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| bhedo |
Posted
on 28-Feb-03 08:59 PM
I think I'm falling in love with someone almost twice my age. Weekend has started, and I miss her dearly. What am I supposed to do yo? I don't wanna fall in love with someone that old. I mean, she could be my mother. She probably thinks I'm a kid.
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| Rekha |
Posted
on 28-Feb-03 09:06 PM
Just listen to your heart and do what you think is right
and what makes you feel good............................
That's all I gotta say
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| Gurl_Interrupted |
Posted
on 28-Feb-03 09:23 PM
Loving someone twice ur age makes u , QUOTE "a frigging loser." ? U r kidding me! Go talk to her about ur feelings and solve the problem together. She being older than u, probably knows much more. Trust me, if u keep ur crush inside u...appparently it's going to turn u into a looser in every way possible ( I mean, mentally, pscyhologically , emotionally, academically..)
Or else, u might lose a friendship, on the basis of ur crush!
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| dire_omen |
Posted
on 28-Feb-03 09:28 PM
There is nothing wrong with that, Bhedo.
Love has no bound
Love has no sound --
Love has no fright,
Everything done in love is right!!
Even Prophet Muhammed married a woman older than him (he was 20 when he married a 40 year old woman). Sachin Teldulkar, the famous Indian cricketer has a wife 2 year older than him. So, there is no bound for love.
Remember the famous Hindi song -- "Hoto se chu-lo tum...mera geet amar kar-do"--??
There is a line saying : "Na u-m-r ka seema ho...na..."
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Have a happy love life...
Dire_Omen
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Today's dire omen -- War against Iraq is close...it is a big dire omen!!!
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| isolated freak |
Posted
on 28-Feb-03 09:56 PM
love is blind!! what the hell, go for her......if things work out, that's fine.. if they don't, you can alwyays romantize/fantacize about her over some whiskey or any alcohol of your choice.
anyway, good luck bro.
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| bhedo |
Posted
on 28-Feb-03 10:20 PM
Well, can't talk to her about this, because we actually work together, and as timid as I am, if I'm rejected, I won't be able to face her again, which would prompt me to look for a totally different job. I don't wanna do that, nor do I want to ask her out, because, let's face it, she's too old for me. Not just that, I gotta think about what the society would think about the way I lead my life. Personally, I believe that I can't afford to f**k the society, because the society will be f**king me instead.
Nevertheless, it has been difficult for me the past few days. I know I'll eventually grow out of my crush, or infatuation, or love, whatever it is. I only think of her these days, even when I consciously try to think of something else.
I wish I could follow your advice IF bro, but I don't drink. Still, I do fantasize, and that actually is the problem. Somehow I need to turn off my thoughts about her. I don't know how. Hopefully I'll stumble onto something.
Just venting my frustration, that's all.
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| MadMax |
Posted
on 28-Feb-03 10:23 PM
I'm a loser
I'm a loser
And I'm not what I appear to be
Of all the love I have won or have lost
there is one love I should never have crossed
She was a girl in a million, my friend
I should have known she would win in the end
I'm a loser
And I lost someone who's near to me
I'm a loser
And I'm not what I appear to be
Although I laugh and I act like a clown
Beneath this mask I am wearing a frown
My tears are falling like rain from the sky
Is it for her or myself that I cry
I'm a loser
And I lost someone who's near to me
I'm a loser
And I'm not what I appear to be
What have I done to deserve such a fate
I realize I have left it too late
And so it's true, pride comes before a fall
I'm telling you so that you won't lose all
I'm a loser
And I lost someone who's near to me
I'm a loser
And I'm not what I appear to be
Lennon & McCartney
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| Montou |
Posted
on 01-Mar-03 05:50 AM
Sabaijana ko posting vanda Gurl_Interrupted le chai hasayo...
bhedo bro pani kasto situation ma ni yaar...kura ni alik namilne chha yaar..love her re feri you are concerned about her age...khai ma ke vanu yaar...afno love parna lagya bela ko situation ta yaad auchha tara tyasto afno double age sanga chai haina...tara I was ready to do anything for my love ni... Aba bhedo bro maan pani parne re, weekend aune bitikai miss hune re feri budhi vayo vanera ni complain garnu parne yaar...
Aba duitai haat ma laddu kaha bata hunchha ni yaar?
La anyways I will pray for your comfort and wisdom to move forward whatever that decision might be.
By His Grace,
Montou
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| Gurl_Interrupted |
Posted
on 01-Mar-03 10:29 AM
Bhedo, be frens with her still. Trying to run away from the situation and her is just going to make the matter worse for you.
How long r u going to run away and hide urself...ur feelings...because of the soceity? To tell u the truth, Ha!, the society will **** u no matter what. Somethings in life, better uncopromised.
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| mack |
Posted
on 01-Mar-03 11:09 AM
the best medicine is...
I dont wanna know your name i just wanna bang bang bang
I dont wanta relationship i just wanna bang bang bang...
dont waste your time in getting emotional with women.
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| psychodreamer |
Posted
on 01-Mar-03 03:36 PM
Dear Bhedo
Just don take it wrong but you gotta do as i say. Don't ask her out or anything. Let time pass by. You will see her , sooner or later, with some guy. And then you gotta think, "dumped by the girl who was never yours." And again you gotta think that, "She is not the one, she is not the one."
You have that "love" feeling for her coz you have never talked to her. Just be brave and talk to her. Just be Friends and when you become friends you might, then , have no such love feelings for her.
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| czar |
Posted
on 01-Mar-03 03:41 PM
Bhedo playing with your minds. Done it before in another thread and admitted it too, doin it again.
Couldn't be, nah. I must be a cynic.
Sorry, do carry on. Sob.. pass me the kleenex.
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 01-Mar-03 05:07 PM
Mack ji;
Surely, you know the "sub-species" called "women" thrive on reciprocal emotions!!!!! If NOT, someone's been feeding you "crap" sweety!!!! Or your source is faulty, or the women who, ( by some fluke) happen to be with you can't emote too well in your presence. Hmmmmmmmm some cause for concern here!
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| mack |
Posted
on 01-Mar-03 09:11 PM
sitara,
most women r hypocrites and thrive on others(men) expense. Handful of women have done well on their own but most naaaaaaaaaa
so come together and sing the song.....
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| prem charo |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 03:07 AM
Bhedo,
If you can't control yourself, That's call the loser.
YOU ARE THE LOSER! YOU ARE THE No.1 LOSER! YOU ARE THE GREAT LOSER AMONG THE LOSERS. :) :P :O :L :K :J :H :M :N :V
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 09:29 AM
Hai hai Mack ji,
Don't give up so easily!!! I'm sure you will find one who will fit all of your needs! ...If you can't custom make them, you could try, brain-washing; and if that does not work, I'm sure Bramhacharyashram is the way to go!!! :)
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| hyaterica |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 09:50 AM
Yeah bhedo, you are a loser :p
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| mack |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 10:44 AM
sitara,
who said bramhachari is an option?
not for me at least. I have women left and right, just dont have time to get emotionally attached. And I cant afford to get hurt (I like to stay away from fire) hence the best solution is:
"I dont wanna know your name
I dont wanna meet your mom
Kiss u, flowers, eat chocolate? I dont think so....
But all I want is to bang bang bang"
Simple....Is it that hard to understand sitara?
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| bhedo |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 11:02 AM
Even the ugliest of the ugly, shyest of the shy, humblest of the humble, or gayest of the gay can claim to be a philanderer online, since the declaration can never be verified.
Yesterday, I had a wild menage a trois with Claudia Schiffer and Rebecca Romijn Stamos. Can anybody here refute my claim?
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| mack |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 11:05 AM
I can just by looking at your screen name..ur a bhedo after all
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| mack |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 11:09 AM
i am just kidding bhedo....i belive what u say.
try to be bit more trust worthy, be more ethical, minimize your lying habbit, let the cyber culter evolve in the right direction....ok? bedo dont turn this into 3rd world country
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| bhedo |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 11:10 AM
So, do you clean your love dolls, or your "women" if you prefer, on a daily basis? Let us know, will you?
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 11:59 AM
Mack!!!!
"And I cant afford to get hurt (I like to stay away from fire) hence the best solution is: "
BINGO!!!! This says a lot about you! :)
Lol @ Bhedo!
Bhedo, nobody is a loser in this world; just wiser and better informed!
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| mack |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 12:29 PM
sitara.
bingo?
r u a licensed psycho analyst? If u say yes...I will take every advice u give me and buy every interpretation that u make of my comments.
let me tell u, i have never been hurt but i have seen people being hurt....and women capitalize on those weak hearted men. so I am just telling those men to stay away from those capitalist.....dont take it personal, I dont know u so i am not directing any of my comments personally to u. perhaps u r one of the handful of women who succeeded with out feeding on men.
as long as bhedo is concerned I've dealt many people like him..I know people like u inside out...bedho just take a vaction from indian resturant and go to cancune for a week
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| bhedo |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 01:01 PM
The only "Cancun" you have seen is the ghetto you live in, with sewage spilling all over the streets. As for Indian restaurant, I'm not denying it, but nevertheless, it's a case of pot calling the kettle black. Time for you to play with your pillow, "little" boy, you know, the one where you poked a hole with your fingers. Your experience in women is as deep as shallow water. Even that you're afraid to tread on. So go on, don't be scared, you're not gonna drown. Or do you want me to push you?
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| mack |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 01:42 PM
lol
bhedo u r trying too hard to put me down....dont man cause I dont give a rats ass whether u believe or not....let me tell u one thing and i am serious about it...in some cases j=king off was better than actual sex.(probably I should have poked a hole in the pillow at that time instead lol lol lol ...dam bhedo, had I known u around jan of 2002, I could have gotton some really good advice from u). However poking a hole in the pillow seems a bit messy cause all the feathers would come out and...do u have anyother advice?
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| hyaterica |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 02:04 PM
Hari sharanam!
Has anyone back ordered Ganga Jal yet?
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| mack |
Posted
on 02-Mar-03 02:06 PM
hyaterica,
ha ha ha
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| freak of nature |
Posted
on 03-Mar-03 04:34 AM
bhedo,
liars and down can be anyone.after all women are the same speces that the man are only the gender is the verse.It doesn't make you different at all.
There is something to do with the state of mind and the weather.The good weather lover and the bad weather lover.Love plays some role in the age, but not in all the stage and the state.
be content with what you've got.
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| surya |
Posted
on 03-Mar-03 08:09 AM
We knew that a long time ago!
:)
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| rajunpl |
Posted
on 03-Mar-03 08:55 AM
Bhedo is hell raising or you are settled now....?
A love affair with the women that is twice the age of oneself.This is ridiculous.FREAK OF NATURE jyu your principle doesn't work everywhere.Nobody can be go long-while with the gap age in the long term relation.
Say for instance, you want to go for cinema and your partner want to go for the opera.Say you want to go for the holiday and your partner would like to go for the pleasure walk in the park.The interest among the two couple varies and hence consequences are bitter tragedy.I believe its better to stick with mum and helping her in her life rather than sticking mum-age lover.say for instance you want to drink BRANDY while your lover would rather go for the MILK.(he ...he). is n't it ironic....? There are a certein cases like it goes right for the couple one in a million.One american actress in her mid-thirties fall in love with a 70 years old puff.She fall in love with him and he does the same .god knows the relationship last probably for other 4-5 years .He went to heaven and she led rest of her life without marrying anyone in the memories of that 70 years old puff.(will this vice-versa apply to bhedo....?)
I feel so sorry for the story of the bhedo.I have no idea for the partner of the bhedo,her ethinicity/complexion/race/religion/qualification/.But my whole sympathy is on you bhedo.There is no doubt about that.Don't say or ask if I would be more help for that.I fall in with someone slse a while ago.(re.....). don't believe me now.My friends use to have the girlfriends from many countries like swiss/spanish/mexican/british/african american/indian-american/nepalese-american.He found them more to luxarious rather than thr reality.They are headind for the pleasure leaving behind all their econimic criteria.
whoi cares as long as we have MASTERCARD/VISA/AMEX .Let's go for the holiday,night-out,cinema,restaurants or all the best place in the earth.and you won't deny it because you love her.what a pity....?.so sad. Let's go to the reality.let's not live in the other planet.Feel what is going in and around the world.
bhedo....!, goo luck !!! will you be regretting if you send your couple picture just below my post..??(he he he....) think about it ??????????
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| rajunpl |
Posted
on 03-Mar-03 09:13 AM
Kasti po holi ra bhedi . :)
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| freak of nature |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 04:07 AM
what next...?
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| sajan |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 09:15 AM
Dear bhedo,
I hope you have obtained satisfactory advices from various colleagues with regard to your query.
I would say love is a feeling which is not barred by any sort of age circle. "Love is an elements dwells in a sould of two different people". Therefore, you don't bother to her age if you are truely fall in love. Look at her eye whether she too loves you or not.
If yes than go ahead. Wish you good luck !
Sajan
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| DifferentlySane |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 11:10 AM
just wondering if the budhi bhedi is still a virgin....cuz if i remember correctly some bhedo wanned a virgin bhedi rite?
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 11:32 AM
Differentlysane...
Impeccable memory! :)
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| bhedo |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 04:27 PM
I actually think she's still a virgin.
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| rajunpl |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 05:20 PM
ehh bhedo,
feri tehi kura..!!
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| nepalibitch |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 06:27 PM
definately agree with u....sweetheart nothin' wrong with that..
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| Nattu |
Posted
on 05-Mar-03 03:18 PM
Bhedo aka Moron,
Sounds like the girl ...oops the BUDHI you're talking about is from our own Sajha chyaat room. What is her nickname starts with ? Does is start with "J", "S" or another "S" or "L" ?
Waiting for ur response...kindly :-)
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| bhedo |
Posted
on 05-Mar-03 04:38 PM
Huh???? I don't chat. I made up the story. Duhhhh.
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| czar |
Posted
on 05-Mar-03 08:21 PM
Posted on 03-01-03 3:41 PM Reply
Bhedo playing with your minds. Done it before in another thread and admitted it too, doin it again.
Couldn't be, nah. I must be a cynic.
Sorry, do carry on. Sob.. pass me the kleenex.
czar
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| bhedo |
Posted
on 05-Mar-03 09:58 PM
Well, it's all for fun. Remember Niharika, the thong girl? That was actually my alias. If anybody scrutinizes my "beliefs" I bet you would be finding one contradiction after another. Sure, I might be posting seriously once in a while, but not very often. However, my stories are usually real, but only with a few slants.
To tell you the truth, I think I might be depressed. I bet you would be too, if you were teased over your physical appearance, teased over your deformity, you know things that you can't really control. Really has shaped my life a lot, negatively though, making me a loner, quiet, and very shy. I am a complete basket case. I might have to see a shrink soon, honestly. There's something terribly wrong with me; I can feel it. I bet you all have gotten the same impression of my behavior.
Once in a while, I do get carried away,and I tend to regret it later on. So, to all Sajhaites, especially the ladies, who're listening to me, I deeply am sorry for having started a cuss game with someone else. That was uncalled for. So please have it in your heart to forgive me, .
Thank you. No more of that nonsense from me.
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| Gurl_Interrupted |
Posted
on 05-Mar-03 10:12 PM
Bhedo,
Comeon why u sorry for? I bet all of us have, least most of us have that darker side within us. Some of us don't show it, while others of us are loud about it. And personally I think, it's a natural part of our growth and development. No matter how much one tries, sometimes it's just not easy to overcome our negative emotions or what ever u want to call it. Least, u realize what u doing is not good! and that's something!
Someone once told me, "Learn from ur mistakes...leave ur experiences behind and move on with the lessons u have learned." Easy to be said than done! *Snif*
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| czar |
Posted
on 05-Mar-03 10:27 PM
Bhedo,
You've been man enough to admit your mischief and gracious enough to apologize. I'd say there's nary a soul here who would hold a grudge agin you. At most they'd be wary of you. We work to earn trust and goodwill, you're no execption.
Coming to the issue of physical appearances and the teasing thereof. Its a terrible thing they did to you. Those that choose to judge you by what you look like miss a keen and intelligent mind. Yet, why let the failings of others warp your mind?
Folks here don't give a hang what you look like. Its how you interact with them that counts. Treat people right, and they'll do right by you. Take a chance Bhedo, this here is as fine a group of people as you're likely to come across. Bar none.
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 05-Mar-03 11:08 PM
Hey Bhedo ji
You are alright! You have brains, intelligence and super explosive vocabulary...any intelligent gal would go for that!...IFF you work on your verbal charm..just a tad bit more! :)
hehe!
Hey, truly...if someone has a problem with the way you look, it's their problem, not yours!
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| sajan |
Posted
on 06-Mar-03 03:48 AM
Sitara ji,
Let me to interrupt you here. "VERBAL EXUBERANCE AND GIFT OF GAFFE" are two almost similar elements who are quite not practical and push human being towards artificialism.
I feel that Bhedo jee should not follow this to acquire a scholar and dynamic lady. One has to move from theory to practice and from ideas to action to become to win someone's heart truly. This is what I feel so. What is your comments guys ?
Thanks !
Sajan
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| rajunpl |
Posted
on 06-Mar-03 04:03 AM
Ah!! illusion.
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 06-Mar-03 07:16 AM
Sajan ji:
Did not understand a single sentence you have uttered! :(
Sorry! I am NOT well versed in your syntactic and semantic compositions ! Allow me to glide by you without overtasking my syntax-challenged mind!
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| surya |
Posted
on 06-Mar-03 09:41 AM
Hmmm... this time I am the cynic! Whatever it is, using one's past and all the negative experiences in life as a crutch and an excuse for misbehaving and being abusive will only go so far. If you feel you are depressed, seek help. They you can find out for sure whether you are simply a jerk or really in need of assistance.
Good luck! And by the way, you said I might hear from you someday about something somewhere. I am wondering what THAT was about. But please, spare me and don't explain.
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| bhedo |
Posted
on 06-Mar-03 03:48 PM
Well, since you're wondering what it's all about,although you don't want me to explain, I don't know how to break it to you. So, let's just say it has to do with your one-line invectives against me. I don't think I ever addressed you, yet you put me down time and again. I think I have tolerated you, besides that minor squeak, which I do regret. I play fair, I don't beat up women.
Still, a promise is a promise.You can be as obnoxious as you want. Don't worry, I won't hurt a fly! And sorry if I insulted you. However, if my apology isn't enough, and you really have a bone to pick with me, just use your yahoo messenger to pm bhedo2000. Leave a message if I'm not online, as is often the case.
Are you by chance the same gal who gave me a lecture about three months ago? The handle, if I am correct, was Chandra( makes sense). If you are, I did say, " when you're not around". I'm not gonna explain, but technically, no, I haven't broken the agreement we had then. And who said I was an interesting character?
With respect,
bhedo
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| surya |
Posted
on 06-Mar-03 04:10 PM
yes chandra surya and a host of others. equally cranky and yes, sometimes intersting. i don't recall what lecture it was that you say i gave you three months ago. i have actually given you many lectures. but thanks for saying you don't beat up on women. it's good to know. but truth be told, i bet i could whoop your butt if i wanted. not that I would. But I could:)
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| bhedo |
Posted
on 06-Mar-03 04:17 PM
Only because I'll let you beat me!
I think you're really cool. Seriously.
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| joie de vivre |
Posted
on 06-Mar-03 04:32 PM
yeah, I think you're really cool too surya. *ahem* :)
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| sajan |
Posted
on 07-Mar-03 04:05 AM
Sitara ji,
You have advised to Bhedo ji that his brains, intelligence and super explosive vocabulary and verbal charm are the best plus point which can motivate any kind of girls to fall in love with him. With respect to its' reply, I have just said these are not applicable in account of love. Love is an element dwells in two soul. You have to win someone's heart by love love rather than above charismatic personality.
I do hope you with me now.
Thanks !
Sajan
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