The issue with many Sajha users is that they enjoy reading posts but are often reluctant to take the time to articulate their own thoughts. Why is that? It likely stems from a lack of strong communication skills—something that should be developed throughout one’s school years, from grade 1 to 12. That’s the time when we learn how to express ourselves clearly and effectively in writing. Right now, many readers are probably thinking, “This Sexy In Sari thinks she’s too clever,” or something along those lines. But when they attempt to respond, their language is often informal, their ideas are poorly structured, and their thoughts lack clarity. Their frustration becomes evident through the way they express themselves. So what should we do about it? We should encourage better writing habits, promote respectful and thoughtful discussion, and remind each other that clear communication isn’t just a school skill—it’s a life skill. And yes, they can start practicing by writing comments right here. Don’t worry about being judged—just show some effort. People will understand and appreciate it.
Sexy In Sari · Apr 19, 2025 9:04 PM · 18,682 views
"Don’t worry about being judged—just show some effort. People will understand and appreciate it". मैसाप का कुरा धेरै जसो घतलाग्दा भए पनि कुनै चै "मपाई" हुने खालका देखिदा शब्दले ठुन्गी हान्न पछि परेको छुईन | असल बक्ता र लेखन सैलिको लागि गाउ ,घर स्कुल देखि सहपाठी र व्यक्ति आफु मा भर पर्छन जस्तो लाग्छ | अन्तरमुखी हरु कम बोल्ने भएकाले अनि स्कुलका लागि चाहिने पुस्तक बाहेक अरु हेर्न पाएका छैनन् भने सुने जति पढे बाहेक थपिदैं | यो अबस्थामा संगै ठुला बडा ले कुरा गरेको बेला बोल्न हुँदैन भन्ने बाताबरणमा हुर्किएका को आफ्नै कथा होलान र यो वर्गमा पर्ने हरु लाइ अर्को लेबलमा पुग्न जुगनै लाग्ला तर प्रयास गर्नेहरु लक्षमा पुग्ने छन् | साझा बाटै सिकेको शब्द "खंदुकी" साझा छिराई संगै छिर्छ र कति खंदुकी छिरेछन को गणना आई हाल्छ | खंदुकिहरुको पनि आफ्नो समूह छ | टोलमा एउटा भुक्न सुरु गर्ना साथ टोले टोले एक हौ भनि अरुले साथ् दिन सुरु गरे झैँ कुराकानी के हो कस्तो कमेन्ट कोर्यो र मैले तेस्मा के चै थप्ने नथप्ने भन्ने भन्दा पनि टोले भुके पछि भुक्ने पर्ने खंदुकी हरु संग कसैको केहि लाग्दैन | कुरा ठिकै कोर्या हौ, तर मान्छेले आफ्नो कमजोरी हटाउन भन्दा लुकाउन खोज्नु हामि हरुको जन्मजात कम्जोरि हो | तेसैले सुधार पट्टि ध्यान भन्दा खंदुकि पारामा उत्रिए पछि स्वत स्फुर्त निराकरण हुने कुरामा बिस्वास गर्ने लाइ तपाई हरुको सुझाब चिरौतो कोच्याए झैँ हुन्छ | यति मात्र होइन, के कमेन्ट गरेको हो पड्दै नपढी होच्याउने देखि छुद्र शब्द लेखेर स्वर्गीय आनन्द लिन पछि पर्दैनन् | तर ट्रंप ले रास्ट्रपति भए पछि खुन्दुकीहरु पाखा लागेका मात्र होइन धागा हरु र कमेन्टमा पनि सुधार आएको देख्दा खुसि लागेको छ | आसा छ निर्र्ता पाउने छ |
Logan · Apr 26, 2025 1:55 PM
Logan friend are you still living in Texas area? I heard you have moved. By the way which state did you move ?
Jindagi yestai chha · Apr 26, 2025 6:19 PM
@logan:I read it. I liked it. I felt it. I admire your Nepali writing. It is perfect. Right now, in this thread, Nepali "भाषण" (bhasan) is not required. @Jindagi yestai chha: This is not a tea shop. We don't sell jeri or swari.If you want to chit-chat, please send a DM, not a public message.
Sexy In Sari · Apr 26, 2025 7:12 PM
Did your ass burn sexy ?? Last edited: 26-Apr-25 07:33 PM
Jindagi yestai chha · Apr 26, 2025 7:32 PM
ओह, यु बिकम एन इन्ग्लिश लेडी एण्ड थिंक्स वानली पिपुल क्यान लेक्चर ( भाषण / बुलसिट ) इन एङ्ग्लिश | https://www.youtube.com/watch?...
logan · Apr 27, 2025 12:36 AM
यो मुजी सेक्सीको कालो कन्डो भएकै आगोलागि भएर।
macbro · Apr 28, 2025 12:35 PM
@sexy-in-sari bro, I am not the one to jump into random threads as such but couldn't help this time: I'm on Sajha more these days and see your posts/replies. Appreciate the time and effort you put onto those posts. However, more often than not, you seem to be pasting content from elsewhere without citing sources. Including references wouldn't devalue what you share. You could focus on providing complete information, not on hiding your sources. That's just my opinion
apunge · Apr 28, 2025 9:43 PM
@apunge:"‘Bro’ is not the right salutation. As I recall, I mainly cited sources from The Washington Post. If not there, then perhaps a few from LexisNexis or Law360. If you have a particular citation in mind, please point it out; it would be most helpful. Tell me—what would you propose to do once the source is known? After all, you never asked at the momo store where the meat came from. You simply enjoyed the hot momo and the tomato achar.
Sexy In Sari · Apr 28, 2025 11:35 PM
It seems you understand what I'm talking about (I won't go into specific posts). Regarding a particular topic, if you were to say 'This source says X, and this is what I think (perhaps),' it would carry more weight than simply pasting information, which comes across as pompous boasting. People can then look at the source and decide for themselves how much they can trust the information. I'm not singling you out personally, though (well I am now I guess); I believe this kind of pompous boasting is a key trait among us Nepali people, who derive satisfaction out of boasting. Plus this is 'anonymous' forum, where people get to be who they want to be. So, take it for what its worth. THE END.
apunge · Apr 29, 2025 6:11 AM
@apunge:I understand your point. But I keep it simple: say what I mean, be clear, and move on.
Sexy In Sari · Apr 29, 2025 10:49 AM
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