Guy in early thirties looking for a Nepali girl. Email at lostinjupiter@aol.com for more information.

I've learnt the same about women. If we did come with complete packages, we'd all be gay. We wouldn't need women. hahahaha sorry, joking.

If I had found the kind of girl I wanted I wouldn't be wasting my time here. Tara, yahan pani kehi hola jasto lagena. I know online thing is not very good. At the same time, it takes long time to process green card for my wife if I went to Nepal to get married. My time has gone in school and work, and I don't want to wait to process papers for my wife.

malai yatti dherai guna bhayaki pani chahiyana. malai ta life chalne bhaya hunchha. I am easy in those aspects. Only virtue I want in a girl is the good discipline. Then, we will work out the rest.

lfc123, ma surely "mahadev kalle dela bar" ho nai, tara bibhinna karanale garda tyo ketee sanga biha nagareko kya. tara, Arko lai bhane gajab hunchha tyo ketee. kya ramree chha bhane... slim, tall, fair, outgoing, ... dancing and singing abilities ko ta ke kura garne ra...

Thaha Payen, malai usko email address ra photo email gardeuna. I will take care of her aftewards :)

arko sorry to heard that u havent found ur soulmate yet. anyway good luck

Arko, I will first contact her if she is OK, will certainly email you.

ani, yo uptown girl le hamilai ni khai? kasailai kakha, kasailai pakha?

Arko If you have the BALLS ....he he he GO ASK A GAL OUT.
DON"T BE A FUGGIN CHICKEN AND COME HIDE HERE IN THE NAME OF ARKO.

La aba bhayo ta, khojera pani kahi napayera keti pauchha ta. Job ta pyinnan, keti ko kura..........
Pheri tyo keti khojer payechha bhane pani, sabaile jutho haleko matrai pauchha. Tyesto ko ke kaam

hey thaha lau maile chaina kasailai ni kakha ra pakha gare. sabai afnai hunn kya re hehhe

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sabbai kura mare pani assh chahi mardaina k. that is why arko is here. its all because of hope why we do what we do hoina ra?

uptown girl, Arko lai matri tyesaree subhakamana dida malai daaha lagdaina ta. balla man khushi bhayo. h'''''''eeeeeee

baru, ma nai Lami bannu parla jasto chha hai. sajha ka pratek tarun haru lai euti man milne ra ramri tarunee khojdina sakenbhane mero jeevan sarthak hune thiyo.

Thaha lau tapai lai ni ma subhakamana dinchu ni kina testi chinta linu bhako dont worry lai tapai lai ni best of luck :P

Thanks Up.

ur welcome Thaha :D

Response to couple of commenters. First, I have succeeded in asking girls. I just couldn't go to that extent as I am looking for right one. It didn't work. I don't need to show my prowess in here because I am happy the way I am. So, there is no point of feeling myself chicken. Second, thanks for uptowngal's wishes and don't be sorry. I am more optimistic than miserable.

Thank you for Thaha Payen.

Arko sir,

ya, you are serious in entering into relationship at this point. I would like to assure you that 99.9% of nepali girls are not ready whom you meet online to start a new life at this point especially in America. Because the ladies are here for Undergraudate ( 20 -24) of age. According to few observations I found they bark the slogan of Freedom. I don't know what they mean by that.

On the other hand, the relationship you want to start needs Compromise. Compromise means you have to sacrifice some of you Freedom. Example - if you smoked, need to quit. Flirt with other ladies - need to stop. Was a drunker - need to stop. or even if you had the very best friend but of opposite sex, after marriage some people lose contact for ever with their best friend. There are lots of such minor issues involved.

Now, are the ladies who fall in 99.9 % would be ready to compromise with the situation? Probability is minimal. You know better than anyone. The girl having same set of mind as you have is in need. There is probability of 0.1 % you may find your future wife in America (nep girls). Someone may approach, who knows right?

It is evident there are few nepali Matrimonial sites which are of no use or misused by US (NEP KIDS). Sadly, there are INDIANS matrimonial sites which are productive. I have found 1-2 serious nepali families advertising such cases in Indian Reporter Paper & saadi.com. It is not a bad idea to sign up or advertise in such media that might full fill your need. what do you think? I know that is sad for a nepali to do so. But is there any alternative to achieve your goal?

I always wish Sajha Metromonial could be used for good. Unfortunately this is not happening. We do spend time in kurakani but for what? Mostly Unproductive Talks. Let's hope time will bring some real thinking in such social matters among Nepali youngters.

But hey ! an optimistic guy will get his way out? Just the matter of time, Arko Sir. Good Luck ! I know how you feel. I have covered the same paces that you have. A bright morning is waiting out there... with a smile in a sweet nepali girl's face...with same degree of thinking...a very sweet planning to spend life together...with lots of love and trust who understands the meaning of Compromise in Marriage Life...who is drown into the reality of life...who knows Freedom dwells inside the compromise...The day is near.


-BD

Why boston out of all places?

balla pwaint aayo, gud one kiwigal, kina boston? houston, ya new york bhae hudaina?

I agree with bhangli damini, finding the right partner is not about findng someone who similar values as yourself, but someone who you can COMPROMISE WITH. Right now, there are lots of Nepalese girls out there in th US who JUST came in to study. usually it used to be boys who would be allowed to go out. So aarko bro, wait a few years and believe me, these same girls will be looking forward to settle down. But becaureful of the ones I described who are just wayy too modern.

I have found that as the girls from south Asia come to chage, they chage a lot. They fully depart from the cultures they came from and simply give damn to the guys from their countries. However, hardly do you see a guy change that way.
Therefore, for me looking for a Nepali girl in US for marriage seems to be unachievable task partly because of our expectations and partly because of the lack of network. Girls' expectations on the day they land on American soil go beyond snatching moon.
Geezzzzzzzzzzzzzz, bhagwan give some sadbuddi to these girls.