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| bickey rimal | Posted
on 11-Feb-03 03:03 PM
Dear Friends, I am in serious trouble. I have to pay around $4000 per semester to my college and I happened to bring money only for the first semester. Since I have not paid the bill for this semester, my collge is threatening to cancel my classes and report me to INS. Is there any way that i can avert this situation. I would be really really grateful if any of you can suggest me a way out of this problem. My parents have high expectations from me, so I do not return back to Nepal so early. Please help me out friends. I would really appreciate your help. |
| prince_lovers17 | Posted
on 11-Feb-03 03:19 PM
hey, bickey rimal that's happens to everyone . kina daraunu paryou , eak patak gayera business office ma kura garnu . mero ghar bata paisa audai chha ali huchha bhanera . ani summer ma kamayera tirnu ni . malai pani last semester ma tyasti bhayeko thiyou. DON"T WORRY BE HAPPY !!!!! RRINCE_LOVERS |
| toilet paper | Posted
on 11-Feb-03 03:55 PM
Bickey, Now need to worry, man. As Prince lovers said, you should go to the business office and tell them that your parents are sending you money soon. Or you can even tell them, that you have applied to a student loan or are planning to apply to such loan (make sure that you know the names of some banks that provide student loans). Then you just finish your semester, get a job in summer and pay off the balance before getting back for the fall semester because in most colleges you can't return back when you have a big balance. |
| emailgara | Posted
on 11-Feb-03 04:33 PM
Just talk to them and say them u will pay and teslai julai rakha |
| DWI | Posted
on 11-Feb-03 08:28 PM
College loan is hard to find for Foreign Students, although there exist few. If above suggestions don't work out, visit tuitionpay.com. Its a service from AMS (Academic and Management Services) which offer installment option for paying off the college burden and work part time. Check if your college accepts AMS payments. |
| mack | Posted
on 11-Feb-03 09:30 PM
credit card!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I used it all the time.....probably they take only master or visa card.....pay with one of those then do balance transfer to some other card that have initial 6 months interst free.... this will help u to make it till the summer......then the summber....fun time...work your =ss off. good luck |
| Vision | Posted
on 11-Feb-03 09:58 PM
Bingo, credit cards...this is the time my friend...charge em' all. Get a nice hair cut and a job, that might help too... |
| khimberly | Posted
on 11-Feb-03 10:13 PM
don,t lose it Rimal , whatever it takes just try to finish your collage.Why don,t you find out night job, for couple hr every night you know and you got whole summer, may be you can ask to your parent to help may be they will send you some money from nepal, if any chance |
| mack | Posted
on 11-Feb-03 10:30 PM
r u kidding me? money from nepal? nepal's foreign currency is as valuable as blood....dont wanna spend such valuable thing like that, do u?......send money home instead... again the " C" word comes handy welcome to america "C" word is the american way of life |
| Montou | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 01:14 AM
Rimal bro, So you need of $4000 re? Well I had been through the same situation tara mine case was exceptional yaar... Kaso garne ho la ta yaar? Bro yaso garana...yasari posting garnu vanda pani malai ekpalta phone gara na ...lets see what we can do... I will be praying for you bro... Mero phone 308 635 2191 ho.... If you cannot call me then you give me your number and I will call you... Hope something works out yaar... By His Grace, Montou |
| babaal | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 01:38 AM
Montou dai, (daadhi chilaudai....) ..3-4 grands...... ta malai pani chahiyeko thiyo....Kasto thikka bela ma tapai bhagwaan ko awatar liyera dharti ma utrinu bhayo...ma pani aafno phone number tapailai email garidinchhu hai...ani hajur ko phone kurera baschhu....Hajur dhanya hoisinchha...hajur ko yo goon ma jindgai ma kahile birsine chhaina..dharo dharma.. :-) |
| Montou | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 01:47 AM
Hey All, After I posted here. I sat down and started thinking and also praying about what to do for him. And honestly I would give him the money if I had. But unfortunately I am not working right now and am just a student. But what came to my mind was why not we chip in some money in and give him. I can chip in $50 now. I do not want it back. But we can make a contract for those who want their money back. Lets plan to chip in atleast $50 and up. I am seriously thinking about this as it bothered me a lot. What you all think? La yo bhai lai yo predicament bata paar garau nu paryo... By His Grace, Montoupy |
| Montou | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 01:53 AM
babaal bhai, hyaa timile kurai bujhena yaar....paisa vaye ta dinthee ni yaar...maan ta chha ni...I said lets see what we can do yaar... yaha aruharu dherai chhan ni who can help yaar... Tyasaile bhai tyasto sarcastic hunupardaina yaar... la babaal bhai kuro bujhyoo? Anyways babaal bhai chai ko paryo ni yaar? Kedaam naya anuhar chha ta ki roop ferera ayeko huh? By His Grace, Montou |
| DWI | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 04:07 PM
I wish, once advice is given by fellow posters, the originator looking for advice would come forward and acknowledge them. Not necessary thank them, but atleast let them know how helpful it was (somewhat, not helpful at all etc) so that others with similar problem could be helped. How many times we have seen sites originated by an unknown asking help and then fellow posters discussing the problem (sometimes arguing) with themselves on and on. |
| Vision | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 04:47 PM
Montou, I like your idea of everyone chipping in to get him through this hard time. But how do we know if this guy is actually a student, and he actually needs money for tuition? What if he is planning a trip to the Bhamas to skip the harsh winter? Or if he just short on cash to buy that new 350z? |
| Harris | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 05:10 PM
Mero kuro tetti ho... mero sathi euta ko kidney stone clear garda $14,000 lagyo.. Insurance le 80% matra tiryo.. banki $3200 ko lagi sathi marna lageko chha... lau na kehi upaya chha tyo 50-50-50-50 garera? Uo ta kam garna pani sakdaina. University mai time tied up bha'chha. Gothala Daile Ghansai ma Katyo ... Khai Ma Lai Kurauni.. Sodha Ramalai Euta lai haina, duita lai haina.. kati lai puryauni .. sodha ramali aaha kalilo tamalai .. sodha ramalai. Lau baru rimalji lai job khojna ma help garaun hai. Rimalji, tyo posting sang sangai afno tham gam pani diyeko bhaye najik tira ka sathi harule kehi help garne tracking number jasto paune thiye... |
| Montou | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 09:40 PM
Vision bro, Thats a good question. But I have the feeling that Rimal bro is sincere. Tara I will see if he calls me. He has not called yet. I will talk to him and let you all know. So if he is sincere are you in vision bro? Till then I will be praying for Rimal bro. Oks thats it for now By His Grace, Montou |
| Vision | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 09:50 PM
Hey Montou, No I am not in....my situation is just as bad, if not worse. I just got demoted to a bus boy from a waiter. That means no tips and more work. |
| Montou | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 09:51 PM
Harris bro, Khai yaar timi lai ma ke vanu? Yaso ramro maan le kehi garna khoje manche haru ke vanchha ke? Anyways nothing against that but just little sad yaar.... La ta yaar... By His Grace, Montou |
| Montou | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 09:56 PM
Vision bro, If thats the case then its understandable. If not then if you are thinking being dishonest is COOL then you are wrong brother. It might not be obvious now but it is surely going to affect you in the long run. Anyways I really appreciate your response. You are the only one who is responding. Well we could not do anything about your demotion. But I sure will be praying for you vision bro. BTW whats going on with other Sajhaites? By His Grace, Montou |
| Vision | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 10:01 PM
Montou, Are you preaching Christianity? Just curious...not that anything is wrong with that. |
| Montou | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 10:30 PM
Vision bro, Thank you for your response. I dont know what made you think that I was preaching Christianity. Yes I am a Christian but here in this thread I am not preaching Christianity. I am just telling what was in my heart. You said about you being demoted. I dont know how sincere you were but it did not look like you were telling the truth. And I am telling from my experience. I used to think it was cool to mock others, to be dishonest and other stuff. But I was wrong. So I am just telling you if you are doing what I did then you are wrong brother. Well I am just telling this simple rule and truth. I dont know where U got about me preahing Christianity. But I have to admit that this is a quality of every True Christians though. Mind you I am saying True Christians. Anyways thats it for now... U take care vision bro... By His Grace, Montou |
| Vision | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 10:58 PM
Hey Montou, I said that just because you reminded me of one dude I used to see at the church all the time, that's all. And you are right, I am not sincere at all about the demotion stuff. But I am sincere that I am in no condition to help the rimal dude,either monetarily or otherwise. I am also sincere that I am probably in much worse shape than he is. I also know that your will to help others is sincere. Good luck and god bless! |
| Bickey Rimal | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 11:08 PM
Dear Montou dai, I really appreciate wht you are willing to do. I was really busy looking for other options( which I feel is none), I could not give you a call. I am planning to give you a call tomorrow. I hope that will be fie with you. I really appreciate the advice and concern of all the people. I hope that I will get to stay here for a ittle longer. |
| Prem charo | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 11:23 PM
Vision you are right you hit the dot. I got that feeling too. I am just a observer of sajha I rarely post anything. Montou bro seems like preaching Christianity. Not only today ,this time or this thread I have been seeing that he is trying to plump for christian religion. However, I am not against of christian religion. And I respect others values too. |
| Montou | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 11:36 PM
Hey Vision bro, Really appreciated your response. I honor your honesty. I am happy that you understand what I am trying to do. Its understandable that you may not be able to help Rimal bro. But whats great is that you showed concern. Ani dhanyabaad for your good luck. I am sure something will work out. la ta hai vision bro... U take care ... By His Grace, Montou |
| Montou | Posted
on 12-Feb-03 11:38 PM
Bickey Rimal bhai, Finally you are here. I thought this thread almost seemed like dialogue between vision and Montou thread. Originator nai gayab yaar... Its okay bro ... Call me after noon Nebraska -Colorado time hai... La ta aru ke vanau? Talk to you soon hai.... Till then hang in there bro... By His Grace, Montou |
| GurL_Interrupted | Posted
on 13-Feb-03 12:12 AM
Hey RimaL, U got a host family or friendship family or something like that? If u do, try talking to them about ur problem...don't say, like cou ld u lend me some money...just talk to them that has been bothering u rite now. I am s ure, they will give some consideration to ur problem and come up with some kind of help or atleast suggerstion. And go talk to ur in ternatinal student advisor or the peopel in admission. Or u can always talk to the professors of ur major...just be urself, don't feel shy, talk straight sincerely...u never know, what all they might have to offer u and finally if nothing works, go talk to the presdient himself. And u might also check the alumni director if u have that in ur college/uni coz they are the greatest donors of the scholarships and funds to the college. or u can try church also, if nothing works out! coz sometimes they have funds specified for scholarship purposes! Just keep on searching...don't give up until u've tried everything! I know it sucks big time especially if u have the teachers, who don't understand...just keep holding on, I hope, wish and pray things work out best for u! Or if u have cousins or relativers abroad, lend from them...tell them u'll pay them interest, when u'll have some money in ur hand! Good Luck with everything! Vision and Premcharo, What makes u feel/think montou dai/bhai is preaching christianity in here! He is writing in a way he feels comfortable in and I don't find anything wrong with it! Is it coz he ends it with "By His grace?" He does coz he feels it and I think it's kool! and there's nothing wrong! Now don't jump on me! Just like u had ur own say...I have mine! |
| GurL_Interrupted | Posted
on 13-Feb-03 12:15 AM
borrow* |
| mack | Posted
on 13-Feb-03 04:35 AM
I dont understand why the credit card idea is out of the picture....couple of K's in a CC is not a bad thing at all. And since you can keep on doing balance trasfer to the "6 month introductory interest free" ones, I think its pretty cool. Try if u can get some donations from somewhere else but worse comes to worst...C is the magic word. |
| Montou | Posted
on 13-Feb-03 03:03 PM
GurL_Interrupted didi/baini, Well after I read GurL_Interrupted's posting I thought I would post my true experience too. You are so right about what you said to Rimal bro. I did the same when I was at the same situation like Rimal bro. And God was so good to me that He provided me what I needed at that time. Miracle does happen. I went to talk to my advisor and told her straight up about my situation and it all worked out for me. Is not God awesome? Rimal bro, hang in there something will work out... Ani GurL_Interrupted didi/baini, I will still be praying for you. One of these days God will turn your life around and then you will have all the goodstuff. You will be amazed what God can do for you. Anyways I dont want to go into detail now... But if you are interested I can talk to you on this later... Okay U take care ... By His Grace, Montou |
| Padme | Posted
on 13-Feb-03 03:39 PM
Rimal bhai, I can understand the pain you are going through. I had to go through the same situation. I survived, most of us do. Do not panic. Just hang on tight and turn every stone that you see. God was good to me too. He gave me everything I needed, my God is Shiva and Durga, with their ashirbad I was able to survive and I am doing good so far. Selecting faith is your choice but I have noticed that repeatedly Montu is trying to "convert" people, and has been doing that for some time. There is nothing wrong with that just wanted you to know. People will take advantage of you when you are most vulnerable. Just be careful and do not fall for cheap stuns. May God bless you. |
| Montou | Posted
on 13-Feb-03 08:33 PM
Hey All, Why everybody so quiet? Bickey bhai is in serious trouble yaar... La what do you all think about contributing little money to him? Sabaijana sunira ho lets get him out of this predicament. I am sure he will surely pay back your money. La yaar kehi ta bolnu hos... Hoping to hearing from you all.... By His Grace, Montou |
| Montou | Posted
on 14-Feb-03 10:35 PM
Hey All, LAST CALL!!! Why are everybody so quiet? I talked to Bickey bhai. The situation seems to be genuine. I am willing to do everything that I can. What do you all think? Its really frustrating that nobody is responding... PLEASE think about this and post your thoughts. I know some of you might be thinking there are 1000 people who might have the same problem. You might be thinking there are people in Nepal who might need more help than Bickey bhai. Some of you might be even mad why did he come to the US if he did not have money. Well I dont know what you all be thinking but in some way you all are right. But I came across Bickey bhai. He is important to me. And I have a deep conviction of getting him out of this predicament. Khai yaar aru dherai kina bolu aba since you all know whats going on... I am still praying Bickey bhai ... By His Grace, Montou |
| M.P. | Posted
on 14-Feb-03 11:17 PM
Montou, Initiative has to be taken by Bicky himself. Nobody is going to offer him loan just because he posted his problem here. I am sure he has access to email/internet, and if it is the Bicky Rimal I know, he also has a considerable number of friends whom he can contact to raise the amount of money he needs. I am myself a "bhukkaa", so won't be able to chip in any money but even if I was in a position to contribute I would not do so just because he came forward and explained his situation in some discussion forum. No one would be willing just like that. Not even Christ. He is not the only person to have this problem; many have undergone through such circumstances. And as far as I know, those who have tackled similar problems have advised him well enough (if I am not wrong, in some other forums as well). This is a problem that most of us, the Nepalese students, are likely to face. How many students are we going to keep in the US by chiping (sp?) in dimes and cents every now and then? Bicky, I have emailed you my number. Let's talk over the phone if possible. I will be in my room most of today [Saturday]. Or email me your number, I will call you. I do not have any good "links" but discuss gardai jaadaa solution niskina sakchha.... |
| Montou | Posted
on 15-Feb-03 02:41 PM
M.P. Bro, Thank you for your response. I really appreciate that. You said,"How many students are we going to keep in the US by chiping (sp?) in dimes and cents every now and then?" I do agree with you on that. There might be 1000 people with the same problem. We certainly cannot help each and every one of them. But Bickey bhai has stepped out and put forward his problem. I came across him and he is now very important to me. There are thousands other and we cannot help all of them but we certainly can make a difference in Bickey bhai's life... I talked to Bickey bhai on the phone and the situation seems genuine.... I have talked about this issue with Chipledhunga bro in sajha chat last night...He has advised me to do some research on this. And I will do that..Chiple bro seems to offer some help... La ta sabaijana aile lai yati nai....Please do keep this issue in your mind... I will continue to pray for Bickey bhai... By His Grace, Montou |
| mack | Posted
on 15-Feb-03 02:51 PM
Montou, I truly admire your sense of social service. But remember free bies spoil people. Nothing is free in this country and nothing should be. Everyone should work hard to make his/her own future and collective the whole society. WE can loan Bickey some money but he should return the money so that in the future we can use the same money to help other people with similar problem. this way we can not only improve the productivity of Bickey but also help many instead of one. |
| bickey rimal | Posted
on 15-Feb-03 04:15 PM
Mack, I totally agree aith you man. I will return your money after this summer. I promise that I won't let you down if you help me right now. My main concern right now is to continue my studies for atleat this semester and transfer to a real chep college for next semester so that I can pay your loan with the money I earn from the summer. Please try and understand the problem I am having right now. I won't let you down if you get me out of trouble right now. I sincerely hope that you will understand my problem friends. I reallt do not want to go back to Nepal right now. My parents will be really disappointed. By the way, they took loan to buy the palne tickets as well. Please help me. |
| mack | Posted
on 15-Feb-03 05:01 PM
so can someone take a leadreship in collecting money.....I am ready to contribute what I can afford. |
| Montou | Posted
on 15-Feb-03 05:46 PM
Mack bro, Thank you so much for the response. Thats great. Well mack bro I have never done this in the past. But I am willing to do it. If thats okay with all of you sajhaites here. Let me know if there is a better way about doing it. mack bro thats awesome what you have offered to contribute. One other sajhaite that I have talked to is Chipledhunga bro and he seems to be pretty supportive too. Praise God. So lets see what others are thinking. Bickey bhai, I got your message but my answering machine picked up only half the message. I missed your phone number so I could not call you. So can you please call me again? We have to talk again as some people have asked for more information. I should be home all day today. Okay I will talk to you soon. La ta hai aile lai yati nai... I am happy for little improvement on this matter... And I am positive that we will be able to get him out of this predicament. By His Grace, Montou |
| jesso | Posted
on 17-Feb-03 09:19 PM
montou dai..u might be surprised to see me here....since i've neva posted so far...but i dont know why, the subject matter dragged me...so i was sorta compelled to post since i can understand how it hampers when someone's in this phase of nowhere.... montou dai..i talked with u yesterday...i m ur bainie...i was obesessed about this matter...i just couldnt get out of it...i tried so hard..Why cant we support Bickey since he's afflicted with these happenings and we dont want him to return back to Nepal his hopes clashing down like this...the misery will befall him afterwards...U cant imagine the state of frustrations.. To beseech for someone's help doesnt mean tht we should try to take advantage of his situations...But montou dai..we need to make sure about Bickey....and this load is given to u..We trust u and we want u to handle the situation..whether its harsh or easy..Hope u getting wht i mean.. i really can understand how the nepalese student r going though..None's ready to support bickey with just a short term info. Its obvious, we cant expect a lot. Being a student, to chip $50 is just hard to decide by their decree.. I wish i could help Bickey with a good amount..But dai, i m also a student...i need to think for long term consequences...hmm u knw wht i mean.>>But still i m ready to help him..rather i would cut down my miscellaneous expenses...like hanging out spending for just nothing( junks)...clubbing( rather i don't..hehe)...It's my great pleasure if i could do some contribution for someones melioration...it needs to count a lot.. no offense! lets hope for the best! peace |
| Montou | Posted
on 17-Feb-03 11:59 PM
Jesso baini, Dherai dherai dhanyabaad hai... You not only brought the thread back on the front page , you have so much to say... I truely respect your concern for this young man. I praise God for that... You not only made me feel good but totally lifted my spirit. I dont want to judge other people but if we have more people like Jesso baini who are willing to chip in, in spite of her situation we should be able to get Bickey bhai out of this. But I dont know what everybody is thinking. I cannot speak up for them. So if you are reading this thread please speak up. Yastai parda ta help garne ho ni... Khai aru ma ke vanu? Sabaijanalai thaha chha whats the situation is like. So please post your thought if you are convicted to help this young man. La ta hai...aile lai yati nai..Aru pachhi... Looking forward to reading more such postings like Jesso baini... Am still praying for Bickey bhai... By His Grace, Montou |
| Baba | Posted
on 18-Feb-03 11:08 AM
This thread attracted me!! Let me tell you all something more. I really appreciate Montou dai and all others concerned in this matter. I know Bickey very well and he is a very good friend of mine( we studied together). Unfortunately I am not in the US to help him directly. But in long run I would phone him or email and can help him with as much as I can. Montou dai, please go ahead. You don't have to suspect him. So instead of delaying why not do it. Because this may be affecting his studies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Montou | Posted
on 18-Feb-03 02:10 PM
Baba bhai, Thank you for your response. Yes Baba bhai I am not delaying and am doing my best. I know how Bickey bhai might be feeling cause I was in the exact same situation when I first got here in the States. So I really feel for him. I really want to get him out of this predicament. Yes I talked to Bickey bhai on the phone and the situation seemed genuine. Well NOW is the time to act my all fellow sajhaites. I dont want to say that there might be an extreme result if nothing is done about this but who knows. Lets not be in a situation later when its too late to change and all be feeling sorry for yourselves. PLEASE ACT NOW!!! We can get him out of this only if we all co-operated. Dont you feel happy to have helped a fellow Nepalese out of such a dire situation. He obviously has no help and has turned to us in SAJHA for help. And we just turn our deaf ears to him or just flat out ignore his proposal. Whats going on? I am not being a judgemental in anyways but I am not understanding this. Please speak up. La aru ma ke vanu? Everybody knows whats going on. Hoping to hearing from you all... Am still praying for you Bickey bhai... Hang in there..something will work out... By His Grace, Montou |
| jesso | Posted
on 18-Feb-03 09:23 PM
"The human contribution is the essential ingredient. It is only in the giving of oneself to others that we truly live"., a quote for us Msg to bickey--- u dont need to worry too much...since there are different visions of problems, we can't deny the causes of troubles.But be patient.....ani there's a saying ni------- Those who say it ain't possible to be done are usually intermitted by others doing it. Montou dai is doing a great job. But why cant we give him appreciations?? peace!! |
| prem charo | Posted
on 18-Feb-03 09:27 PM
Jesso, I think it is better to be a practical then philoshophical. |
| mack | Posted
on 18-Feb-03 09:37 PM
premCharo, jesso's words are words of emotional empowerment for Bickey bro and whoever can relate to so its ok to be philosophical (if thats what u call it)...and I am with u on being practical as well. |
| jesso | Posted
on 18-Feb-03 09:54 PM
Thanks for ur comments...i do agree with u prem charo...I m not being philosophical or ruffle..Its just the matter of contribution. regarding my support and being practical,..I m ready to contribute anyway..i informed it earlier. Mack, thanks! ...if there is a will there's a way..haina!..lets not give up! hai peace! |
| Montou | Posted
on 19-Feb-03 12:41 AM
Hey All, Just checking back to see whats going on with the thread. Good to see the responses from Jesso baini, prem charo bro and mack bro. Thank you Jesso baini for your willingness to help Bickey bhai. I really appreciate that. Prasie God. Ani about prem charo bro I did not understand what do you mean. Why do you think this is not practical. Please enlighten me on this. I am not being judgemental here but its people like us who are hesitant to do anything and just are too pessimist. We have not even given it a shot and you already say its NOT practical. If everybody took a step and just do it, I think this is a reachable goal. I am open to what you have to say prem charo bro. Please do enlighten me on this. mack bro I have already thanked you for what you have offered to help. And again would like to thank you for your concern. You have decided to take a step and thats highly appreciated. Bickey bhai, hang in there...We are doing our best. Something will work out...Its hard not to worry when you are in such a situation but just letting you know that there are people who care... If you happen to read this , Bickey bhai please email me the infos I asked you for...Or give me a call... La ta aile lai yati nai... Ma kati bolne yaar? Lets ACT NOW ... By His Grace, Montou |
| jesso | Posted
on 19-Feb-03 02:31 PM
I dont understand why none is interested in it..dai..i think there aint possilbe to overcome these difficulties going on..And bickey hadnt responded yet...may be he's busy!...or he gave up!. We have no demands , or pledges for u to offer...Its just the matter of humanity....cant we contribute small amount? we r going to spend it anyway! ...kashaiko lagi bhalo garnu ramro ho... just the group effort in common endeavor counts a lot..sachhai! there might be some suggestions u can provide us...Please! this is a serious matter...and if something went wrong...then there is no way we can forgive ourselves.... please! respond us!... peace! |
| Bickey Rimal | Posted
on 19-Feb-03 02:49 PM
Everyone, I am reading everything you guys write in this thread. I talked with my advisor today for the thousandth time and I am sorry to say that he did not give a favourable reply. All he told me was to look for a co-signer that could help me get some loan. I looked through the cosigner thing and found that, the loan amount should be paid within 20 years of graduation and this amount will incur interest rate only after my graduation. If there is any permanent resident or a green-card holder willing to be a co-signer, I could get out of this trouble. If need be I am willing to seel our house, the only property I have, if I fail to make enough money after graduation. Please if anyone could help me find a cosigner, it would be really helpful and I could get out of this prolem. Please friends I hope you will help me out. |
| Robert Frost | Posted
on 19-Feb-03 04:05 PM
Montou bro, I am glad that you are taking such wonderful initiative to helping out Bickey who is in need. I read your story too and it was very appealing to me. We, all Sajhaites, are very proud of you bro that you have voiced your opinion and your anguished cry towards Bickey. I, very much agree with MP when he says that not many people replied and have agreed to help is because, this is a public forum. Tomorrow there will another person and then another person saying the same thing. I went through the same problem like Bickey bro before so I understand how he is feeling. People need to trust him in order to help him. But now I am sure everybody here in Sajha have understood that Bickey is in real problem and this is the time when we all have to help a fellow Nepali. Ahile uslai nagare kahile garne ta, haina? Bickey bro, We, the proud Nepali Sajha society, have heard you and your problem. Bro, please do understand that you have our hands of friendship and you as a human in general, we are willing to get you out of this problem as soon as we all can. Montou bro, If you can find the co-signer that would be great. If not, I am ready to chip in some amount for Bickey bro. Thank you very much. Please provide me with your address here or at my email. By his grace, Robert Frost, at the woods!! |
| Montou | Posted
on 19-Feb-03 04:48 PM
Robert Frost bro, Thank you for your words of encouragement and support. I really appreciate that. Frost bro I am still looking for a co-signer but to no avail. I am talking to everybody I know hoping one would do that for him. But lets hope for the best. If this does not work then we might have to ask for contribution. Thank you again for you offer Frost bro. Frost bro whats your email? I misplaced it. Just reply my email so I can have your address hai ta. Jessi baini, thank you again for your response. You really do have a good heart. I am happy to have meet you here. Bickey bhai, hang in there. I know how its like bhai. I am doing all that I can. But I know God will provide us some way out of this. Its hard for you not to think about this but please dont stress too much as we are with you. See people are slowly responding thats a great sign. mack bro, M.P. bro, Jesso baini, now we have Frost bro...slowly but surely we will have enough people to get you out of this , Bickey bhai. La ta aile lai yati nai...Aru pachhi.... Looking forward to hearing from you all... By His Grace, Montou |
| jesso | Posted
on 19-Feb-03 09:43 PM
Here comes our spirit ....spirit of fortune...never let it down!..Robert frost, I am overwhelmed with the encouraging opinions you've mentioned , yeah! we need to work for it..lets work hard.. i have intuition whats gonna happen next. i m really into it. Bickey, dont panic, i really do understand whats going on with u, u might have feeling of being thwarted, that happens but we need to think twice before we proceed..And we are working together, montou dai is doing the best he can, Dont worry, we wont let u go back to Nepal...I m in full hope about the solution..only the matter is time, it heals.... at last, "Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see"....so, why not to be kind since we have Nepali spirit?. Peace! |
| Prem Charo | Posted
on 19-Feb-03 11:54 PM
Bickey Rimal, I wish you good luck and I will pray to God that he will grant a way to make better your situation. God loves all. Mack, You are the man. kura kasto mitho gareko. According to you "jesso's words are words of emotional empowerment for Bickey bro and whoever can relate to so its ok to be philosophical (if thats what u call it)...and I am with u on being practical as well." I like your writing style. Made me think twice and I realize I shouldn't be writing this way. After you gave me the good answer, I felt better. Thanks. Montou, You said you want explanation (enlighten) of my statement? Who are you and why should I enlighten you? If you are wise, You can figur it out like Mack did, I have one song for you; Bujhne lai yo kuro gahiro cha Nabujne lai tundikhel ma pairo cha. Go and have some classes with Mack. :P :) |
| GurL_Interrupted | Posted
on 20-Feb-03 12:25 AM
Hi Bickey, U r in my prayers. Take care. ,G_I. |
| DWI | Posted
on 20-Feb-03 01:52 AM
I had abandoned this thread when the originator himself disappeared and left us discussing alone. But since Bickey is back and Montou has shown such a big desire to help, I am checking it back. People have raised a plausible doubt that he might not be for real. Even if he is, who guarantees this is the last situation of such nature? Bickey should have planned well and now should understand the hardship. Point taken, but with Montou's vouch on genuinity, I think we should give it a kind consideration. I really hope Bickey finds a cosigner. If not, few members have chipped in to contribute some amount. Count me in. Hopefully we can raise that much money; practically its gonna be very hard. Even if you chip in $50 per person, you need 80 people to contribute. May be Bickey can find few other contributors. Lets help the friend in need. If we can raise that much money, may be we can create a bank account or something (in Sajha's name), deposit that money. Then Bickey can take money from that amount, promising to pay in full within 3 years of graduation. Once he pays off another person in need can use it with the permission of the caretaker. Either you consider the above idea or not, I hope we can be of some help to another Nepali. Good job Montou. |
| Montou | Posted
on 20-Feb-03 01:52 AM
Prem charo bro, Thank you for the response bro. Well I am nothing prem charo bro. Maile ta sidha jawaf po gareko ta yaar. Aba you said its not practical and I wanted to know about it. I am doing this cause I think its totally practical. So you being a janne sunne manchhe might have known something that I might not have known and hoping to not to have to go through all that troubles I just asked you a simple question. And you are right I am not wise as I could not understand you. Aba time pani chaina natra ta mack bro sanga class linthee ...Aba bro le vaneko statement ho afai nai malai bujhau nu na yaar , hunna ra? "I think it is better to be a practical then philoshophical." Jharko namani malai yaso kuro bujhaunu na yaar prem charo bro. GurL_Interrupted, Thank you for you prayers hai..Much needed at this time. La ta aile lai yati nai... Aru Pachhi... Hoping to hearing from you all .... By His Grace, Montou |
| Prem Charo | Posted
on 20-Feb-03 03:17 AM
YO montou!! Kasto kuraa nabujheko yaar ! yaso uso garyo tyahi kura !! Tyasto ekohoro navauna!! Jaau khurukka Mack lai sodha. Athawa Mack truck chadhera Pashupati Nath ghumera Bagmati ko jal khaayera Aarya Ghaat ko kharaani ko tika lagaayera aau. Ani balla timile kuro bujchau. Navaye ta timro ghaito maa gham laagla jasto chaina. Maile vanna khojeko kura ke ho vane; DWI le jastai paisa uthaaune ho ki ? Athawa yasti solid solution nikaalnu paryo vaneko kya!! Lau kuro bujhayu Montou bro? |
| Montou | Posted
on 20-Feb-03 01:37 PM
DWI bro, Good to see you here. Thank you for the response hai. Yes we are still looking for a co-signer. It would be great if we could find one if not then we have to go with the original plan of contributing. If everybody was to chip in $50 then yeah we need about 80 people. Ani I liked that idea of opening an account in sajha's account and lending it to Bickey bhai so that when he returns the money somebody else can use. Sounds good to me. Anyways thank you so much for your offer DWI bro. Number is increasing and thats so encouraging. Praise God. prem charo bro khai ke ho kura? bujhe bujhe jasto lagyoo aile chai... Bickey bhai if you happen to read this can you please contact me ... La ta aile lai yati nai... Just stopped by to see who had dropped by...Thread pani front page bata lop bhaisakya raichha... Hoping to hear from you all hai... By His Grace, Montou |
| jesso | Posted
on 20-Feb-03 10:19 PM
montou dai..i m soo happy atleast.. hamro sathi haru are taking interest...lets pray , it works out... peace |
| khukuree | Posted
on 20-Feb-03 10:39 PM
can't we help this guy without involving god. i'd be glad to help. i don't know but i feel like there's a christianity vibe going on. let's not involve religion. |
| jesso | Posted
on 20-Feb-03 10:46 PM
khukuree.... nope not at all, we cant relate to it ni....no religion , its just the concern about bickey dai..how can we help him get out of his misery matra hooo...montou dai le tyasto kehi religion involve garnu bhayeko chaina.... thanks khukuree...., atleast u r interested in it.. peace! |
| Prem Charo | Posted
on 21-Feb-03 01:51 AM
Montou, Ajhai pani bujhe bujhe jasto maatra vanchau kya ho ? Katti bujh pachaauna sakya ? Timro dimaag ho ki tube light ho? ajhai jhip jhip maatra vaa jasto cha. Kahile balne ho ? Switch on ta maile maathi nai gardi saken !! Khukuree, I got that feeling too. I know one thing. Nepali janma jaat nai christian ta hoina hola. Yedi ho vane, I don't have anything to say.If somebody changes his/her relision it is like betraying their parants. Now a days people changes their religion for money, to come to US, or else, personal reasons. Especially in remote Nepal. Rs.1000.00 maa Baptise garaayeko mero aakhan le nai dekhe ko chu. Dhikkar cha tyaslai jasle birsyo desh ko maato Shraap laagcha tyaslai jasle bechyo (trade) dharma ko baato. Kabibar Prem Charo. |
| sajan | Posted
on 21-Feb-03 04:19 AM
Extremely obnoxious and pathetic news ! Hope it has been solved out as I can see many of the suggestions has been generated for related purpose. Sajan |
| Montou | Posted
on 21-Feb-03 12:36 PM
Hey Jesso baini, Thank you again for your constant support and concern hai. khukuree bro, Though I am a Christian, I am not trying to bring that up here in this situation. I want to clarify you of that. And thank you for your offer to help khukuree bro. prem charo bro, khai yaar tube light vanu ki tyo vanda pani khattam ho mero dimag...anyways tyata tira focus vanda ni yo situtation tira focus garnu parla aba... Sajan bro ko kura chai feri prem charo bro ko jastai nabujhne khalko raichha yaar... Anyways its good to see new faces here... La ta keep your postings flowing hai... Bickey bhai if you read this please contact me hai... La ta...You all have a great day... By His Grace, Montou |
| bickey rimal | Posted
on 21-Feb-03 08:10 PM
I have a meeting with my advisor on monday. I am hoping that he will come up with a good solution. I am planning to tell him that my parents are willing to sell even our house but are unable because of thepresent situation in Nepal. I am willing to cry if need be. I will let you guys know how the meeting goes. I really appreciate your concern, your suggestions have been really very helpful Thanks a lot and keep up the good work. |
| sajan | Posted
on 22-Feb-03 04:40 AM
Montou jee, I am unable to get it "Sajan bro ko kura chai feri prem charo bro ko jastai nabujhne khalko raichha yaar...". Would you please don't mind to elaborate it for which I would be glad and indebted too. Bickey Rimal jee, I am very much happy to see you post which signals that you have had a positive meetings with you advisor. I hope he will try to understand you positively. I wish you good luck....... Thanks ! Sajan |
| DWI | Posted
on 22-Feb-03 12:45 PM
Bickey, do update us on Monday. Don't feel bad if the outcome is negative. Did you inquire about AMS that I talked about? (tuitionpay). They offer installment plans. If we can collect some money right now, we can pay the first few installments now, depending upon how much we collect. |
| jesso | Posted
on 22-Feb-03 06:06 PM
Bikey! lets hope for the best ! hai....hope everything will work out for ya .. montou dai..where r u? jessi |
| najar | Posted
on 22-Feb-03 07:23 PM
Bickey, it might not be a bad idea to meet with international advisor, dean of student services and VP or President also for that matter, if you have not already. Sometimes shooting the top notch will yield effective and accelerated result. Wish you good luck. |
| jesso | Posted
on 22-Feb-03 08:43 PM
najar, yeah ! u r right!...its better to try but not to be too much dependent ...sometimes u may might be thinking about positive..but ur expectation might go in vain., ...tara pani its worth to be optimist sometimes...k thaha kehi bhaihalcha ki..So, its better if Bickey talks with his advisor.. DWI, Thats not bad idea ni ...we can help him to pay in installment but bickey needs to find info about it. all the best! jessi |
| Montou | Posted
on 22-Feb-03 10:14 PM
Hey All, Ma ekchhin harako ta yaha nikai responses haru ayechha...Thats awesome! Let me now say something regarding all these responses. Sajan bro, it might be just a misunderstanding. Since its different when you post a message than when you talk to a person. You might have meant it differently and I might have understood differently. If thats the case, I would like to apologize from my side. Actually what I meant was you said, "extremely obnoxious and pathetic news !" When I read this I got total negative vibes. Why would this be an obnoxious and pathetic? Well maybe its just unintended meaning of the words. Anyways did you get what I meant. If I have misunderstood please accept my apology. DWI bro is here again with his words of encouragement and desire to help. I really appreciate that bro. Thank you for your support. Jesso baini, timilai ta ke vanu? You are so into this matter. Thank you so much for your constant support and concern. najar (didi) good to see you here. Thank you for your suggestion and concern. Your offer to help is highly appreciated. Okay having said that there is a GOOD NEWS for all of us supporters and obviously for Bickey bhai himself. After talking to the professors, one of them helped to reduce his total cost by 50%. Aint that awesome? Gurl_Interrupted and others might be praying real hard, huh? A huge answer to our prayers. Now we only have to come up with $2000 and thats gets lots stress off us. Yes I am still looking for a co-signed but to no avail. But my hopes still up. Just wondering if any of you know a US citizen or a GC Holder? La ta aile lai yati nai... Vanna ta nikai maan lako chha tara this is it for now... Hoping to see more of your responses.... Bickey bhai you are still in my prayers... U all have a great day!!! By His Grace, Montou |
| Gurl_Interrupted | Posted
on 22-Feb-03 10:33 PM
Whoa , Cheers Bickey and everyone else! That's a dream come true even though there is still some more to be done. U didn't gave hope...and u were humble and gracious enuff to pour ur problems out and let others know U needed help...Way to go boy!! I'm so happy, seriously! that something worked out! I so much wish I had $$$'s in my hand to help you...I guess sometimes in life, $$$'s doesn't support your willingness and a heart. But newayz, I'm so excited something worked out. Thanks God! I will keep on praying for you...U will still be in my prayers. Keep up your spirit to persevere despite some "u dont' matter stares" and all problems. I know u'll be there. Hope, someday U go Faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar Faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar ahead in Life reaching the satrs! I know you wiLL! Just keep moving...don't stop...Learn from your difficult times...leave them behind and keep moving on. U got that WiLL and determination!...which many of us have forgotten or lack! Take Care. To everyone else with the most beautifuL heart in the world, Hats off for you! |
| DWI | Posted
on 22-Feb-03 10:49 PM
Wow, what a news. Good job Bickey, that's a great accomplishment. Right on Jesso. Gurl_Interrupted, I am sure Bickey appreciates your and all of our concern even if anybody cannot help him financially. Okay Montou jyu, what's the plan now? I guess we are waiting for a cosigner. And if that doesn't work out, Montou let us know when the donation plan should be started. |
| najar | Posted
on 22-Feb-03 10:54 PM
montou, that is really a good news, a big burden off for bickey. And montou i commend your good heart and willingness to take leadership on this matter. My offer to contribute a small amount still stands, but as you together with several others have suggested, finding a co-signer would be a most practical and immediate solution. The process of collecting and transferring the funding could very well take some time. |
| Montou | Posted
on 22-Feb-03 11:23 PM
Gurl_Interrupted, Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. Though you cannot support him financially, your heart is there. And thats whats important. Would appreciate continued prayers for him. Its being answered. DWI bro, Plan for now is to search more for a co-signer. If that works out we wont be asking for contribution. If not we have to go for contribution. I will definitely let you know when. Thank you for your constant support and concern. Najar (didi), Yeah that would be great to find a co-signer. Its will obviously be kind a hassle to transfer funds but it can be done. So I am just praying and surely God will show us a way- the BEST WAY. Thank you for your concern and support najar (didi). I guess thats it for now. I dont know why when I read the responses I have that strong urge to write something. Atleast to acknowledge my appreciation to all supporters and well-wishers. La ta aile lai yati nai... Hope to see more responses... By His Grace, Montou |
| bickey rimal | Posted
on 22-Feb-03 11:32 PM
Hello Everyone, I met my advisor yesterday and I talked about everything in detail with him. I told him that I really wanted to pay them but am unable to them. So he told me that there is no way I could get money from my college, but he will look up for other options and would call me later if he found anything good. Later he called me and said that he got $2000 for me from a foundation. I went to his office and he told me that he called the foundation and told them about my GPA last semester and my accomplishments in Nepal. I could not believe what he was saying. It certainly is the greatest news I have ever heard in my life. Thank you everyone for visiting this link and giving your invaluable advices. If you guys could come up with a way to get rid of the remaining 2000, I would be really grateful Thankyou again for everything you have odne. Bickey. |
| sajan | Posted
on 23-Feb-03 09:47 AM
Montou jee, You're right we have had misunderstanding. When I have read Bickey's original post and found out that he has a gigantic trouble with his college regarding tution fees. WHich is of course his obnoxious and pathetic news. As we are being his mates and well-wisher its' our obnoxious and pathetic news too. In that context, I have expresse my view on that way. I do hope you with me now. Many thanks once again for making it clear. It happens sometimes doesn't it. Sajan |
| jesso | Posted
on 23-Feb-03 09:45 PM
wow! i was soo much with it ..atlast! it worked out!....Credit goes to montou dai!. It would not have been come up with such a good result if montou dai hadnt put such a great effort.. Bickey! for 2000 dollars, If possible we can help u tara...we need other's support too..but lets think positive hope it works out. |
| sajan | Posted
on 24-Feb-03 03:58 AM
Yeaha ! This is the pragmatic way to thrash out any sort of an eminent dispute. Thanks ! Sajan |
| Montou | Posted
on 26-Feb-03 12:32 AM
Hey All, How you all doing? This is my attempt to bring this thread in the front page. Kati chadai haraisake ko yaar yo thread ta... La ta aile lai yati nai...Aru Pachhi... Hoping to hearing from you all... By His Grace, Montou |
| bickey rimal | Posted
on 26-Feb-03 09:08 AM
Hi Everyone, I am really happy that my college agreed to get rid of some of the money but stiil I need to pay around $2000 to my college. I am still looking for a co-signer but to no avail. Now the college is telling me to pay the remaining money as soon as possible. I fell that I should pay the money soon so that I can return the huge favors they bestowed on me. Please guys, help me out and I guarantee that your help will not go in vain. Thank you so much. Bickey. |
| jesso | Posted
on 26-Feb-03 08:47 PM
bickey!...dont worry! i think we need to talk to montou dai about it. Hope it works out. |
| Trikal | Posted
on 27-Feb-03 01:34 AM
Bickey bhai, Please provide me info. I will make your kundali. May be you need to do some puja, Prarthana and graha shanti. I can tell you, what you need to do. No harm to try !! (Info = birthdate,birthtime and birth place) You can post your info in "Ask me your future 3" Montouji, Please let me know if I can do anything for bickey bhai. TRIKAL................................... |
| Montou | Posted
on 27-Feb-03 02:03 AM
Trikal bro, Bro ko posting padhera malai ta ekdaam khusi lagyoo yaar... I hope you have been following whats happening since the beginning hai na ta? So now we are still in search of a US citizen or a Green Card Holder to co-sign the loan form. If not then we are contributing whatever we can to come up with $2000 or close to it. Tyahi ho Trikal bro aile garna sakne... Let me know what you think... la ta aile lai yati nai ... Aru pachhi... Sajha basi haru ajhai kina chup chap chaan khai? By His Grace, Montou |
| Montou | Posted
on 03-Mar-03 03:02 AM
Hey All, How you all doing? Nobody responded after me huh. Time is running out and I have not had any luck yet. Needless to say that some of the people who offered help have been real encouraging. Please I again request all of you to consider this issue. Many of you might thinking ko na ko lai garne help...Afulai ta kasle garos? Chaina paisa ma sanga ... But I tell you the truth, you are more blessed when you give...You will be rewarded more than what you give...Obviously what can compare to the happiness and joy you get by helping others? Though you cannot change the world you sure can change Bickey bhai's life and he is part of the world. Dont you feel happy when you have helped somebody and now you have the opportunity. GRAB THAT OPPORTUNITY NOW... Am I expecting too much or what? Am I thinking right or just living in a Fool's Paradise? Please help me out. Please speak up! La aru ke vanau ma? Sabailai thaha nai chha....Ma kati karaune yaar... Hoping to hearring from you all.... Bickey bhai hang in there....Am praying for you... La ta...U all take care ... By His Grace, Montou |
| jesso | Posted
on 04-Mar-03 12:46 PM
I dont know what is going around. Hope Bickey is doing fine since havent heard frm him. Montou dai, what should we do and how should we proceed. I m ready anytime but let me know if u need my help. Aru ma ke bhanna sakchu ra. If someone's interested let us know from Sajha's kurakani...We need ur help..sachhai bhanya// peace! |
| DWI | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 08:19 PM
What's the progress? |
| Montou | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 09:51 PM
DWI bro, Good to see finally this thread in the front page. Dhanyabaad hai DWI bro. Whats the progress? Well the biggest progress was the balance being reduced from $4000 to $2000. I think you already know that. As of now we are still searching for a US citizen or a Green Card Holder. I know the time is running out but again I am in full faith the something will work out. In case we are not being able to find one then we have to go for contribution from people. I will email you and other people who have offered help the address where you can send the money. I dont know how much thats going to be. I will be able to get $500 as loan too. So if more people get involved then this is a very reachable goal. It should not be a big deal at all. The only problem is that people are not getting "convicted" yet. DWI bro aile tyati ho...I have not given up and am still praying and hoping for the best... Just in case you want to talk about this case,feel free to email me at montougurung@hotmail.com or call me at 308 635 2191 hai ta... La aru pachhi kura garam la... Dhanyabaad...take care and keep in touch... By His Grace, Montou |
| DWI | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 10:01 PM
Sounds good Montou, Lets still hope that Bickey will find a co-signer as that is without a shadow of doubt, the best option. Otherwise we'll help as much as we can. |
| Bickey Rimal | Posted
on 06-Mar-03 06:44 PM
Hi Everyone, I think I have run out of time now. I looked for every possible option but none of them worked out. The only option remaining, I think is raising money now. Please everyone, rest assured that, if you lend me money right now I will pay you after this summer. I met my financial aid officer and he said that they had a feeling that I was thinking about not paying the money at all. I made him believe that I will pay the money by the end of this month. So everyone please, help me out. Bickey. |
| DWI | Posted
on 06-Mar-03 08:14 PM
Bickey I will talk to Montou sometime next week. Hope few others will be ready for the loan too. |
| Biratnagare | Posted
on 06-Mar-03 08:33 PM
business office and int'l office don't have nothing to do each others. Just because u failed to make payment for ( how much money u owe?, they can not report to INS, if someone actually said that to you, then u should not discourage urself. Just make them believe that u are having problems bringing money from nepal, and it will take some time, and find out some work in summer as others have suggested, and pay it off before another term starts. I still doubt how business office would dare to report ur delinquent account with the INS? I have also worked in international students' office before, and we had number of such delinquent accounts, tons of them, noone was being reported....it's all crap... |
| dangggg | Posted
on 07-Mar-03 02:35 AM
Whoa, everybody's trying to help Bickey Bro. Thats so nice of fellow nepali friends but where are the real sajhaites??? I don't see any active sajhaites like, rusty, sitara, oys_chill.... and others responding this thread:| Anyway, I think I have found the solution to Bibek's problem. Montou bro, why don't you ask somebody in your church about co-signing the loan for Bickey. Maybe the church itself can be the co-signer. Have you tried that? Maybe you should talk to the peacher/father/brother whoever handles the finance of the church. Church le sponser garyo bhane ta Bickey le $4000 matrai hoina $400,000 ko loan pauna sakcha but...... (there is always a butt) to get sponsered by the church, Bickey will have to become a Christian as the church doesn't help non-christians ( well! sometime it might do if it can persuade them to become christian eventually). Montou bro, talk to your fellow christians about that and the issue Bibek is facing. Maybe you guys can negociate with Bickey guru/baje about becoming a Christian. Montou bro, You gotta tell Bickey what Jebus can do for him. Jebus can solve not only the problem he is facing at the movement but all his problems and heal his soul re kya. On Montou's face:p, dangggggg |
| jesso | Posted
on 07-Mar-03 08:20 PM
Yeah for sure dangg! I guess it would take a long time for what u talked about. Why cant we help Bickey? just by chipping some amount. " Thopa , Thopa le samundra bancha" haina raa..heheh! ma chai ali ...hmm k bhannu budhi bhaye jasto cha, mero hajur boowa ko yaad aayo . DWI , u need to talk to montou dai, please post if any decision made... peace! |
| DWI | Posted
on 07-Mar-03 08:46 PM
Yeah, Jesso. I have some questions which I don't wanna post here. But can we have few more supporters? |
| jesso | Posted
on 07-Mar-03 09:11 PM
DWI what r those questions?? u can send me email |
| Montou | Posted
on 07-Mar-03 09:50 PM
Oho good to see some responses here. I am always excited to see people post in this thread. Biratnagare bro, Bickey bhai has already tried that option and it did not work. He has to pay before summer. anyways good to hear. U take care bro and if you feel like helping then write back and let us know. Would really appreciate that. dangggg bro, Yeah thats a good suggestion. I am trying that too. But its a sad reality that all the churches are not like they are supposed to be. I know it really hurts to know that as I am a Christian myself. But few Christians do know the Lord and love Jesus and live a true Christian Life. But majority of Christians dont. But still I am trying to get help from churches. But if there was an ideal church then yes we would have raised 40000 not only 4000 but thats not the case. Anyways I am giving it a shot. Who knows I might come across the "few" of the genuine ones. Thank you anyways dangggg bro. Take care and keep in touch. And if you feel like you should help then let us know. That woud be great. Jesso baini, Ke timilai ta ma ke vanu? timi ta ma vanda ni badhi lagya chau yo Bickey bhai ko case ma...talk to you later hai ta... DWI bro, Its really nice to see you here. Really appreciate your help. Yeah it would be great if more people offered help. Time is running and dont know why everybody is quiet. Anyways DWI bro you said you have few questions. Please do email me at montougurung@hotmail.com or call me at 308 635 2191. I will be out of town on Saturday and will be back Sunday afternoon. La ta talk to you late hai..thank you so much. La ta aile lai yati nai... TIME IS RUNNING OUT.... Ma aru ke vanau aba? By His Grace, Montou |
| Gurl_Interrupted | Posted
on 08-Mar-03 01:33 AM
Montou. Jesso, Dwi and the rest!, Keep up ur good work! Can bickey try on getting a credit card? Incase, you guys cannot come up with 2000, it will be handy. |
| jesso | Posted
on 10-Mar-03 08:16 PM
where's bickey? montou dai what should we do ? k garne hola dai... let me know hai peace |
| DWI | Posted
on 10-Mar-03 09:17 PM
Jesso and Montou, I have just sent the questions to the email address that Montou provided. Jesso is a girl? Didn't know, but highly appreciate your concern for a Nepali Brother. I am not a social service worker, but felt like helping this friend, Bickey. |
| Montou | Posted
on 10-Mar-03 10:33 PM
Hey DWI bro, Good to see you here. Bro le kun email address ma pathako ? Maile ta paye na ta. montougurung@hotmail.com ma ho? la feri try hanam ta... natra phone gare ni hunchha 308 635 2191 ma.. bro lai je maan lagchha tyahi gara hai ta.... la aile ma lage yaar... By His Grace, Montou |
| DWI | Posted
on 10-Mar-03 10:43 PM
Yeah that's the one. Do check again, and lemme know if you didn't get it. |
| Montou | Posted
on 10-Mar-03 11:36 PM
Hey DWI bro, Ke vayo yaar? maile payena email. khai ke vo ke? Try at montou_g@yahoo.com...lets see if yahoo works for you... La ta hai... I will check in a little while.. la ma lage aba By His Grace, Montou |
| DWI | Posted
on 11-Mar-03 11:17 PM
Montou, I have sent emails to both addresses. Lemme know. |
| Montou | Posted
on 21-Mar-03 02:32 PM
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| chipledhunga | Posted
on 21-Mar-03 03:11 PM
Here you go Montou :)  Also in order to expedite the process, please follow what I advised you ASAP. |
| khimu | Posted
on 21-Mar-03 04:35 PM
lots money hun! 1 year ma kati tirnu parchha ni |
| Montou | Posted
on 21-Mar-03 10:19 PM
Chiple bro, Dhanyabaad hai..... khai aru ke add garne ra? Financial statement yahi ho? Bank balance chaina hola..... khai yaar chiple bro? la ta yesle matra hudaina???? talk to you soon chiple bro.....dhanyabaad hai feri.... By His Grace, Montou |
| DWI | Posted
on 22-Mar-03 11:04 AM
What was that Montou? Why the need of Fin. Statement? |
| Montou | Posted
on 22-Mar-03 09:47 PM
DWI bro, That was chiple bro's request dwi bro. He told me to post those documents for others to see. So thats what I did. Acutally I did half the work and chiple bro helped me to post it here. I hope this does not confuse or bring any negative "vibes" ANYWAYS....FOLKS.....TIME IS RUNNING OUT..... Since I could not get any co-signers we have to contribute to reach that goal of $2000. So I will be soon posting Bickey bhai's address so we can start sending the MONEY. Thank You all for all your support and help. Take care all and hoping to hear from you. By His Grace, Montou |
| DWI | Posted
on 22-Mar-03 10:00 PM
Got it. Let us know when we should start. Can we have few more people here, please??? Whatever contribution you can give, donation or loan. I have verified that the cause is justified. |
| Montou | Posted
on 24-Mar-03 10:29 PM
HEY ALL, Okay I am here now. Those who are wondering whats going on with this case, I am here to tell you. We have come to the final decision. Since its almost end of this month we had to better act. I am very sad to say that as planned it did not work out. We could not find a co-signer and now we have to depend on ALL who are willing to contribute. This is for ALL of us but I am going to mention their names who got back to me regarding this in the past. Thank you so much for all your support and help. You maynot realise now what you have done but somewhere down the line you will be very BLESSED. Thank you again. DWI bro, Sitara didi, Jesso baini, Robert Frost bro, najar [didi] , mack bro, M.P. bro, GurL_Interrupted didi/baini ,dns bro, dukulathak and chiple bro........ Okay now its time to contribute as you feel ... If you know anybody please encourage that person to contribute as well.... PLEASE SEND THE MONEY, CHECK, or ANYTHING at the following address: Bickey Rimal Colgate University 13 Oak Drive Box R- 4628 Hamilton, NY 13346 La ta aile lai yati nai..... If you have any questions, please email me at montougurung@hotmail.com or simply call me at 308 635 2191. By His Grace, Montou |
| DWI | Posted
on 25-Mar-03 12:03 PM
Montou, Is his real name Bickey or Sirish? Can you give his email address? |
| chipledhunga | Posted
on 25-Mar-03 02:15 PM
Montou, what is this here? The uploaded financial statement is from Anderson University in Indiana but now you have given the address for Colgate University, NY. Can you please clarify us? |
| bickey rimal | Posted
on 25-Mar-03 06:23 PM
Hi Everyone, Actually I am the one who started this thread but it was for my brother Sirish. Originally I posted the messge using my name and was waiting for the right moment to inform you guys. I think it is high time that I told you the truth. My brother is the one who is going through all this trouble and luckily, I have managed to raise some money and and we still need aroun $1500. I am sorry for not telling you the truth earlier. But I don't think it matters that as much right now because what is really important right now is getting Sirish out of the trouble he is going through. I really appreciate your willingness to help me. Its feels so great to see that there are people who are willing to help you and you are not alone. Thank you so much. I think it will be better to send the money directly to Sirish instead of me. His address is: Sirish Rimal, Anderson University, 1100 East Fifth Street, Anderson 46012,Indiana |
| Montou | Posted
on 25-Mar-03 07:51 PM
DWI bro, Chiple bro and All, I knew this would cause some confusion. And I wanted to clarify earlier but then thought since we are all honest and this is not a scam so I just let it go....And thought I would tell you guys if anybody had question. And sure enough you all seemed to be confused. And thats all my fault ... After I talked to Bickey on the phone I found out the true reason. Bickey and Sirish are cousins. Actually Sirish was the one who should have started this thread. But he was too depressed and too hopeless to start anything. He was going through that stage of depression. It might be hard for those who have not been through this situation but its pretty bad when you are hopeless and seems like there is no way out. So Sirish did not want to do anything and Bickey being his cousin took the initiative. Sorry to have caused all this confusion. So please dont get too confused. Its my fault that I did not clarify this earlier. But please dont think otherwise and hope this little confusion will not change your decision to help. DWI bro you can email Bickey bhai at brimal@mail.colgate.edu OR email me at montougurung@hotmail.com or call me at 308 635 2191... THANK YOU AGAIN FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT AND HELP... Aile lai yati nai... By His Grace, Montou |
| Trikal | Posted
on 26-Mar-03 03:04 AM
Bickey Rimal, I didn't understand why are you asking money from other people?? Cause It's been almost one and half months that you are desperate for money. If you would work in any place, you could make easily $1000-$1200 (doing odd job) in one month. I think it is better to find a job and pay your loan. If you need help to find job, I can help you to find a job around the Boston. Almost 90 % of people are having this type of problem, Who goes to college, here in united states. If everybody ask for money......then what happens ?? Rimalji....GOOD LUCK !!! |
| dangggg | Posted
on 01-Apr-03 10:00 PM
La, what's happening??? I think rimal bro already got what he wanted. he hasn't posed anything in almost 10 days now. dangggg |