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| czechmartin | Posted
on 28-Feb-03 11:52 AM
Hello again, few days ago I had post here story with big supplication to all of us to help me find a Nepalese girl studied in Baltimore, which stole my hearth in the airplane. No I can't find that forum, so, sorry if can be duplicity here - I'm not too experienced user of this website, you know. Can me also give tips to Nepali other website, which is visiting with Nepali students in America? I hope that I'll find her somewhere in internet. Please, who of you study at any Baltimore's university, please contact me. I need your help to find your sister. I'm preparing to come Baltimore also, but I don't know this city and theres american life. So, here was my first letter here> Hello everybody, as I see this discussion, you all are really happy people. A lot of comments about love, emotion, mind and other psychical and unmaterial things. I'm from Czech republic, so I'm really bored from this "west" type of life - everything is about business, money and power. You are so lucky. I hope that my present here don't hamper you. So, now what I'm doing here and how I opened eyes> Last Thursday I flew back from my holiday in Bangkok to Vienna and in the airplain I meet HER. Really pretty girl from Kathmandu. We chatted all the flight and very well undrestood each other. It were my happiest 11 hours in my life. I'm sure, that was destiny love. I hope so, for her, because she was very happy and said that she loves me. She was very nice and natural entity. I'm sure, she also felt it. When I ended in Vienna, she continued to Washington, than to Baltimore, where she study. The worst is, than I don't have contact to her. I fully understood what she means for me after it, when I came home, to Prague. Now I know, that I will do everything for her. I'm ready to drop everything here and be with her. I really never felt this to anyone. So, please, who can help me find her, help me. I know almost all about her and it can't be so difficult to find her in Baltimore on university. I'm ready to reward everybody, who helped me. I have also reserve flight ticket to Washington, to find her personally. But a little problem is, that I never been to US before, don't know Baltimore, university system and students life at well. I need your help, can you? So, I can give what you want from our "exotic" country in the middle of Europe, as a gift, if you have interest. Please, help me, who can. Maybe is her allready your friend, or you can anybody who knows her. I'm sure, that with my detail desription we will find her. Everything what I now need is good heart in Baltimore who help me. Please, please.. Please contact me as soon as possible, I'm thinking about her every minute, it's very hard live in insecurity, you know. Martin E-mail: martin.ladyr@dxt.cz Tel. GSM: +420 603 474 294 |
| mack | Posted
on 28-Feb-03 02:10 PM
Martin, Think it over again before u make a radical decision such as flying to baltimore. Sounds like its jsut an infatuation. So let us know once u reevaluate your feelings. good luck. |
| suva chintak | Posted
on 28-Feb-03 03:21 PM
Dear czechmartin, I feel your pain brother, what a perfect love story. But it might just be too good to be true. I am sure she did say "I love you" to you, but don't forget that was at 35,000 ft when she said that. When you come down to earth, the reality changes. Besides, if you happen to be on the window seat and the guy is blocking the aisle seat, you will have to say many nice things if you don't want to have a miserable for 11 hours up there in thin air. So take it easy, and if she really loves you, she will track you down, you have to grant a Gorkheni that much. Keep the faith! |
| MAX101 | Posted
on 28-Feb-03 09:42 PM
Hello Mr Czech, My suggestion to you is don't come to balitmore without knowing her whereabouts. I think you should try to get email or something. Search the Nepali white pages, http://www.nepalhorizons.com/mail/index.html there are some emails of nepalese in Balitmore. you could email them and ask them about her. Usually nepalese people have contacts with other nepalese in same region. or may be they can give you better idea how to find her. That's my suggestion, Good luck Bro MAX101 |
| czechmartin | Posted
on 01-Mar-03 03:18 AM
Brothers, thank you very much for your aspiration to help me. Unfortunately in my previous topic a lot of people make fun of it.. and it can be the reason to delete it by admin. So, I know that fly to Baltimore can be also vain, but if I dont't try every possibilites to reach her I will cut it fine for the rest of my life. And I'm afraid, that every day can be harder and harder find her.. in that case if I know only her fisrt name - Bina.. and also with it I'm not so sure. And also my personall present can look more serious for your brothers and sisters there and maybe better reason to help me.. than only here from internet, where they don't know me, don't know what think about it etc. I'm trying for 10 days contact somebody from Baltimore to helping me, I'm afraid without succes till now. I don't know what now.. I have got already book flying ticket to 12th March and on Monday I will have to pay for that.. but in any case I will not regret it. Of course, I'm also ready to bad facts for me and I will respect her feeling. But I don't beleive, that she can lied - due tu her clear character,... and that heart breaking leave-taking .. Or it was only a dream and I whole 11 hours in the plane slept? And don't think that was something intimate - just very beautiful chatting which respecting and understanding each other, touch and I think 3 kisses to the end... Is it possilbe that she has not acces to internet on college? She said, that starts at school on 1st March - so, maybe this Monday. max> thanks a lot bro.. this is exactly that, what can help me and what I was also searching there... Martin |
| BRIT | Posted
on 01-Mar-03 03:39 AM
Dear Martin, Can you share some of the talk you've had with her during your 11 hour journey? your well wisher |
| sajan | Posted
on 01-Mar-03 04:28 AM
Dear Martin, We all know you are too desparate to find her. Its' been few days still no good news. Have you got any clue khaire dai. Wish you for good luck ! Sajan |
| czechmartin | Posted
on 01-Mar-03 04:46 AM
Dear Brit, we talked about many topics such a hobbies, culture, educations, live in your country, live here in Czech, religions, etc.. I nearly know whole her biography, you know.. Dear Sajan, thank you for your support. If you want and can help me, I can send you to mail detail information about her - so I don't want to publish them here, because I'm not sure if she will want this publicity. Martin |
| Montou | Posted
on 01-Mar-03 05:42 AM
czechmartin bro, I feel you brother when you truely love a girl. But I am not in Baltimore area and dont know anybody there. So I dont know what to tell you bro. But I will definitely PRAY for you. And thats the best I can do for you now. Hopefully God will use some body to locate her. I truely hope that you will find her. I feel bad too knowing your situation and not being able to do anything. But hey God does work in a mysterious way so we never know, I will keep on praying for you my czech brother. By His Grace, Montou |
| mack | Posted
on 01-Mar-03 09:32 AM
martin, ur waisting your time....take my advice.... dont beleive in true love and sing this song instead. Probably she is already doing someone elase already so sing this song and be happy http://starterupsteve.com/swf/Group_X_video.html? |
| differentlysane | Posted
on 01-Mar-03 02:51 PM
kasto ridiculous manche hola if u were so fascinated by this girl why did u not get her email add and her phone number while u were "11 hours" in the freaking plane with her....i mean that would have made sense right? and also u would not have had to plan to go to baltimore so blindly ni...my advice is forget it now and get on in life.....and the next time u meet someone who so fascinates u please ask for her number and email immediately |
| Padme | Posted
on 02-Mar-03 07:05 AM
differentlysane ji, I am thinking the same thing. What kinda guy will not get a contact info despite getting all other personal information?? |
| sajan | Posted
on 02-Mar-03 09:31 AM
Dear martin, Sorry for delay in response. yeah ! you can send me an e-mail at sspinya@yahoo.com Hope to hear from you. Thanks ! Sajan |
| baltimore | Posted
on 02-Mar-03 10:09 AM
Martin , Baltimore is not a big city to find someone. Since you are coming from that far with a strong willing power I am sure that you will find her. Keep faith in yourself you will be okay. The information you have posted about her is not enough for me to find out who is she, but the name you have posted here gives some hope. I have seen a girl with this name in a party few weeks back. If thats her she is damn good man. It worths anybody to cheat their girlfriend for her. later, Baltimore |
| czechmartin | Posted
on 02-Mar-03 12:10 PM
Brothers, you are right, to don't take contact for her was a big mistake.. but it did.. Now I'm doing everything possible to reach her. Dear Sajan, I already send you informations about her, did you receive allright? Dear Baltimore (curious nickname), how big is Baltimore? And how many people live there? Are you actually from this area? Do you think you will want help me? I'm afraid, that the girl, which you mean can't be her, because she was now 2 month in Nepal, she came back to US on 20th February in that fligh with me... So, I have allready book flying ticket to 12th March and hope that will come to Baltimore and definitely find her.. but better to find her on internet and certainly knows, that I'll meet her there... Martin |
| sajan | Posted
on 03-Mar-03 04:33 AM
Dear Martin, I am afraid I haven't received any one your mail. Could you please confirm again in which address you have sent. Was it on sspinya@yahoo.com or somewhere else. Resend it again. Thanks ! Sajan |
| czechmartin | Posted
on 03-Mar-03 07:06 AM
Dear Sajan, that is strange, because also yahoo confirmed me delivered. It can be something bad in Outlook - I'm still fighting with it. OK, I'm actually resending it. Hope, that now it is fine. Thank you. Martin |
| baltimore | Posted
on 03-Mar-03 08:39 AM
Martin, I did little investigation about your lost love and found out that she is the one whom i mentioned earlier. Since she is so lovely she is known here as **nu instead of **na. I have alrealy told you that baltiomore is not a big city and almost every Nepalese living here know each other. It means any nepali living here can tell you about her. I hope it helps to you . If you want to find her on your own thats good or if you need more assistance feel free to write. later, Baltimore |
| saral | Posted
on 03-Mar-03 10:27 AM
hi baltimore, can i get her email or phone please. if she is so good i would also like to talk to her, are u sure she does nt have b/f. thanks. sorry martin bro, i am just asking baltimore for her email nothing more. take it easy. |
| mickthesick | Posted
on 03-Mar-03 12:20 PM
hey martin!! dude just give it up...... |
| saral | Posted
on 03-Mar-03 04:45 PM
hi baltimore bro, can u give me that good looking girls email or phone. i am looking for one too. |
| SITARA | Posted
on 03-Mar-03 07:03 PM
Martin ji: "....Or it was only a dream and I whole 11 hours in the plane slept? And don't think that was something intimate - just very beautiful chatting which respecting and understanding each other, touch and I think 3 kisses to the end... " Kises are pretty intense, I think... Give us a good reason why a "clear charactered" girl would allow a perfect stranger to kiss her 3 times and not leave him with an avenue open for future contact? It seems reasonable to assume: -she is openminded and intelligent yet does not feel compelled to contact you herself. -by now she would have had some kind of inkling of your insatiable interest in her; yet, she has not expressed any interest in your quest. One can sense your desperation but it would be wise for those helping you to realize the the implications and responsibilities of revealing someone's identity..... if (God Forbid!), you may be someone she is trying to escape from. Cyber stalking happens everyday leaving many women, teenagers and children vulnerable to fear, aggression, violence and even death! I do suggest that you exercise prudence in this matter if you do arrive at Baltimore (without her consent...and assuming the worst) and take her by surprise (unpleasant),...You may be cited for cyber stalking. Best wishes! |
| saral | Posted
on 03-Mar-03 08:38 PM
I totally agree with sitara. I dont think one good charactered girl will kiss a guy whom she met in plane during the joruney. i can not deny they had chat about other stuffs like culture , relogion which usually happens between two unknowns. and i am sure one well charactered nepali gal dont wanna involve in such stuffs and its not good idea to public her identity. sorry what i said earlier. but i totally agree with SITARA. |
| czar | Posted
on 03-Mar-03 09:04 PM
Sitara spelled it out very clearly for you all, thank you for that. I have pointed this out earlier too. User ‘Baltimore’ seems to be the closest to figuring out who the girl is. Why not tell the object of obsession to have a look at what is going on in sajha.com and let her decide how she wishes to proceed on the matter. This is the best course of action. Any other alternative is foolishness. Czech Martin is displaying all the symptoms of an obsessive and compulsive character. Now I wonder how willing any of you would be help if the girl happened to be your sister or someone you knew well? Right now, none of you have any stake in her welfare. But give it a thought, can you afford to to be so? What is it going to take for people to realize that they might be aiding and abetting a possible cyber stalker? Think about it. Stalking, in person or in cyberspace, is a crime. Which one of you is prepared to be an accessory to a crime? Why? Because someone gives you a sob story? There is yet time to avert this from happening. Give it urgent thought. Before someone spills the beans on the girl’s identity and contact information. Then it will be too late. |
| Gurl_Interrupted | Posted
on 03-Mar-03 09:06 PM
Kissing someone on first date makes u a bad GurL? Could u elaborate plz. Thanks. |
| Padme | Posted
on 04-Mar-03 12:30 AM
Falling in love at sight is possible but does not happen often. Kissing at first encounter does happen but rare. In general that leads to the conclusion that the girl was just "fooling" around. Good luck Martin. Be prepared for the worst.. |
| Poonte | Posted
on 04-Mar-03 08:16 AM
Ani, what about the guy who reciprocates a kiss on a first date ni? Or, for that matter, a guy who initiates a kiss on a first date? Kiss-siss gardaima bad hunchha ta? Je lekhya chha tei hunchha. Aba, hamri Nepali maicha le kiss pani gari re Czech boucha lai...kasari, kahana, kun style ma kiss gari thaha chhaina...ani chwakka kiss gardaima testari marunjel miss garna parchha ta uslai? Usle kaslai fees tirya chha ra? Plane ma fish po khaathyo ki? Ki kunai aru ajeeb ko dish? Feri sarpa le jastai hiss garera thungdinchhe, ani thaha paula! Piss aune gari bhagnu parla! Dherai riss na.uthau hai! Let's not give hamri Nepali sis ko information! Czech boucha...you wish!!!! Loppa khwaidinchhu eeeeeeeessss gardai! Unless, of course, Baltimore maicha also feels the same way about Czech boucha...in which case, bhoj ma daakna nabirsanu hai...sanai fookna euta Poonte damai ta chahiyela ni ;) |
| sajan | Posted
on 04-Mar-03 08:52 AM
Dear checmartin, Thank you for your mail. I have received it. I am in the process in replying. Bye the way I have seen you in WNSO too. Have you got any feed back from there. Being in two different Nepalese Forum what sort of experience you have got ? I personally request you to write few line on it. Wish you good luck ! Thanks ! Sajan |
| czechmartin | Posted
on 04-Mar-03 03:01 PM
Friends, now you detect me - I'm cyber criminal :) But now, without jokeing I really think, that I'm almost normal and hope that also intelligent.. And by the way I'm not hiding my identity and contacts for me... Lighter> hope, you are reading this.. I've got bad news for you :( Today I called to DHL to send you our Becherovka liquer, but they said me, that is prohibit due to your customs officers to send any alhocol to Nepal. I'm sorry for that, bro.. Want you anything other from here? Sajan> which kind of experiences do you mean? From WNSO also now news.. Gurl> yes, I agree, that's not usually, but also is not usuall first meeting for 11 hours, isn't it? Martin |
| MAX101 | Posted
on 04-Mar-03 10:03 PM
so what is the latest progress in this story? did any body contact her at all? |
| Biruwa | Posted
on 04-Mar-03 10:16 PM
All those who abeit cyber criminals are guilty of themselves commiting cyber crime. They are no less. They need to be tried as cyber criminals in united states of Argentina. We need to attack Czech republic or whatever for allowing martin to operate freely. We even need to shut down sajha and wnco and all the rest of the terrorist sites which have become mouth piece of Czech's crimenaliti (Not sure if that is a word! :-) This is Prez Bush. The manimal who is always right! |
| Biruwa | Posted
on 04-Mar-03 10:18 PM
Fellow Sajhites the above posting was made by Prez Bush and not by me. (In case there is any doubt ;-).) |
| sajan | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 03:53 AM
Dear checmartin, yes, being in two different communities obviously you have got some sort two different feelings too. I mean which one you found effective for your purpose ? Have you found any sory of differentiation in members from those two communities ? Thanks ! Sajan |
| MunnaMobile | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 04:06 AM
Poonte..well said.."Kiss Siss gardai ma bad huncha"?..wots wrong in kissing or being kissed on a first date? The Nepali gal inda plane could hv given CzechMartin a simple goodbye Kiss..little did she know it would tigger a volcanic eruption of "I miss you" Lava from da core of CzechMartinz heart and flood all over Sajha. Sitara I agree with you about the long 11 hour dream CzechMartin was seeing..but where I differ is.. he could hv awoken for food n water and asked the gal for her email atleast and then again continue dreaming the part II and Part III and the final episode. Now this brings us to the question..is he a cyber stalker?? whatif? Hello! Hello! whoz this?..Shit! ma Mobile is ringing |
| nepalirose | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 04:29 AM
Hey hey Martin whats going on on with your visa process? |
| czechmartin | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 05:31 PM
Dear friends, thanks for your help and support. Now I'm really happy, because SHE wrote me! She didn't access to internet before... Anyway you are very great community. Hope, that I can be your saathi and also you be glad to sometimes see me here. Dear Pooja, thanks for asking.. I'd already fill forms and hope that be ready soon. They said 3-6 weeks.. it's crazy so long... But now I'm happy, that I'll not come on blind to US.. Martin |
| paramendra | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 05:41 PM
This is interesting ..... lost and found! |
| Himalayas | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 05:47 PM
All the best Martin. My goodness you did so much effort to find her. First to http://chautari.wnso.org , http://forums.nepalisaathi.com , and to http://www.sajha.com . Martin hope your problem is solved. I am really happy for you. Take care. Don't forget to visit us. |
| Montou | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 06:20 PM
czachmartin bro, Praise the Lord! so finally she wrote to you. Thats just awesome. I did not specifically pray for you czechmartin bro but I am happy that things working out for you. I have to be honest here as I did not know how genuine was this case. Anyways you are happy, we are happy and everybody is happy thats how it should be always. U take care bro and all the best... By His Grace, Montou |
| cardinal | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 07:05 PM
"I did not specifically pray for you czechmartin bro but I am happy that things working out for you" maybe that is the why reason things got worked out for him. hehehe Just kidding, Moutou bro, could not help commenting on that ;-) Anyway, czech bro, nice to know thing worked out for you. |
| M.P. | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 09:07 PM
Cardinal, This is the second time that Montou bro's prayer has "worked"! First one was the "Bicky Rimal Kaanda". :) I have an exam tomorrow [I have to read a whole lot on "The Boring Eightees" (as opposed to the Roaring Ninetees)], so I am going to email Montou bro right now! :) :) Montou dai, no offense! I will come prepared to khaawosh a lot of gaali when I come for chat, if I do, this weekend! By His/Her Grace, M.P. |
| Vision | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 09:34 PM
Halleluwah...another miracle!!! |
| Montou | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 09:40 PM
cardinal bro, I thought somebody would comment on that after I posted my message. And sure enough cardinal bro did. Anyways that was a good one from your side. Well I had to be honest there as I never prayed specifically mentioning czechmartin bro in my prayer but I always do pray for all of us. So that general prayer might have worked re kya ajha... Anyways just felt like sharing that.. M.P. bhai la la all the best for your exam. Ani email lekhne re? lekha bhai lekha, I always reply to those who write to me. Ani maile tyo last ko kura chai bujhina yaar...maile kina gali garne ni yaar? gardina gardina ma kasailai gali... la ta yaar aile lai yati nai... Aru pachi.. Sabaijana ramrari basau hai ... By His Grace, Montou |
| Gurl_Interrupted | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 09:51 PM
Hey martin, Glad to know u found ur fren! Good good :-). |
| mickthesick | Posted
on 05-Mar-03 10:05 PM
This is so silly.........you guys enjoy such things.........wow!! |
| sajan | Posted
on 06-Mar-03 03:52 AM
Dear Martin, Good luck buddy ! Go quickly and fetch her allright. Have a great time ! Thanks ! Sajan |
| Jhilke Kyailan | Posted
on 06-Mar-03 05:23 AM
I too once loved a girl...alas....the bitch broke my heart.... |
| MunnaMobile | Posted
on 06-Mar-03 05:29 AM
Jhilke was it on a plane or a ship?? I did prefer a ship..you hv more time to realize the whole situation b4 its too late. Moreover if it works out you can find a suitable temptation Island to begin with. |
| Jhilke Kyailan | Posted
on 06-Mar-03 02:33 PM
My feet were on the ground but my heart and my mind......somewhere in the clouds, soaring with the birds majestically over the landscape...never wanting to come down..until..... that fateful day..Aug 16...........'94....was brought back down earth with a BANG...... The day...the DAY she tore my heart into million different pieces and scattered them all over the hills of that most romantic of hill stations........Turning me into a shadow of my former self.....Half a man..forever doomed to walk this earth in lonesome solitude..trying to find the pieces my torn heart. Searching to find a love half as fulfilling but never having anything to give from the emptiness of my soul........and thus always failing..........DOOMED I SAY.........DOOMED........alas |
| Jhilke Kyailan | Posted
on 06-Mar-03 02:38 PM
SO cruel she was....yet....yet... so, completeing.... so fulfilling.....so wonnnnnderfUL. so much of a goddess that I would have willing have worshipped from head to toe with only my bare soul...for all etenity.....But... so cruel.. |
| gorato | Posted
on 06-Mar-03 02:52 PM
czech ko kahani khattam aba.....jhilke ko suru bhayo.....la la yo pani suni halum! |
| tick | Posted
on 06-Mar-03 03:10 PM
There is always some one to take credit for someone else's hard work. Politicians are very good on that, religious people are not far behind... |
| Jhilke Kyailan | Posted
on 06-Mar-03 03:58 PM
If loving her was a crime then I was GUILTY..guilty of the highest degree ......Willing to spend forever in her bondage, ready for the most severe of punishments....Such was the power of her love...of her every syllable, her every glance, her every touch........OOOOOHHHH her touch...so soft and gentle, so soothing. Would spend hours in each others arms, not saying a word, only enjoying each others warm embrace, melting into each other, becoming one..... exploring the depths of the others soul.....AND...her kiss.......from those luscious ruby lips........so sweeeeeet and tender. Demanding my love, demanding my complete attention......and when she knew she had it, giving back a hundredfolds more than she got from me........loving me into complete submission, into a heavanly bliss from which I never wanted to emerge........Yes I loved her...worshipped her....and would have till today if only she had given me the chance.....If only she trusted my love.....She would have been the queen of my life and for her, I would have conquered the world and given it to her as my homage....fought the devil with my bare hands, tamed all the beasts of hell and changed the course of history to suit her every wish. BUT....I was not who she wanted..her "I love you" s', her sweet nothings were not for me.....they belonged to another I guess, I never understood.....WHY she did what she did, why she stole the sun from my heart and never used it to light her life.....WHY WHY WHY.............Alas |
| starry night | Posted
on 06-Mar-03 07:58 PM
some guys have all the luck.. some guys have all the brain..some gusy get all the breaks.and.some guys get nothing but the rain..its a good jingle boys. |
| aakash_ | Posted
on 14-Mar-03 08:37 AM
Hi Checkmartin -----> 
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