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| dallikanchi |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 03:21 PM
My fiance and I were engaged for 5 months. Everything was going well until I saw his face. Ours was going to be a "blind" marriage ( I never met him) so I didn't know what he looked like. This guy I am talking about is short, pathetic, doesn't talk much, and looks like someone just shat on his face. He is that ugly. I had no other choice but to leave him, although my only hope for a hariyo patta was to get hitched with this guy. But now I realize my blunder, although in vain, because I have no hope of extending my stay in Amreeka after my student visa expires. My parents had done so much, even find a guy for me, for me to get a hariyo patta. They knew my plans very well. In fact, they approved of my plans. They understand me. So I have decided to make a khaire boyfriend. Khaires know how to get it on, I heard. I am certain I am going to enjoy making love to my khaire boyfriend. However, once I get my hariyo patta I'll dump him so quick that he won't know what hit him. After that I will find meself a hot Pakistani man and marry him. I love Pakistani guys. They are so sexy! I wouldn't mind converting to Islam for Pakistani guys. Tee heee hee....
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| nanimaiya |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 03:36 PM
How can you get engaged without seeing each other? I mean you have to excahnge rings , no?
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| khimu |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 03:39 PM
dali mori kya ho asto hariyo patta ko lovle hera chhaya timi ta rahechhau Nepali KT thats totaly bullshit gurl. Pppppakistani guy sexy re! hah, damn you gurl please shave this world If you realy like to have millions of hariyo patta why don,t you go to night club Ddddddance garna
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| dangggg |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 03:41 PM
hahahhaha dalli dude, That was danggg funny!
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| nanimaiya |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 03:47 PM
ferri tyo keti le chahi 5 mahina engage hooda , not even once she saw his photo re?
Feri kasari kahile bhet nabhayeko tara kura chineko ni?
kyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
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| khimu |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 04:03 PM
timro ta testo chhaina hai NANIMAIYA nagarani (BLINDATE) tesari hai!
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| dallikanchi |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 04:07 PM
sorry, should read "we did exhange rings through mail"
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| dallikanchi |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 04:07 PM
Yes, we did exchange mails(mine was fake, hope he didn't notice it). He sent it to me through fedex. I sent it to me regularly. I tried biting on it to see whether it was fake or not. Looks 100% real to me. I would probably get $1000+ if I sold it to a local pawn-shop. My ex-fiance is a dhani bau ko choro. He can afford these things. Now I feel so dumb man. I could have acquired a huge sum of money as alimony had I opted to stay with him till I got my hariyo patta. Aba ke garu ma? Help chahiyo.
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| nanimaiya |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 04:09 PM
BLINDATE. ta OK cha ni, tara kasari chahi 5 mahina KURA CHINERA , ek choti pani ek arka ko photo naheroko ni ?
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| nanimaiya |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 04:16 PM
this guy sent you a ring from Nepal via FEDEX?
I still dont get it, you said OK to be engaged to a man to get married without seeing his face, ho? and you were engaged for 5 months and did ask him?
if looks are so important to you (that you dumped him ASAP after seeing his face) then why didnt you ask for a photo in the first place?
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| dallikanchi |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 04:21 PM
Nanimaiya, looks aren't important to me, but this guy is so damn ugly....he looks like he has Down's syndrome. And he loves digging his nose, and the sad thing is, he does it in front of everybody, like it's no big deal. I even saw him put his index finger(the one he used to dig into his nose) into his mouth after that. He was sucking on it as if it were a lolliop. Yesto lai ma kasari biye garu??? I was engaged with him for five months till I saw how ugly he looked. He looks like he came straight out of Looney Tunes. Tara, as I said, I am guilty for not marrying him. Now it seems like I'll have to go back to Nepal if I don't find myself a Khaire ASAP.
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| nanimaiya |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 04:26 PM
hahaha dalliknchi, that is so nasty, the part of singan chateko.
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| nanimaiya |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 04:39 PM
personally i know way too many people that have a successful arranged marriage, including my own parents.
of course if someone set you up with a man that eats his snot than its the fault of the person who set you up with them.
for the last year , i have also been living on a out of status basis. i got married to my american-nepali boyfriend a week ago. it was love first and paperwork etc etc later. we met 5 years ago and have been steady since then.
i could have married him 4 years ago, i didnt even if i was illeegal for a year cuz it wasnt the right time.
marrriage is no joke. you have to wait till you are really ready, its better to go back live in nepal, where people call you a budi kanya, than marry without being ready for marriage.
my advise: dont jump into a situation with a khaire just because you think he will give you great sex and marry him for a green card!!!
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| dallikanchi |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 04:48 PM
Nanimaiya, my philosophy is exactly opposite of yours: I say papework etc, etc first, and if I fall for my "significant other", love later.At the moment, there is only one thing in my mind: hariyo patta. Hariyo patta is like a magnet, you see, for after that your life is made. You can live it in any way you prefer, whether you want to stay single, want to stay with your husband, or dump him and marry a Nepali after that. Hariyo patta, right now, is the love of my life. Oh, how much I want to hold and carress one, perhaps even make love to one while taking shower totally naked in the bathroom. Oh hariyo patta, how my hands itch for thee! Hariyo patta, come to your mommy, she wants to pamper you!
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| khimu |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 04:49 PM
wow NANIMAIYA i am jelouse with you testo ta vanu bayena ni! That
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| nanimaiya |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 05:34 PM
Khimu,
Kina jealos re? I am a major chance of getting kicked out of here, tara thats a risk I took. beleive me, I wish i was in a better financial and immigrational situation every single day . But i will never have sex with a person to get that, or look for a man that i can marry todat , divorce tomorrow.
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| khimu |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 06:50 PM
haaving sex is not my problem, i am jelouse with you,(the problem is) becouse you said that khaire moro haurule great sex dinchhan re! Nepali ta manchhinai hainann jasto kasti vannya timi ta hai!
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| nanimaiya |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 07:46 PM
khimu,
i mever said that sanikanchi said that!! please
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| nanimaiya |
Posted
on 18-Mar-03 07:47 PM
i mean dallikanchi said that khairre give better sex
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| jules |
Posted
on 19-Mar-03 04:59 AM
Exchange ring thru-mail? What the hEll. You seem desperate. After that Ill find Pakistani man to marry Damn!!! Why cant you find one right now to marry and also to get your freaking green-card. Let me tell you something; attitude like this wont get you anywhere. I think you are fooling around. Get a life dear! How shameful Nep Pep are willing to do anything to get Green-Card. Woah! Bravo!! Bravo!!
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| nepali_kanchhi |
Posted
on 19-Mar-03 01:16 PM
hey dallikanchi, tell u onething...U SUCK.....the way u r sayin...sounds really cheap...jaabo euta green card ko laagi...u said u can do anything?? damn gal...u'll b in so much trouble ..n i can bet on dat....timro future chaii dhamilo chha...timi ta nepali ko naam ma kalank nai raichhau....thhuuuk.....
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| khimu |
Posted
on 19-Mar-03 01:29 PM
Aamai kasto gali gareko hera NEPALIKANCHHI le., but you are right dalikanchhi ta rahechhin ni yoti nepali cheli ko name ma badnam
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| nepali_kanchhi |
Posted
on 19-Mar-03 01:43 PM
tyahi ta bhaneko....j sukai garey pani..jata sukai pugey pani..aakhir haami nepali nai ta haun.....we sud nvr foget dat we r born nepali, live nepali n die nepali...if she really wants a green card..then she can talk to some lawyer..ani paisa khwaayo bhane ta jati pani milchha...manchhe ko haat ma paisa hunu parchha...after dat nthg is impossible...ki kaso?? but ..marrying smn juss for a green card..ali apach bhayena ra ??
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| south |
Posted
on 19-Mar-03 01:46 PM
i could never imagine a nepali girl like this, i mean can do anything for so called green card. well i heard some nepalese boys do so but it looks like neplese gals are also like these boys can do so why not we? after all men and women are equal in all respect right? this green card thing really sucks, if one gets from his ability like doing professional job or through lottery then its fine but why we are so crazy about it. people dont care about his/her partner's education and character or other aspect if he/she is sure about getting green card after marrying. I dont know why people are after this? is it only for money? ke green card hune bittikai prestige, money, sabai aaucha, you dont have to work hard ki ke ho? ani uta nepal ma bau aama lai tension. we have very good religion and culture. well if we continue doing this what will happen to our culture and religion? may be after 3-4 generaton, culture ta kehi rahadaina jasto chha. ke yaha inidan haroo le afno culture jogayeko chinan? ke pakis le gareko chhina? ke khaire le church ma gayera afno culture rakeheko china? so why not we nepelese do that? well we follw american fot steps, have we thought about why they went to poor countries like nepa and trying to spread thier religion and culture? well mero matlab, afu ko ho bahnne kura nabirsau. i am unmarried guy and i will definitely marry a nepali girl. arko culture ko kura bujna time laagchha an mildaina pani , but i am not racist hai. aru ko culture uslai ramro laagchha mero malai. but i strongly believe we should preserve our culture.
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| nepali_kanchhi |
Posted
on 19-Mar-03 04:55 PM
i totally agree with u 'south'.......u came up with really good points....aba hamro 'dallikanchi' ko dimag ma pani kehi dhusey ramro thunthyo....it's not like m juss pointing on her...she have her own life, she might have her own dreams....but da only i wanna say is: it's not the right way.... well...nthg much to say @ dis moment...but yes...m proud to say ....."I AM NEPALI"
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| dallikanchi |
Posted
on 19-Mar-03 06:33 PM
Why not.....if guys can do it, why can't gals??? All you male chauvinist pigs( and close-minded females like jules) need to go back to your gauns.... If I have hariyo patta, I can get any piece of meat I want... Oh, and they're attacking Iraq as we speak.
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| dallikanchi |
Posted
on 19-Mar-03 06:39 PM
hmm, perhaps not...could be a false alarm.
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| Prem Charo |
Posted
on 19-Mar-03 09:16 PM
Dalli Kanchi, Go for whatever works out for you. You are the one who is facing problems, not others. I just wanna suggest you one thing " Don't let anybody use you". As far as you are happy. According to you "I can get any piece of meat I want..." yes you can. Boka ko, ranga ko, kukhura ko je vaye pani. If you can digest !! Dangggg Thanks.
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| GUY |
Posted
on 20-Mar-03 09:00 AM
Hmm...something here strikes me...DalliKanchi stands for her notions and others for their's.......Where do I stand??.....Divergence is something I seek. DalliKanchi..I haven't been where you stand...but it's not desperation I see in you...it's the circumstancial reality that pushes you into your actions.....You do need the papers and maybe that's a greater need and I doubt you wouldn't go for someone who you don't have the least appeal... Go your way...but just do it right...Hope regret doesn't follow you all the way. As for others... I see your stance for standing against her notions...Let's not just reveal our patriotic Nepalipan under such circumstances....We're all Nepali but the way we see the world changes...as time rolls on...and life goes on!! Cultural bondage holds us under the same roof....but our individualistic perception distinguishes us from one another.....Let's see where we all stand someday...
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