gotta friend who is suffering from kinda arranged marriage stuff.therez dis guy who mailed my fren and they are in contact via just mails cuz of long distance introduction.was thinking over abt their thing n it's been going pretty slow like no chatting and no phone. how long do u think this fren of mine shud wait for him?????sometimes she suspects if he is forced by his parents or has a gf. what shud i advise her?????

seems like your friend likes the dude, but is not so sure about the guy feelings. why doesnt she just ask him? if the guys says dont wait, it could mean many things...but the important thing is that your friend should just move on.

The best bet would be to tell her to ask him what he feels about her. If he does not play any game and tells her everything sincerely then I guess things will get lot easier for your friend to decide. If the guy already has a gf then there is no point waiting for him. If not, then probably there could be other reasons like he might not be in a mood to marry. In any case, the girl should talk with him and see how it goes from there.

Remember relations are like a fistful of sand. The more you want to grab it tight, the more it will get spilled. Let it be gentle and loose, things will be easier.

Good luck!!

Lonely...

Thanks a lot guys for the useful advices that you both gave....it's really helpful....:)