Who we are We are a group of fun-loving people interested in having unbridled fun and talking about the lighter side of life on Sajha.
We are unapologetic about what we say because we don't put too much thought into our words. We have come to learn after all these episodes that when your goal is unrestrained and harmless fun, you can only be so careful or thoughtful about what you say. We mean no harm towards anyone and welcome everyone to join the fun.
The Cafe series, as it has evolved over the weeks and months, is an effort to create a community of like minded people who want to have fun - or as SNDY likes to says - "be good and have fun". That is the only clause in our one-line constitution.
What do we do in the Cafe? Meeting, greeting and sharing is what we do a lot of. As well as singing, dancing, needling (one another of course), opining, joking and anything else to kill time. Not to forget serving and partaking virtual lattes, biscottis, tea, coffee, samosas, jalebis and other tasty baked goods that we take out of the Google Images oven. We've also posted videos, dedicated songs, confessed our crushes, talked about weather, food, work, sports - anything that is fun.
History History is never uncontroversial and ours too might not be free from it.This is version is subject to revision as members deem fit.
This whole thing was started by Hi Nanu and instigated by SNDY. Back in those days, SNDY had so many people to say hi to that she would go on each thread where her friends had posted, and say hi, regardless of what the topic was. It had a positive impact on the site, IMO, because it made conversations lighter and soon others started following that trend and we had several threads where the topic might have been something like the "Collapse of the European Monetary Union" but other than the first few posts, the conversation turned out to be about anything but that.
So one day Hi Dai opened a thread called "Thread for greeting each other". Little did he realize what he had created. That thread filled a vacuum in Sajha, as we saw it, for friendly conversation between people that was free of name calling, personal attacks and caste/creed/school/language prejudices. This was back in the dark days of the caste wars and turf struggles. That thread quickly filled up and reach it's maximum posts in a matter of days and another one was started. And then another and another ...
At that time someone jokingly (perhaps contemptuously) referred to us as the "Nautanki" group. We took on that joke and called our self the Nuatanki Briagade and fulfilled SNDY's long running desire to become a Brigadier. So there were several threads (or episodes as we called them) under the Nautanki banner. We got to a point where we ran the joke to the ground and thought it might be time for a name change. We figured a word like Nautanki can wear out after a while and we suspect it might have deterred some people, who would otherwise have posted, from posting on the thread .
We held a poll on whether or not we should change our name. We decided, by an overwhelming majority, to change the name. It was Juggy who came up with the name "Cafe N". The rest, as they say, is history.
Geography As of last count, in alphabetical order of countries and US states: Alabama, Australia, Belgium, California, Canada, Connecticut, Denmark, Florida, Illinois, India, Iraq, Italy, Massachusetts, Minnesota, Nepal, Netherlands, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New York, New Zealand, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Texas, Virginia, UK, Washington,Washington DC. Some of us haven't disclosed our locations and I might have missed some so the list is probably longer.
Languages Languages heard in the Cafe: English, Nepali, Punjabi, Hindi, Newari, Sanskrit, French, German, Gujrati, Spanish, Esperanto and mixtures and derivatives thereof. The list is bound to grow as we plan to expand to all the corners of the world - although we haven't quite figured how. Politics Constitutional Assembly elections are slated for a some time the future, around NPL2US's recently announced wedding date. The Fun party and the Sun party are running neck to neck so we've figured we are in for some fun and sun regardless of the outcome.
But seriously we tend to leave our politics, class, caste, creed, schooling, religion, Indian idol preferences and anything that could affect the fun on the other side of our keyboards or for other threads. Thapap and Loote may battle it out like there is no tomorrow on other threads, but they've been good buddies here. How do I join ? Post something, anything, in the "be good and have fun" spirit and you are guaranteed to receive a warm welcome
TL confesses to her love of lipstick. Air Sajha plane with the entire Nautanki brigade on-board experiences a near crash resulting in several more confessions from others.
Cleo and Loote's virtual marriage, television shows and favorites foods like lakhamari, sekuwa, momo, Juggy's reports, amongst other things, are the topics of conversation.
(Folks, the above is just my interpretation of things done in the spirit of the Cafe and purely for fun. If there is anything you want changed, added or removed, please let me know)
I wasnt being critical of the characters. I was just saying what comes in my mind
Npl2us: Its not junkiri bro, it just sm kind of animation. tyo movies haruma huncha nai.. when they have to show a person moved from one country to another
Sndy, ur son has a nose ring what kind of mother r u?? c'mon show us the pic
Rythm: yes i am psychic that is ofcourse when i am rite
Cap: well i am totally differnt than what u think. I was never like that i dont think i ll be like that. btw.. i dont mind with that pretty gal riding in my bike. but that bike has to be with four wheel coz never learnt to ride a two wheel motorbike
Ha ha ha , Rythm. OK, her turn to write a story now, right?
Brig Ma'am - Did you hear that? The public is clamoring for a story from you ... ha ha
Getting a bit sleepy after a somewhat heavy lunch. Need to grab a cuppa. Here's some for the cafe:
Loote/TL/Camo (and the rest) - Still MIA? :) What it something I did or something I said, did my words not come out right? LOL!!
Reminds me of this song now:
Every Rose has its Thorn
We both lie silently still In the dead of the night Although we both lie close together We feel miles apart inside
Was it something I said or something I did Did my words not come out right Though I tried not to hurt you Though I tried But I guess thats why they say
Chorus: Every rose has its thorn Just like every night has its dawn Just like every cowboy sings his sad, sad song Every rose has its thorn
Yeah it does
I listen to our favorite song Playing on the radio Hear the dj say loves a game of easy come and Easy go But I wonder does he know Has he ever felt like this And I know that youd be here right now If I could have let you know somehow I guess
Chorus
Though its been a while now I can still feel so much pain Like a knife that cuts you the wound heals But the scar, that scar remains
Solo
I know I could have saved a love that night If Id known what to say Instead of makin love We both made our separate ways
But now I hear you found somebody new And that I never meant that much to you To hear that tears me up inside And to see you cuts me like a knife I guess
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Now I am really off before I get reminded of any other things ... LOL!!
Oho, that was my favorite song..once upon a time..
Story and me? U must be kidding..all I can say is, I don't think Capt. saab is a villain material..Loote would be more appropriate for it..(I hope Loote will come reading this)
Mav, why do u want to see my son's picture? Planning to kidnap him? Oho, kya baatho...Me stupid huh?? Pakhlaas..
Story and me? U must be kidding..all I can say is, I don't think Capt. saab is a villain material..SNDY would be more appropriate for it..(I hope SNDY will GO reading this)
afternoon folks
read this shayari in the other thread. arz kuchh aisa kiya hai, zara gaur pharmaiyega:
sndy... how are we supposed to go on about the drama without you giving us any direction?? And you didnt even REPLY to me!! I am so not replying you for a week now!!
UNCLE L, ayera shayeri marera gone! Whats up with that sir?
Hello my louly nautankiis.. our biggest competitor Starbucks is back with Pumpkin pie Latte along with the Fall … are we ready with some new recipe….or still going strong with Adrak Chaai? (bichara hami.. )
Avani & Flips a : you guys together now? Haray..kati guff garnay hola..no wonder I was getting horrible hiccups.. how are you fine ladies?(my turn to ask )
Camo: atleast forward mail lay ta yaad garyo ray..abuii.. na bhana na ho tyasto..
Captaan: mission accomplished ho? SNDY is already planning to meet me.. ma kay bhanum, make up a nice story ...pheri kaharni mein twist hola ni.. Oldie Goldie mood ma cha ni.. aarko wink wink ray kya!
Cerine: kasto cheu? bore lagyo pheri?
CleoMaharani: kuch to kahona..
Jug Bahadur: sanchaii? kaam derai ho? naak mukh dekhdaina ni..aau na ho mitjyu..
Lemoney/JS : phursat maru? Back to school?
LooTeKumar: we don’t really miss you.. do you know that?
Mav: Imaginations don’t have boundaries…hoina ta?. You wouldn’t believe the times that me and SNDY try to portray each and everyone of NTL.. it’s so funny.. suneo bhanay murcha nai parcha hola sabaijana.. lol..
Nepte:OMG! khali how are u TL?
NKC: timi pani baypatta cheu ni.. kay ho..KTM ko hawa lay choday ko chaina ki kya ho..malai ta kaam ko hawa ni ..kay hunu ra?
.Cerine: i am good, rolling..choice cha ra?ray kya..:-)...nothing new ray? bhayay na ni..the other day one of my friends asked me ..how is life ?..instantly i answered..Life is full of things to do list..hehee..hoina ra? don't you agree?well..Life goes on..three little words..but true to every word!
nepte.. let me dhog you ray..LOL.. malai Boju banai diyay ko?..kai chaina..khushi nai chu..hunai paryo! say hi to aama hai.:-)
>LooTeKumar.. me BRO ray? you ok? did you take the anti-rabies shot on time..oh now I remember.. you were without a care taker for long long time... you strayed too much lately..you don’t even know the difference between bro and sis.. Can someone take LooTe to ER? He needs to get the shot asap ..Pls..HELP!!
hahaha...rythm, i came to know that TL and thapap switched their '....' last time they met
but on a serious note, lovely lady aka TL always gives me an impression of a "galli ko sukul gunda" (with due respect :P)...tesaile...and thapap is always like "hi, hello, ouch! ooimaaa...haai laaa" so.... :D
me getting busier day by day...there is a mountain to climb in a couple of months so..saving some energy for it
LOL Uncle L... Thapap.. is ouch... oiimaaa re!! Well if you read Cafe N, you will find out what I am doing everyday. LOL. I have started taking it more like a personal journal where I record my daily happenings! Its better when people respond to it and show sympathy though And Of course I can always do with the luck before my exams!
अमेरिकामा बस्ने प्राय जस्तो नेपालीहरु सबै मध्यम बर्गीय अथवा माथि (higher than middle class)
Travelling to Nepal - TPS AP- PASSPORT
emergency donation needed
ढ्याउ गर्दा दसैँको खसी गनाउच
मन भित्र को पत्रै पत्र!
Morning dharahara
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lost $3500 on penny stocks !!!
Susta Susta Degree Maile REMIXED version
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TPS Reregistration and EAD Approval Timeline.......
Changing job after i-140 approval
कल्लाई मुर्ख भन्या ?
1974 AD Pinjadako Suga Remixed
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what kind of mother r u?? c'mon show us the pic 
Where's our drama plot?? And where are you!!?? 
And you didnt even REPLY to me!! I am so not replying you for a week now!! 
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