Is it advisable for me to spend time with a girl when I know she is also spending time with other guys?

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I need some advice. I used to have a close friendship with a girl, and we were in a relationship. However, I became uncomfortable when I saw her hanging out with other guys, and it made me avoid her lately. She often reaches out, seemingly feeling alone and just looking for friends. On top of that, my parents are pressuring me to get married as they are getting older, but I don't want to make a hasty decision. What would be the best course of action in this situation? Should I continue hanging out with her or not? I'm afraid of making a decision I might regret later.

xkavrepalanchok · Aug 7, 2023 11:07 AM · 11,972 views

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Casual sex with consent is completly ok just use good layer of protection . I have a casual hangout with my store associste who happens to be a nepali student and she has a full time boyfriend . I also had a good quality time with my tenant during covid time , her husband was in nepal. The taste of food and sex should be change once in a while otherwise life gets too boring. Infact, i would say a man sbould spend half of his saving in taste of food, sex and nature . Work hard , be rich and spend money koz you only live Once ..

tps2gc · Aug 7, 2023 11:33 AM

Hey, I understand that this may be an awkward question, but how can I properly seek consent from a Nepali girl? I'm concerned that if I approach the topic of intimacy directly, they might not feel comfortable saying yes. By the way, I made a mistake in the past by recording our intimate moments on my phone just in case it's us both consenting. But that time sex happened automatically like I was just touching her hand and she started placing it in her boobs and I started slowly touching her while she grabs me by my waist to kiss her. And she agree when I  ask to take a picture of us both. I guess that would serve as evidence just incase if she tries to use me or something.  Last edited: 07-Aug-23 11:54 AM

xkavrepalanchok · Aug 7, 2023 11:53 AM

What a fucked up analogy on taking naked picture for evidence ? As Nas mentioned some part of the Nation people loose their virginity fucking donkey. You better be that man and take picture how the donkey was enjoying to, as well for evidence that you are no more virgin. Could not stop laughing and unposting second paragraph.

logan · Aug 7, 2023 2:24 PM

@tps2gc,I do believe most of the stuffs you write but I just could not understand the kind of mentality here especially in that Nepali girl going to school. "I have a casual hangout with my store associate who happens to be a nepali student and she has a full time boyfriend." Consensual sex is debatable, but a student and then a Nepali girl indulging in sex affairs outside her boyfriend's life...this is disgusting. May be I am too conservative for these people. @xkabhre I do not trust you 100%, thanks to all your bizarre ranting you do at times, but this following statements really made me sick. "By the way, I made a mistake in the past by recording our intimate moments on my phone just in case it's us both consenting." No wonder the sex videos reach out to the porn sites quite easily and they stay there for time immemorial for your grandkids to devour.

Bennedict · Aug 7, 2023 3:57 PM

Another day, another shit post from kavre asking for attention!

Ketofarar · Aug 7, 2023 5:11 PM

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