Sorry to hear that brother. Yo bisaya ma kura garna, it is tough tara bina kura nagarikana samasya ko samadhan hundaina. I can't tell you how you can talk to her or how to get started but I think if you are not happy and have already decided that step then slowly you can find some ways to share the feeling. It is hard to bring that up but..

taremam_bhai · Nov 29, 2021 5:34 PM

@honda_accord.... What is your rashi and your wife's rashi according to the chino? Let me do some Vedic Compatibility Calculation.

ujl · Nov 29, 2021 7:16 PM

Seems you need see a doctor for your mental health. Because if you not having good time with her then why you married her for years and have kid ? You cannot use and throw somebody like that . You are a real namard to simply skip away from reappnsibilities like that ( sorry 2 say) but u are . Hats off to her who is still try to fix the issue and continue . If you are n0t happy with her what is the gurantee that you will do same thing for another woman ? Take full financial responsibility of her and your kid n do whatever you want , chances are she may find a real man after you, a fighter , who is not afraid of responsibilities

kattu tiwari · Nov 29, 2021 7:31 PM

Sansaari maya bichitra. thukka honda accord Tero shaft ma 🐞 paros.

Sanaklaal · Nov 29, 2021 8:11 PM

@honda_accord Im really sorry that you are going through this. Best coarse of action in my opinion is to talk to her about how you feel. Also have you guys tried marriage counseling? Don't listen to what chimeki uncle kattu tiwari says. Shit happens in life. People change and things do not work out the way you have planned.

Ketofarar · Nov 29, 2021 9:54 PM

Do not feel bad about it. If you are not happy, then go ahead and divorce. Life is very short and there is no time to be miserable. Tell her clearly you want divorce, hire a lawyer and move from that place. Make sure you take care kids if needed. It is hard in the beginning but its worth it ( my experience).

damar · Nov 29, 2021 10:26 PM

Sagittarius me and Capricorn her

honda_accord · Nov 30, 2021 1:43 AM

It looks like you need to do some reflections before taking any actions: First reflection: Why did you marry each other in the first place? Can you go back and remember that? What has changed from that time? Second: Can you stir up those first feelings? either by some serenades of some sort or some physical intimacies  Third: What are the concrete things that you are on different paths with? If those are minor, perhaps there is some merging on those you can do? If major (financial misalignment or family\friendship preferences), some 1-1s are needed to give her a chance directly. Last edited: 30-Nov-21 06:08 AM Last edited: 30-Nov-21 06:08 AM

passinthru · Nov 30, 2021 6:08 AM

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ujl · Dec 4, 2021 4:36 PM