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sna · Oct 25, 2010 6:56 AM

Meaning a very friendly girl in Spanish :)

sna · Oct 25, 2010 6:58 AM

Cut that guy into Pieces and sell him at meat market lol - This is the answer you are waiting for .

iPwN · Oct 25, 2010 8:05 AM

tht means they are still [Disallowed String for - bad word]ing each other ..

pilot23 · Oct 25, 2010 8:38 AM

Your thing does not satisfy her and she misses sex she previously had.

furke · Oct 25, 2010 9:17 AM

isnt it obvious to anyone that the girl will have already considered these options. that we guys are already contemplating as to why she is still friends with her ex? If she IS indeed banging him, what a shame. its your fault :) otherwise, sometimes the truth is not as twisted as our messed up outlook of the world.  trusting her is your main issue. if you talk to her about it and she can convince you that there's nothing, then you should let her do what she wants. if you get all stuck up and start restricting her decisions, then she'll be fckin the milkman before you can say "chiya kham na hau".  Friend told me - "they're like butterflies, the more you chase em, the further they fly." Keep your shit in your pants and dont watch too much porn or conspiracy theories. Peace!

dekchidriver · Oct 25, 2010 9:23 AM

This is a clear case; be a nice friend to your gf, be as friendly as possible, don't love her but be fascinated by her moves, but don't talk about your marriage to her at all from now on  and don't marry her. You can still take advantage of her, knowing that she still loves to hang out with her ex any way so you have a girl whom you don't have to marry and is still ready to be with you. What else you want from a girl. You can use her still when you need her. Use her as much as she uses you. Again don't marry her just for love; she will give it to you without marrying her. If you marry her, your life would be ruined beyond imagination, so much that our eastern culture cannot digest it. And be ready to walk away any moment. Well this is what I'd do. 2 cents!

eklo · Oct 25, 2010 10:37 AM

use her as long as you can, if she is using you.

terobaaje · Oct 25, 2010 11:00 AM

A perfect advice by eklo. I think I need to say no more. Eklo seems to have experienced this thing.

jhapaliketo · Oct 25, 2010 12:24 PM

Thanks everyone for the advice. The issue is not about sex or cheating or anything like that, I pretty much trust her on that or I do not want to think on that topic at all. We do not live in the same city and meet each other only once in a while. So we have our own circle of friends. And she tells me that she is a good friend with this guy which she dated before. I do not know anything about that relationship, and i don't need to know but all i know is they had a kind of a relationship which she told me was not successful. My problem is I can not see her hanging out too much with this guy and I have told her so many times. But she thinks that since they do not have any kind of relationship anymore, it should not be a problem. And i thought that if I show some concerns she would leave him, so I tried, but she does not and keeps making excuses. So it only made it seem like I was so desperate to get her. Now should I let her do what she wants and keep getting hurt and keep getting bad feelings about her until it will be over one day or she should realize that she should not be hanging out with him. I love her and I can not really play her, i just want her to be with me without having to think about some other guy.

nepalidawg · Oct 25, 2010 2:15 PM

Yeah, don't try to be a fool. This is again a straightforward case; if she does not want to listen to you now, can you imagine how she'd listen to you afterwards (e.g after marriage)? The word is: you are being used here: use her, too. I don't think sex matters here, but I'd not know. Jhapaliketo, Yes, I've been in a similar situation. Bujhne le jhyatai bujhyo ni!

eklo · Oct 25, 2010 4:12 PM

such girls are whore..prostitutes who don't need pay offs..I also had a similar situation in my life...I have told her not to be in front of me whole life...such girls are so sick of guys..nothing much.  Just get rid of her before things become worse. You will never be happy with her, trust me.

hallude · Oct 25, 2010 4:16 PM

nepalidwang kasto lato hola yar esto keta bhako bhaye tah sab keti ko mojj...oii gaule tero gf leh terai agadi majale thokiracha aru sita tah chai trust gardai bass....tero budi rah tesko ex sex garda pakkai ni tero bare kura garera mari mari hassi hassi chikchan hola hahahahahah

nepalihero1 · Oct 25, 2010 6:46 PM

yo mula nepalidwag ta dhwang nai raicha..buddi nai nabhako.. malai ta baru paisa lera thokaune randi haruko character ramro lagcha yesta ketiharuko bhanda ta.. at least randis do that because that is their profession or they are forced to do that..

hallude · Oct 25, 2010 7:06 PM

Brother tighten up a little bit more. It is exactly what you think is! Instead of trying to focus on her focus on your college or work or whatever you have. She needs a little bit more space as she is not sure who to choose. And honestly its a lot easy for a girl to make" friends" with guys than the other way. Jus t think! By the way is she Nepali or?? So.........focus on  your stuffs and have fun with her untill she is ready to take it to the next level. And you know keep yourself engaged in your city...that way she wont think you are just a whiner! Be a Man!

sanju.baba · Oct 25, 2010 7:08 PM

I don't know what your initial posting said. I still hang out with my ex - we are friends. We broke up because we were not compatible for each other, but there was no problem being friends since I and she  both happen to know each other intimately. Every break-up need not be horrific, and sex need not be part of the equation of being friends with your ex. If you doubt it, you should talk to her clearly and express your concerns - people here, including me, know nothing of her situation, and most of us just like to bad-mouth. Good luck!

commando · Oct 25, 2010 7:37 PM