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| nell |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 09:20 AM
I have read with interest many of your postings in Sajha and I truely admire you for your great work here. As illeterate like me, I just come here to have fun and enjoy thats it. I have nothing in mind besides that and the last thing I want is somebody verbally attacking me and telling me that I am a 'disgrace'.
Personal attacks of Logos, ethos and pathos in rhetorics are used more often to debate in a depicted verbal manner. I maynot be the one who can debate or talk as you want, with proper respect and polite, but that doesn't mean that I have no respect for people here and towards you.
I am a Nepali like you and just as you I have lot of respect for people back home and I am an active member of my community where I live here in US.
Well, you say a good thing and a bad thing, the problem here in Nepali community is that when two people are involved talking, lot of people want to be a judge and decide upon it. I am not saying that it is a bad thing. Trying to settle matter is a good thing and I respect people who do that.
I am a little too much emotional when it comes to things I don't like and get hyped up. Probably I should have controlled my emotions and I do that very often. But with person like you who is respected so much in this Sajha community, I did that because I thought I could get a good response.
Nepali society needs praises all the time. When someobody criticizes for their work they donot take it as a positive response but rather negative thoughts creep through their mind or if you see it on the other side, people give praises very easily.
I hereby extend my hands of friendship to all and sundry in Sajha for I know I am a disgrace. But I donot need people to comment towards things I know.
Lastly, personal feelings kept apart, I am a person who come here to have fun and I donot wish to personally attack anyone. If I did to anybody, I dearly apologize for my unwanted behaviour.
nell..
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 10:03 AM
WHat happened here? DID i miss something?
I thought Nell is a female ...an choriharuko man dukhnu ramro hoina hai..
nell , mero yeuta sallaha manne ho,...when you come to cyber world, please leave your egos and ahams and prides and emotions what not at home...and then log on to sajha...you will never get hurt again, jo sukaile je bhane pani..and as long as you remain anonymous, who cares even if someone says anything against you..hoina..cus they will be responding to your cyber persona, which, even if fatally wounded, will not kill you.
I am telling you all these things from my past experience right here in sajha...okie
Just come here and have fun. talk about the things that u like, write about the things that u have enjoyed or have gotten tired of. Je hos, ramailo thauma ramilo kura garnuparcha. But do come here please, stay for a while and u will like it.
I am not trying to lecture somone who seems to be grown up, cause i myself am not grown up, so how can I ? hoina ra?
I hope this helps in the long run...rey kya ajha lastma:)
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 10:18 AM
Holy shi*****!! ma kina janne bha hola, kurai nabujhi.....
namai mero Dumbass, ani ka huncha ta...lol...I did miss a lot on the other thread..tara ke garne ..sano mutu mero...yo sano mutuma alikati bhavana cha..tyo sano bahnvanale ..mero din-rat tauko khancha...
mero sano tauko cha ....tyo sano tauko ma...sano budhi cha..tyo sano budhima... sano bhavana basche..tyo sano Bhavana ...kupandolko ho...ahile samma pani mero tauko khanche..
ke garne..hare..
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| czar |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 10:46 AM
For whom the Nell Tolls
Nell, while I am unaware of the context in which you place this note, it is my observation is that you have posted a reasoned and mature statement.
In no manner or form would I think that most of the sajha folk here take offense at what you write. I have had the pleasure and privilege to converse with some and ruminate on the posting of others here. I have come away amused and educated on most days. Most of, I am awed by the phenomenal amount of talent that is present here. I can not but disagree with your notion that people are likely to be upset with you. Fear not.
Use these the following as a handy guide to the personalities here.
The gentlemen are:
Rusty: linguist, poet, writer. He’s likely to meet and greet you in a polyglot of languages and leave you wondering how he keeps sentences straight in his head.
Prem Pujari: literateur, essayist, highly contagious sense of humour, oft melancholy and poetic. Adventurer. From fishing to managing a water distribution system, whilst Romancing the Stone..er sauni ki chori. Ranconteur and Technology maven.
Poonte: Brings to mind the word Savant: A learned person; a scholar. An idiot savant is the role he oft plays, but don’t be fooled by all the dross, he’s a sharp one. Keenly aware of the human condition, he’s one to rise to the defense of the downtrodden. Known to savor the pulpit.
Oys: The Dynamite Kid, boy genius, creates heartwarming stories with fluid strokes of the pen. Beloved brother of most present here.
Deep: master storyteller and fabulous sense of humour and has impeccable timing. Part of the deadly sajha trio
Jira: mark twain’s mentor I dare say, he’s part of the sajha’s trio. Musician.
Dhumbass: the third of the humour kings, can write a story at the drop of a hat, subtle wit.
Caution: these three are capable of writing prose and poetry to lampoon every known human condition and a few they’ve invented in the bargain. Don’t mess with any of them or The Dynamite Kid.
Paschim: intellect/writer extraordinaire, subtle and wicked wit, astute observer
Arnico: accomplished, able, but keeping a low profile lately.
Parmendra Bhagat: a good soul all round, admirable achievements, can be contentious.
AX : sports ? he’ll dribble you round the goal post and shoot you through the hoops.
Ashu: intellect, likes to hang, draw and quarter opponents, provocateur.
Just a short guide, by no means comprehensive. There's loads more of you that come to mind, but time doesnt favour me indulging in the exercise about now. Peraps, Nell, if you need further info, I can perhaps write a bit more.
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| Vision |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 10:48 AM
Czar...what about me yaar?? Kyaaaa!!!
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| Poonte |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 10:54 AM
Bholi jaanch chha...padnai nasakera Sajha ma haali raa bela...CZAR hajur le feri malai SAVANT re...padnai naparne jasto lagyo ni aba jhan...bholi tara dekhda ranthanine bhayen...
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 10:55 AM
"Dhumbass: the third of the humour kings, can write a story at the drop of a hat, subtle wit. "
Czar!! ohooooooo!! kya!!! I am so gratefull for your generous comment.
hajurko mukha- madhurya bata yesto amrit ko dhara.....Truely indebted hajur sitara stylele re kya :P
yeso bichar garda kunai sajha noble prize paye bhane pani badnu parne bho , tin bhagma.. malai matrai diye hudaina bhanya... Rey kya jhan lastma:)
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| Poonte |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 10:57 AM
Oi, DUMBASSE...tyo Nobel Prize chai malai reserve gara la? Timi jau uta tira hasauna...
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 11:01 AM
la hera...aai halyo arko...kya...aba char tukra hune bho..yekchinma pp aaunecha..pheri panch tukra...ani oys..cha tukra..ani rusty...sat tukra..ani pheri Trial...aath tukra..ani najar...dash tukra..ani Sitara..aba Sitarale bhane pachi ta dinai paryo..sabai usailai ...nadiye bashanai sakdina...ani back to czar ko hatma..ani back to sanko hatma ..kya babal...
aafno hata lagyo shunne...he bhagwan..!!
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| isolated freak |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 11:19 AM
This is just to clarify [to everyone who missed out on the other thread "How to Upload Pics"]
I am not the other freak, i am just an Isolated Freak.
I hope San Man can verify this, if the situation gets ugly. I log on from IP 202.71. something.. and I have no idea regarding the otrher Freak jyu, and no he is in no wat related to me.
As for the other things, i have alreday explained them on the other thread.
THings taking Freaky TURNS in Sajha.
God Bless us all.
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| freak of nature |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 11:56 AM
This is to make clear that( freak of nature) has no relation with the isolated freak,under any circumstances.I am yelling loud and clear once again.I have no contacts neither any sort of perception regarding isolated freak.....this is clear now.
nell,
Nothing in the world is so serious,which can be settled easily.I believe transparently that you are also no other than the sajha member like me.You stated that you live in the US and has the sympathy in sajha.com
sometime,when the things go wrong between a folk like you and me.Nobody but you and me settle it.(considering that there is a good term between you and me).as a matter of fact you seems equally as good as me or even better.
looking forward with your other good topics (presumeably better than this one)
good luck.
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| freak of nature |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 11:58 AM
No arguments
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| nell |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 03:55 PM
Czar, you seem to be a very nice, warm and talented person. I am very much influenced by you and your comments. I will definitely keep the Sajha personalities you have mentioned, in mind. Thank you once again.
Isolated Freak, I hope we are in good faith and I hope you understand that my comments towards your posts wasn't a personal attack.
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| isolated freak |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 09:16 PM
nell,
You Wrote: I hereby extend my hands of friendship to all and sundry in Sajha for I know I am a disgrace.
Isolated Freak, I hope we are in good faith and I hope you understand that my comments towards your posts wasn't a personal attack.
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Misunderstandings are well, inseperable aspect in our dealings with the others, whether in real life or in discussion boards like this.
I am not someone who holds grudges or takes things personally *for the most part*. Contrry to what you have to say/what you say, I am not a big fan of attacking and name calling. I attack ideas, not the originators of the ideas/views.
Having said this, I appreciate the conciliatory move on your part. And I have no hesitation or reservation to accept your offer of " friendship", if you are sincere and honest about it. Things have to move on and the show must go on..and for that, everybody has to be in good terms with one another.
And again for clarification: I actually look for criticisms on my post. I think I benifit from honest critical criticisms and intense debates/discussions than from lofty praises. I have my family, friends, Profs. to shower me with praises every once in a while :-) [This means the sentence shouldn't be considered/read seriously]
Once again, welcome. I hope you'll continue to enrich us with your knowledge and experience.
A freak.
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| isolated freak |
Posted
on 04-Mar-03 09:22 PM
hmm honest critical sounds more like "multiple-bilaterals" :-) , so replace "critical" with Constructive. That way the sentence makes more sense.
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| Prem Charo |
Posted
on 05-Mar-03 12:48 PM
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Krishna : Good humar,musician, good writer and Criket player.
Sitara: Good poet, one of the Intellectiul personality in sajha.
Mack : Funny with reasonable logic.
Montou : What happend to Rimal? Who is Rimal ? where is he? Does he exist?
Isoleted freak : A noble man. Funny and knowledge of fundamental social behaviour.
Trikal : A great Jyotish. Funny and likes to do free service.
Czar : Chakadi garna ustaad and Noji habit. Kura thaha napaai aru lai personally gali garne.
2020
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| czar |
Posted
on 05-Mar-03 01:27 PM
Love Bird: Idiot savant
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| Montou |
Posted
on 05-Mar-03 02:45 PM
Prem charo bro,
Montou : What happend to Rimal? Who is Rimal ? where is he? Does he exist?
We are still doing our best to help Bickey bhai out. Aba prem charo bro afu haru le pani yaso help gareta yo process ali fast hunthyoo ni yaar...khai ma ke vanau?
Bickey bhai ho yahi sajha ma veteko. He is in New York and goes to colgate college. Yes he exists, prem charo bro. Do you want to talk to him on the phone?
Does this help prem charo bro.
Let me know if you need further info.
By His Grace,
Montou
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| nell |
Posted
on 05-Mar-03 02:53 PM
What a distinct personalities!
One tries to resolve matter when it takes upper hand and tries to give good, reasonable and metaphoric suggestions to people whenever he sees any kind of misunderstanding, supports logical debates and tries to inflow the threads with his colourful words.
The other tries to create disputes, argue unnecessarily without any kind of validity to his statement which is controversial, blatantly self-centred, ridiculous altercation and more often then not is a personal attack to people.
I am sure I don't have to point out the personalities. People by now have already understood whom I am referring to. Any egos are unwelcome and if they want to comment, please do so in a reasonable and standard way because I do have some 'izzat' here where I live and wouldn't want to be pathetically dealt with person who have no respect to others and is unethical.
W/ love,
Nell...
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