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   How do emotions lead to moral behaviour? 10-Feb-03 ashu
     On forgiving: You (generic) are your 10-Feb-03 SITARA


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ashu Posted on 10-Feb-03 07:06 AM

How do emotions lead to moral behaviour?
Philosopher Avishai Margalit attempts an answer.

For the complete book review (free registration required):

http://www.nytimes.com/2003/02/09/books/review/09LEARLT.html?pagewanted=print&position=top

An EXTRACT:

"However, he continues, we nevertheless do have a duty to forgive those who have harmed us. But our duty is not to them; it is to ourselves: ''This duty stems from not wanting to live with feelings of resentment and the desire for revenge. Those are poisonous attitudes and states of mind.'' Thus we ought to forgive others, but for our own sake. Here the ethical norm -- the ''ought'' in ''you ought to forgive'' -- flows not from rationality or irrationality, as in the previous example, but from our commitment to our own well-being. That is, we are going to lead less happy, less rich lives ourselves if we are dominated by negative moral emotions.

. . . that questions of humiliation, resentment and forgiveness essentially involve taking responsibility for one's own life and for how one wants to be.

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ashu
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SITARA Posted on 10-Feb-03 11:47 AM

On forgiving:

You (generic) are your worst critic and executioner. The most difficult person to forgive is yourself. Often, when you cannot forgive someone else, it is because you cannot forgive yourself. The underlying guilt changes to righteous anger which masks the hidden pain/guilt/ remorse.


Thank you Ashu ji. Wonderful article.