raja of Hastinapur does not live in the jungles of east..you must be watching NBC (nepal bhadragol corp) a lot, you gotta watch the cable network news dahlin' that's where you get the "real" news. btw my raja is in Havana smokin cigars with Fidel Castro, k garne kaamoonist jo paro! :)
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 05:16 PM
Khoi ba !! bujhnai garo !! Usle uslai dekhaucha !! usle uslai Dekhaucha!!
manman le chahi afule afailai dekhai raheko hunu parcha re kya ajha lastma ta..:)
Huna ta Hastipurkai rajako hoina Pach- pach woti...yeh thikkai cha jamma duiti ta majale aataunu parne ho tyo Darbarma!!
Hare daiba !! ( sigh!)
Aafno katro aasaha
ra dilasshaharu
dhoidaichan bagarko baluwa sari |
tadpi tadpi chichyai rahecha
mana, prana aau mero joban
pani binako macho sari ||
......
( YAWN)
pheri bhetaula ( arko junima bhanera sano acchyar ma lekheko re kya ajha ragatle lastma ....)
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| slipknot |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 05:17 PM
Dilasha ji: Hastinapur ko Duryodhan raja ta ma, but I don't remember marrying you ni. Kyaho, one of those moments of our loss of self? :)
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| Junkie |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 05:32 PM
Speaking of Cigars .......... Any "H. Upmann Havana" and "Romeo and Juliet" (no not that one, the cigar one) Fyan? ..... Milera will smoke hai ..... Kay garnay, communal fyan jo pare ..... communist I mean (equal sharing of miseries rather than unequal share of heppiness).
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 05:33 PM
Dilasha
I don't watch T.V. .... :( don't own one hajur! So won't even be able to see your dazzling self in action!!! :(.
Hey, But I do own a small library... :) My 25 children get their dose of humour from there to supplement mine!
So your beloved is in the Cartel hajur?????????
wow! impressed!!!!!!!!
Junky Junky where art thou?????????
Lisan lisan to Dilasha!
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| Junkie |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 05:41 PM
You mean Dilasha has "kuch-kuch" for me ..... laaz lagyo, rato-piro-nilo-etc-etc bhaye mah tah.
Dilasha jyu:
Aba jhimkai deu nah pareli,
Maan ma bachha mitho murali!
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 05:42 PM
Simple Gal
Perhaps, you and I should look for house husbands... while doing our doctorate!
but you are too young and I am too much of a sceptic... to get married. ;)
But here's to all house husbands too!
:)
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| Junkie |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 05:44 PM
Haray Shiva, kina barta bolnu pareko hola malai pani. Look at what stupidity can do.
"Aaye tweety-pie, pahilay pyar tarney key masu"
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| slipknot |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 05:46 PM
I'd love to be a house husband! :) The couch is mine, and so is the remote control (to the tv, not your mind. :) ) Anyone interested? hehe.
Hold on there lady! Do I have to do the house chores? :)
Peace :)
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 05:47 PM
Junky ji
ooooooooh what a notion, hajur!!!! hehe!
I thought she also had a thang for cuban cigars!!!!! hmmmmmmmm Are you a democrat by the way? :P
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| Junkie |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 05:54 PM
Hoina Sitara didi (didi only if Dilasha is not your bainee, natra complicate hunchha) ..... I am just a (an?) unlucky-go-hippie-fella. Politics scares me. Hippie-crat bhane hunchha.
PS: either call me "bhai" or just Junkie.
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| Jayahos |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 06:11 PM
On 'SATAKI GRIHINI':
I often read this column......and they usually used to present someone BISUDDHA GRIHINI. They once had wife of Yadav Kanta Silwal and I was amzed to find that she was just SAKCHHAR! Mrs. Subedi seems more 'SATAKI MAHILA' than 'SATAKI GRIHINI'.
On 'KANTIPUR SAPTAHIK':
It reminds me of 'NAYA SANDESH' from Ramesh Nath Pandey! 'NAYA SANDESH' had all of the contents that SAPTAHIK now covers in RANGEEN KALEBAR and it was equally popular too! I remember one ad too : "TALAI AMATYA ZINC BLOCK MA....GAYERA BHANEKO HOINA..." or something like that! I donno what made Pandey stop that PATRIKA!
On 'HOUSEWIVES!'
I wish every HOUSEWIVES in Nepal had a CHULO with proper ventilation and easy access to KHANEPANI.....!
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| SimpleGal |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 07:18 PM
Slipknot,
Wow! :)
Lau, hajur jasto hasti with such a "beautiful mind" and an exquisite style of writing that I have become quite a huge fan of, le testo mahan bani bhanda I am in awe!!
Tara dear sir, what is a house-husband without "household" chores? Khali couch ma "potato" bhaera remote flip garera basyo bhane khana sana luga suga sar-safai kolle garney ni? Bichara wife ta thakera ghar ayeki hunchhe! Ki kaso? Hmmm....?
In peace.
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| Dilasha |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 07:35 PM
hera hera junkie! didi lai jiskauna laaj lagdaina? asti bharkhar rakhsya bandhan ma raakhi lagako birsyau? i'll have your bhenaju send you a pack of cuban cigars ok or even some straight dope if you prefer :)
Sitara, i think i saw you in that library doing all the work by yourself, with some help from your bharra bhurri....a perfect example of economizing eh?
Slipknot, how could you remember it when you were suffering from paranoid schizophrenia? :) (hence the "beautiful mind") that's why i divorced you maybe that also you don't remember..anyway did you get any treatment?
Aja yo slipknot le garda mero paper pani nabhyaune bho, i'm glad it's friday saro dimaag kharaab gardo rahecha mora "re kya ajha antim ma" :)
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| NK |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 07:38 PM
Jayahos i hear you. yes ventillation would be a live saver, literally - In all those vancha ghar of all those pahad and pakhero.
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| HahooGuru |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 08:15 PM
house-husband without "household" chores?
Well, among Nepalis in Japan and Thailand, I have ever lived. I find interesting
code of ethics they use.
When husband "DAI" is wage earner, they call his wife "Bhauju Falana".
Do you know what they call when a wife "DIDI" is wage earner or primary visa holder, then, they call her spouse as "Vinaju". if someone is Vinaju, he is house-husband, they say. Well, house-husband(?) are a few in number, so they are always treated as a part of Joke and fun. Only a few have guts to join the veed of "Dai" and most of them return to Nepal because of disappointments. Well, I want to be one of the "Vinaju", in near future. Just cook, stay home, clean the house. Its just one year ahead. You can call me HahooVinaju (after 2004) switch from HahooGuru.
HG
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 08:42 PM
Slipknot ji...
From what I know of you, you are a mouse potato hajur!!! Hoina ta?
Sure, you can have the couch as well as the remote (to the TV) as long as I hold the threads to your "beautiful" mind!!!
Hajur sanga Mangsir ma bihey (arranged marriage) ta pahiley nai taiyar bhayeko hoina, ra?
;)
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| slipknot |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 09:14 PM
SimpleGal, remote flip garne hoina, channel flip garne ho, please don't get me wrong. :) Ani rahyo domestic capacity ko kura. Would you like to hire a butler? Else, I'd imagine, a maid would be just fine while you're out working... :)
Dilasha ji: You divorced me re? Lau baarbad, I don't even remember marrying you. Pretty serious schizo here, eh? :)
Sitara ji: Mangsir ma jado chha Baisakh ma lagaula! :) I'd like to know who spread that rumor, btw, kanya daan dina lai mata pita ta chahiyo ni hoina Sitara ji, ki poila aaune bichar chha? :)
Om Shanti! :)
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| Junkie |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 10:33 PM
Ani ani Dilasha sister ..... kina Rakshya Bandaan sangai Godiva kina pathako! Konfused bhaye nee tah! (haray yo Oys ko saraap, aba saab didi hune bhayo mero pani)
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| KaLaNkIsThAn |
Posted
on 08-Nov-02 11:07 PM
hehe,
Funnny...
Bihe ko kuro chalya ho bhane ma ni chu hai line ma. Aaas(paati) ko bot ko muni kuri raa chu. Bar mala liyera paalnu hola, kaam hojjaayega!!
dhyantaryaan!!
Malai ni mero choro school ma "absent" bhayema, angreji ma dankaayera excuse letter lekhna aaune, honewala choro ko aamai chaahiya cha!!
Resume pesh garum ki?
Sajha ma 2-3 jaana INTERSTED jasto dekhincha!!
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 09-Nov-02 09:57 AM
Slip ji
I thought you knew who spread the rumour! :(
Kaam napyeka haroo.... Getting me double booked with Paschim as well as Slipknot!!!!!!!!!
Am I the only eligible bachelaurette ki kya ho?
Myth, myth myth!!!!!!! of the Stars.... My kundali must be lying! ;)
Trikaal Trikaal where art thou?????
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| slipknot |
Posted
on 09-Nov-02 10:27 AM
Sitara ji: I do not know.
It wasn't me! :)
Hmmm.. Feri Janakpur ma Shiva Dhanu uchalna janu parne bhayo kyaho?
:)
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| kalankisthan |
Posted
on 09-Nov-02 11:18 AM
Sitara Jyu,
Maile ni hoina hai!!
(khalti salti ultayera dekhaudai) e hernus ma ta ekdum khaali chu. kehi pani lukako chuina. mero wallet ma pani Rs. 10, sauni ki chori ko picture, ani Momocha ko coupen matrai cha.
(hands up position ma basdai), further checkin' garne bhe ni garnus. kassam, maile bhanya hoina.
Feri mero fuskya cha ra bhaneko? Dimag?
Afu nai line ma basiraa belama, afnu naam hazur sanga jodnu kata kata, aru ko naam hazur ko ma jodna, ke malai SLIPKNOT jyu le toki bakshya cha ra? (hehe no offense slipknot)
Hune bhaye, tyo knot lai slip garera paschim ma puryai dinthe...
Sitarajyu ko kundali ma Mero naam dekha paryo ki kya ho sitarajyu, hazur Jhaskinu bho ni naramro sanga....!!!
Trikaaal baaaje... Me wan you too!!
hehehe
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| lonely |
Posted
on 09-Nov-02 11:08 PM
Khai yaha ko discussion dekhera ta malai ni bibhaha bandhan ma badhina mal lagyo..
House- husband chaina haina tara equal contribution samma chahi huna sakchha mero tarfa bata ..is that fair enough?
Anyone interested find one for me ...re kya ..
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| sunita |
Posted
on 10-Nov-02 10:48 AM
Right here! Lonely jyu........................I am here for you!
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| lonely |
Posted
on 10-Nov-02 12:28 PM
Sunita ji,
Are you serious? Ek khali usual joke matrai ho?
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| sunita |
Posted
on 10-Nov-02 12:33 PM
I am damn serious kya.....................aj ah!kya
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| sunita |
Posted
on 10-Nov-02 12:37 PM
Kasto maya lagyo....................lonely vanya vara!
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| lonely |
Posted
on 10-Nov-02 12:59 PM
sunitaji,
aaja samma ta lonely nai chhu. Khai sayad kunai din, uparukta samayma yo aaklo rath ko sathi pahinchha hola, sayad.
But it all depends on time, haina ta sunita ji?
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| HahooGuru |
Posted
on 11-Nov-02 10:11 AM
Lonely ta tarshechha ba. Sunita ko kura padhda ta Lonely lai half half hoina full nai house-husband banauli jasti po chhin ni uni ta. kya powerful attack chha. Bagh le deer lai ghati ma chyappa ngykejasto gari. Lonley ta bhagyo bag ko hunkar sunera. Kasto luite cheruwa rahechha. akhir lonely na paryo. dhat cheruwa. ma bhe ta tapakka tipera la jaam suntali mai bhanera gaihalthe. k garne jorpati ko andha ko office ma kaam garne karmachari basha lagankhel ma, lagankhel ko patan hospital ma kaam garne karmachari bascha jorpati ma. dubai lai twakka ghar/dera satta patta ya office sattapatta gare ta kya milethyo ni. tara k garne yahi ta namilne ni. yastai yastai namilera ta sansar ma traffice jaam bhako ni. Ani kasoiko pani thegan chhain. Hera ta bichara yo thread ko inventer Paschim pani ghora kahyera tyo mrigani lai kurera baseko kati bho. dhoka pani payo re.
La jehos keta kt ho, tyo jorpati-lagankhel ka dui manche jasto chai nahos,khurukka pako bela tapakka tipera hida. Hahoo!Garna pako bela gari hala.
HG
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| paramendra |
Posted
on 11-Nov-02 12:34 PM
Ah, the "fonotically" challenged!
- latecomer to the thread .............
"..." Well, Mr. Anchor(name changed) I don't controll my wife, she is free from me. But, as all of my students and friends know that she control me. She is my boss at home. " ........."
Frankly I think this above is a lame, sexist statement. As is this: "..... . He charged US$200. equivalent Yen + towing cost of 100dollars. Similarly, housewives should be handled with care, if their heart is broken knowingly or unknowingly, my father said "bhare chulo ma ago balne chhat chhaina, because your mother is angry. Yo ghar ko engine tateko chha". ..........."
Paschim ko housewife ko khoj jaree chha jasto chha! :-)
"..They may have been coerced into becoming housewives due to the lack of education, independence and the overall structure of our society; however, we must not forget that their deeds were as important as any other profession...."
Becoming a housewife as a choice and becoming so because you have no other option: there is a difference. One can honor all the women one has known (mother, aunts, sisters, relatives) who are housewives and still talk of the need for expanded career opportunities for women as a group. Education opportunities, jobs.
"...One of them thinks it's such a rewarding job that he might even consider becoming a house husband permanently! .."
Great example.
"....double earner's kid will be the most confued person in the world..."
Not true. Family quality time is a great idea. But there are studies to show kids who spend time at day care centers actually have advantages. They learn social skills. Two-income families can hope for the best. On the other hand, sometimes, one of them takes a few years off.
"...women have to step out to work and come back home to do the same..."
The intermediate phase where the woman has a job, but also does ALL the work at home! Sexist?
"...teeming with young teenaged girls just a few years my junior, some my own age, squeezing themselves between the line of cars stuck in traffic with a wailing baby clinging to their chest, trying desperately to sell a few pens..."
Vivid description.
"...career, family, leadership positions..."
Housewivery is great, as in househusbandry, it is just that raising a child, and household work should not be defined as for-women-only.
Slip Not.
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| paramendra |
Posted
on 11-Nov-02 12:51 PM
"This is the pain of modern day woman, especially me. Too many choices and to eager to prove oneself. "You can be anything!" Humph.... "
NK, thanks for sharing.
".....no wonder i had to divorce my first husband and remarry the Raja of Hastinapur .."
First it was Sitara and Czar. Now it is Dilasha and Slipknot. :-)
"...Keta Sushil chha. Amerika batah PC/DC (potato cutting/dish cleaning) garera aaye ko. .."
LOL
"...Best word to have emerged on this thread: House-husband!!! LOL ..."
You make it sound like it were an original term. Not.
"......wo to mein hoon hi, "aur" prove karna padega kya.."
Ah, the sweet breeze of casual Hindi ......
"...my raja is in Havana ..."
Who is that?
"...but you are too young and I am too much of a sceptic... "
?)
"...a mouse potato ...
Now this is original.
A triangle....?
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| Jhilkey |
Posted
on 11-Nov-02 12:58 PM
Ha ha ha! Very funny...funny Ha ha kinda funny
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| lonely |
Posted
on 11-Nov-02 01:10 PM
HahooGuru ji
Ma Tarsera bhage ko chaina hai... Testo bahnne ta dherai aauchan ji..aau bhandai ma ham falnu ta bhaeya ni...Khanai napako kukur jasto..waiting for that instance..ki ksao?
Khai..malai ta sunita bhanne keta jasto lagi sakyo...keta ko pachhi ta ke lagnu ni...
Kina ma darayera bhageko jasto feel garnu bha ko ni? Do I sound like that? Pheri..pachhi dhoka paiyo bhane ni bharera..khal gareko ni..
I need to push to to my class, will continue later la..
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| Dilasha |
Posted
on 11-Nov-02 09:21 PM
"First it was Sitara and Czar. Now it is Dilasha and Slipknot"
I know Paramendra ji, yo ta sarai attyachar bhayo ni haina ra? Slippy Slipknot has been my respected guru war for the past three years therefore guru lai testo najar ley herindaina kya! aadar ra samman garincha kahan pyar? :)
"...my raja is in Havana ..."
Who is that?
Param ji, Raja of hastinapur is the great grandson of Maharaja Sawai Man Sing II and Rajmata Gayatri Devi. After meeting Castro in Cuba he's back to England busy playing polo with the Windsors. :) k garney "absense makes the hearts grow fonder" bhanchan, tehi bhandai chitta buhjhaundai chu :-(
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| Junkie |
Posted
on 11-Nov-02 10:07 PM
Dhaat pool kholee halyo yo Paramendra jee lay ...... "Househusband" is NOT my creation. I am known to copy paste a lot from my room-mate's diary. Tehi mora ko creation hola.
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| paramendra |
Posted
on 11-Nov-02 10:23 PM
"...Slipknot has been my respected guru war for the past three years .."
He only became a teacher recently, how can he have been teaching you for three years already?
On another note, my apologies for any misunderstanding on my part.
It is just that I know him offline as well, so had to pull a leg.
Dilashaji, dil ko asha, wah. You have a way with prose. A distinct Dilasha style.
"...the great grandson of Maharaja Sawai Man Sing II and Rajmata Gayatri Devi..."
LOL
Did someone say this thread was about housewives!
Maybe rangee-changee housewives ............
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 11-Nov-02 10:23 PM
<>
Paramendra ji,
Goodness!!! You still hung on an old thread "Girls will you marry me!".... Did you not know Czar eloped with Baby duck in arm and Sitara with the Southern Devil????
:)
Dilasha ji,
The last I heard of the Raja of Hastinapur is that he was attending some swayamber in Janakpur!
:P
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| lonely |
Posted
on 12-Nov-02 02:33 AM
ke ho life ma ..utar chadam gham pani...ujalo andhera hunchha bhanthe..tara yo lonely ko jiban ma sathi naaaula jasto chha...sunita ka gayau ha?
sunita, tyo mero dil pharkai deu bhanne geet dedicate garum ma timilai? tara khai timi ta gayab bhayau ta?
aani HahooGuru ji, kata gayab ho? malai bhagyo bhanera aafu po gayab?
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| kalankisthan |
Posted
on 12-Nov-02 05:07 AM
"...my raja is in Havana ..."
Dilasha jyu, Galti le mistake bha hola, Kalanki bhanya hola ke ... PHEW!!
;)
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| HahooGuru |
Posted
on 12-Nov-02 06:55 AM
lonely,
kati karai rako bhanaya. ma yahi chhu ni. hee, baccha jasto ma timro spouse ta hoina ki timrai chheu ma lappakka tasiyera basou. kasto manche rahechha. aba thulo bhaisakyou, aba afani "jiban sathi" khojera usai sanga tasiyera basne ho, kaha ma lai chichyai ^2 bolai raheko bhanya. sunnele pani ke bhanlan. eklai basda basda kosanga basne bhanne nai birshe chha, bichara yo babu le. louna yo lonely babu ta nepali tarzan babu po bhe jasto chha ta ni. louna help gara.
HG
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| HahooGuru |
Posted
on 12-Nov-02 06:58 AM
Correction: "hee, baccha jasto ma timro spouse ta hoina ki timrai chheu ma lappakka tasiyera basou". lai sachya yera padhou.
hee, baccha jasto ma timro ama hun ra. bachha hoina thulai bhe bhanchou bhane pani, Bharkhar bharkhar bihe bhako spouse haru jastai bhe pani, ma timro spouse ta hoina ki timrai chheu ma lappakka tasiyera basou.
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Posted
on 12-Nov-02 12:04 PM
HahooGuru jeu,
Tapai ta ho ni malai bhagyo bhanne...
Its alright I was just joking..testo desprate chaina khali lekhdeko ni...
Manparaun ta dheria bhetiyo tara juni katne aautai nabhete ko po ta.....still looking for the right candidate .....re kya...
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Posted
on 15-Nov-02 05:19 AM
The "Housewife of the Week" is: Mrs. Badam Kumari Hirachan, a Thakali lady from Mustang. Illiterate, and 62 years old, she talks warmly and frankly about her life -- her apple orchard, winter-cold, aama-samuha, children, etc.
Enjoy:
http://www.kantipuronline.com/saptahic_html/gharparivar.htm#5
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