I've been to the US for 4 months and am living with some Nepalis and every now and then there is a big party outside of college. Even in US they are fighting all the time. Keti lai heryo ki jhagada garna khojne. What kind of mentality is that? If you get drunk it does not mean you have to lose civility. It does not give you the right to get physical. I feel sorry for the girl because I can't imagine how embarassing it is when the boyfriend is like that.

On top of that when we go out to eat, paisa nikalna ni garo maanne. Paisa tirne bela bathroom ma jaaney. Wallet lyauna birsyo bhanne. At least pay for what you ate or drank.

I thought you were grown enough to put our differences aside in a thread like this. Anyway thyakkai milayou Dai! I hope you will get some "likes".
Adios
OTGA

On the contrary 'bhai', threads like these are where differences like ours are put to rest by commenting like this.

धेरै किसिमको नेपाली देखियो
एक जना थियो नेपाली स्तुदेंट्स हरु संग रमाइलो कुरा गर्ने अनि केहि टाइमको लागि उनीहरुको लिभिंग रुममा बस्ने. बस्न त बस्यो तर एक दम नराम्रो संग फसायो त्येसले. अरुको नाममा क्रेडिट कार्ड मगाएर युज गरिदियो आफ्नो जस्तो गरेर

 It's good to know I'm not the only one who has to go through this crap. Maybe it's a good idea to move into college housing. बाहिर बस्दा अमेरिकामा कलेज आको जस्तो नि लाग्दैन 

Nothing wrong w/ living off-campus. Try not to have a ton of Nepali people in your circle. Back in college, it certainly helped that there were only 15-20 Nepalese in my college and I'd not engage in anything more than "hi, hello" with more than half of them. 

Kina riddle? Dherai nepali haru tysari nai sochcha. Aafulai hridaya le jo sanga relationship badhauna milcha usaisanga badhcha. Count ko limitation kina? Either nepali or any other human? Just being open minded should help

Don't disagree on your opinion about openness but based on my observation, the more crowded our population, the higher the chances of pointless rifts, arguments, back biting and all the drivel. 

Traditionally, whenever there's a gathering or some sort of event, the chances of fights breaking are significantly higher. ANA, "Dance Party" being some of those, just off the top of my head. 

Not sure why us Nepalese act the way we do, to be honest. 

संकृतको उदय र नेपालीको संस्कृति नंग मासु को नाता छ , बेद मा जातिपाति को कुरा थिएँन कामको विभाजन भने थियो, नया कुरा आयो कामको विभाजनलाई जात पातको जन्म दिएर , कामले सानो र ठुलो बनाए पछी हाम्रो नसा नसामा त्यो ठुलो र सानो बसेको छ.
उखान सुन्नु भएको छ , बर्मा गए कर्मै संग बिसेस गए बानि संगै !
आर्को उखान ' फ्याउरोको छाला काडेर अर्कै जनावर बनाउन सकिन्छ तर आदत जस्ताको तेस्तै !

के ठाउ बदलिदैमा आदत बदलिन्छ त राता रात ?  What ever culture they (WE) came with, it sprouts every now and then involunterily ( it needs real good practice to supress those habits).  Also related to family values the practice back home.
Even people with Ph.D.were not able to change their bad habits. Does education make people wise? 

NEpali haru ko bani yestai Ho bro..........

I am tired of Nepali ppl complaining about nepali ppl.. 







 

. Well I 've lived overseas being student as well and yes i've been that moment ,I've been with some guys ,they enjoy party ,drinks, food ,but some of them don't like when it comes to "pay time" ,they used to act like they didn't saw the bill or keep on dancing ,drinking,showing they are busy with talkin to strangers ...blah..blah..But gradually I learnt ...guess what " Pay what you owe " ..or "only your bill" ,.Yes i don't mind paying to one who are new ..who are searching job ...having hard time for the moment ...that's different story .But who 're earning more than you and doing welll..."sorry f@cck offf" ...after sometime they will be "Filter OUT " ,Coz  that person can't be friend if they want to RIP you off knowingly ..SORRRRRRRRY  kiss my a$$$ ,everyone works hard for every $ or rupeees...

 dude, if you have problem with your friends like you mentioned, tell them. If they act like that all the time, and you dont like it , you dont have to hang out with them. Tell them what you think is going on and if they dont like it , fk it who cares right? if that  embarass them , they deserve it. But for god sake , dont blame all nepalese, There are ton of good nepalese out there.
And it is not just nepalese, there are bunch of people in almost all countries who get drunk and fight. It is all about who you choose to spend your time with.

I couldn't disagree with you all...different experiences, different feelings..but we all belong to same community, same culture.

I think its a matter of individuals difference in their personality

"Remember to always be yourself. Unless you suck"-- Heard somewhere !!!

Mero Nepali attitude ta ramro cha!

 I enjoyed reading everyone's experiences as new comer and as old living. I agreed with most of you. As a new comer in US back 03, I was also helped by so many dai and didi's and they will always stay with me. As time passed on, I helped several new comers as well. As we have saying"Guun ko Badala Guun Le nai Chucaunu parcha". All I have to say, Give respect and Take respect. There are always good ppl and bad ppl, make your wise decision to choose good ppl and hang out with them.

Back in sajha after a while. Thanks for all the overwhelming response. Some people never change but you can change yourself. I have moved in with few other people and life is good now!

Have a cold beer then friend ;) Cheers!

Tell me something new.  Tyo bhancha ni Kukur ko pucchar 12 barsaa samma sojhyauna khoje pani bango ko bangai.  That is why I don't go to any Nepali events any more.  Jand khaye pachi kahiley khana napaaa ko justoo jailey pani jhagada. They say if you are educated, you would not behave that way.  But our Apes from Nepal tend to prove otherwise.

Bathroomcoffee, I totally agree with you. I try to avoid these torilaureyharu as mucch as possible

त्यो चाही हो है ,आफु चाहि  मुख मा जे आयो तेही प्वाक्क खोक्ने अनि अरुले केहि भन्यो भने तिन मुर्छा पर्नेहरु पनि एउटा उदाहरण हुन् ,जे होस् मा पनि एस्त तोरी लौरेहरुलाई अवोइड गर्नु खोज्छु तर कहिले कहिँ सकिदैन !