I can’t seem to understand why I haven’t fallen in love (not talking about lust or infatuation here) but a true love in itself. So being a Psych. student I wanna look at it from a different perspective. I am the kind of a person who is very thoughtful and deep. I need to figure out where I am at this point in life to decide on the sort of person I need. So, love is no joke to me, I take it rather too seriously. (sometimes!) Apart from being super independent, I don’t want to be ordered around by anyone, let alone my partner/boyfriend. And If someone pretends to be someone else who they are not, I’ll be able to ferret that out in a few minutes and it will be enough to make that person run. On a positive note; I am down to earth, self motivated, patient and responsible at the same time I can also be very difficult to understand (sometimes even for myself !!!) Also a kind of person who is formidable, and like having my own agenda. And I admit to some dates being a test- as my serious nature weeds out those looking for fun. It takes a confident lover to win my respect, and my heart. But I wanna point out that it takes a whole lot of time and patience to enter my private life or WIN MY DISCRIMINATING HEART!! I also happen to take my own sweet time, and will resent being rushed into anything, which I carefully consider what I’ll invest in, before opening my heart. To know IF THAT PERSON IS WORTHY. Also tend to get attracted to a genuine, funny, handsome, sophisticated and classy type. Turned off by liars, immature people who have absolutely no aim in life. ( is it too much to ask?? geez!! ) Apart from being such a snob it’s certainly not that I haven’t dated anybody at all, I have,but there was never a sense of total accomplishment in being with that person, there was always something missing. (may be a whole lot !!) So, all I’m saying is that is it too much to expect those things from a man? ( a real man) ??? or I am being totally impossible to understand? And I am letting love hate me ? And trust me if you are patient enough, Underneath my aloof,indifferent and cold self lies a physical, passionate, funny and loyal person that will come out when the time is right, once you have proven yourself. P.S.This goes out to the LUCKY BASTARD I have yet to meet. ☮
shyla96blue · Aug 6, 2012 10:52 PM · 341 views
Post this on Horny singles dot com's profile honey !! You will find one just like you ..Fcking monkeys !!
8848m · Aug 6, 2012 10:56 PM
I'm impressed 8848m that you can speak for yourself. I respect that; It's your life. and FYI Its about finding love... but never mind I don't wanna engage in your stereotypical comment.
shyla96blue · Aug 6, 2012 11:09 PM
Finding love ??? Look monkey, you just want a person to fck you whole life , live with you ...gudluck finding another that imaginary monkey. Sometimes you gotta comprise psychologist monkey...learn that not from books but from relationships !!! even from other monkeys in your family. ...Monkeys !!!! and you dont need be nice to me ...Now dont be crying yea I am this kind , that kind, yea blaah blaah blaah , fck off with your weaning freaking monkeys got time !!!
8848m · Aug 6, 2012 11:31 PM
WOW! If only all guys in this world would be like you, then the world would totally be a better place (notice my sarcasm- incase u hadn't figured it out) and btw love is not all about sex. And compromising with the worthy person is no problem, if it was ever with a person like you.. then I would be in cloud nine!!!
shyla96blue · Aug 6, 2012 11:43 PM
I must say - "You are difficult to understand" and thats obvious coz I feel your expression of thought incorporates loads of emotion. I was just wondering - what if you love a person (not a REAL man in your terms / as you expect) and you start a new thread -" HATE THAT I LOVE YOU " ~peAce P.S: I'd be glad to hear how you would salute your "LUCKY BASTARD" in your H.T.I.L.Y thread.
no_more_crush · Aug 7, 2012 12:04 AM
shyla, remember not all fingers are same, don't be quick jumping on conclusion, I know there was sarcasm but unstoppably keep saying/writing and starting any conversation with 'all men are like this and that' would prove nothing but your slutty nature. I'm not saying but if I heard that from a gurl like 'all men are... ', I would not be that interested on her at all. Probably, you would not like the same if you hear from your boy that ' all gurls are like this and that', would you? That implies that a gurl/boy has been through several dysfunctional relationships and it puts one to think what must have gone wrong. If you start your conversation to your dream guy, say for example with 'all men are this and that,..', it could be big turn off. Keep off using that phrase. Personally I don't like it unless am a casanova lol. And, you are demanding what and how love should be. Love can't be achieved that way. You'll find yourself farther and farther away from love of any kind, if your demand goes like that. Sometimes, love is also about sacrifice. If you ask me, I don't believe in these relational misconstrued feelings of selfish emotions which you and I call 'love'. Do you think this really is love? "In order to get this thing to be done, you've to do this and that.", "if you stare at that gurl, I'll stare at that guy"," if you sleep with other, I'll sleep with someone else", This I don't think is love , rather is compromised agreement between two egoistic fools who are pretending to be in love. You sound way lot like one of those egoistic fools ready to fall for conditional exchange of love. I believe in unconditional love from one human to another. But in the real world, everyone is selfish and their love for others are selfish. So, wake up and start finding the truth :D
bittertruth · Aug 7, 2012 12:07 AM
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giordano · Aug 7, 2012 1:06 AM
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