Who we are We are a group of fun-loving people interested in having unbridled fun and talking about the lighter side of life on Sajha.
We are unapologetic about what we say because we don't put too much thought into our words. We have come to learn after all these episodes that when your goal is unrestrained and harmless fun, you can only be so careful or thoughtful about what you say. We mean no harm towards anyone and welcome everyone to join the fun.
The Cafe series, as it has evolved over the weeks and months, is an effort to create a community of like minded people who want to have fun - or as SNDY likes to says - "be good and have fun". That is the only clause in our one-line constitution.
What do we do in the Cafe? Meeting, greeting and sharing is what we do a lot of. As well as singing, dancing, needling (one another of course), opining, joking and anything else to kill time. Not to forget serving and partaking virtual lattes, biscottis, tea, coffee, samosas, jalebis and other tasty baked goods that we take out of the Google Images oven. We've also posted videos, dedicated songs, confessed our crushes, talked about weather, food, work, sports - anything that is fun.
History History is never uncontroversial and ours too might not be free from it.This is version is subject to revision as members deem fit.
This whole thing was started by Hi Nanu and instigated by SNDY. Back in those days, SNDY had so many people to say hi to that she would go on each thread where her friends had posted, and say hi, regardless of what the topic was. It had a positive impact on the site, IMO, because it made conversations lighter and soon others started following that trend and we had several threads where the topic might have been something like the "Collapse of the European Monetary Union" but other than the first few posts, the conversation turned out to be about anything but that.
So one day Hi Dai opened a thread called "Thread for greeting each other". Little did he realize what he had created. That thread filled a vacuum in Sajha, as we saw it, for friendly conversation between people that was free of name calling, personal attacks and caste/creed/school/language prejudices. This was back in the dark days of the caste wars and turf struggles. That thread quickly filled up and reach it's maximum posts in a matter of days and another one was started. And then another and another ...
At that time someone jokingly (perhaps contemptuously) referred to us as the "Nautanki" group. We took on that joke and called our self the Nuatanki Briagade and fulfilled SNDY's long running desire to become a Brigadier. So there were several threads (or episodes as we called them) under the Nautanki banner. We got to a point where we ran the joke to the ground and thought it might be time for a name change. We figured a word like Nautanki can wear out after a while and we suspect it might have deterred some people, who would otherwise have posted, from posting on the thread .
We held a poll on whether or not we should change our name. We decided, by an overwhelming majority, to change the name. It was Juggy who came up with the name "Cafe N". The rest, as they say, is history.
Geography As of last count, in alphabetical order of countries and US states: Alabama, Australia, Belgium, California, Canada, Connecticut, Denmark, Florida, Illinois, India, Iraq, Italy, Massachusetts, Minnesota, Nepal, Netherlands, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New York, New Zealand, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Texas, Virginia, UK, Washington,Washington DC. Some of us haven't disclosed our locations and I might have missed some so the list is probably longer.
Languages Languages heard in the Cafe: English, Nepali, Punjabi, Hindi, Newari, Sanskrit, French, German, Gujrati, Spanish, Esperanto and mixtures and derivatives thereof. The list is bound to grow as we plan to expand to all the corners of the world - although we haven't quite figured how. Politics Constitutional Assembly elections are slated for a some time the future, around NPL2US's recently announced wedding date. The Fun party and the Sun party are running neck to neck so we've figured we are in for some fun and sun regardless of the outcome.
But seriously we tend to leave our politics, class, caste, creed, schooling, religion, Indian idol preferences and anything that could affect the fun on the other side of our keyboards or for other threads. Thapap and Loote may battle it out like there is no tomorrow on other threads, but they've been good buddies here. How do I join ? Post something, anything, in the "be good and have fun" spirit and you are guaranteed to receive a warm welcome
TL confesses to her love of lipstick. Air Sajha plane with the entire Nautanki brigade on-board experiences a near crash resulting in several more confessions from others.
Cleo and Loote's virtual marriage, television shows and favorites foods like lakhamari, sekuwa, momo, Juggy's reports, amongst other things, are the topics of conversation.
(Folks, the above is just my interpretation of things done in the spirit of the Cafe and purely for fun. If there is anything you want changed, added or removed, please let me know)
Rythm, isn't it a beautiful song? I simply love it..got to go now..talk to u tomorrow hai?
Capt. saab, waiting for video wala thread..whoever is opening a new thread, can you please include the above info too..it'll be such a waste if we do not use it again..
NPL2US has been preparing to do the honors with the next thread. I dont think he gets here till tomorrow. So we should prolly wait for him and continue this one till he gets here - what do you folks think?
Rythm - Ha ha, I am begining to feel I have reached retirement age in Sajha years ... he he. So if you had said grandpa, it would have been closer to it but uncle ... nyaaah, no offense taken he he
Here's some Zandu balm for your ailment:
Flips -
Ufff, ufff .... he he.
Amazing -
Hi! You must be one happy person since Prashant won ... he he. Congratulations to him and to you! Hope to see you around more often
NKC -
Balle balle jee ... aur kya hora hai? Kaisa raha din?
Loote - Yeah, hide and seek big tyam. And it all feeds into Shishir dat saab's theory about our dual identities. What was that he said about when one stops posting the other starts?
Rythm -
That cappuchino - or whatever that was - looks really neat.
Brig Ma'am -
Finally! Good seeing you back. I dont have the new video. Dont think I am going to get the time to make it ... perhaps NPL2US bro can use the old one for now - whadya think?
:)
Lovely Lady, Maverick, Camo (salute!), Lemony, Avani, Juggy, Thapap, Rocky, Maverick, IMI, Aznshawty, Audrey, Shirish, Isolated Freak (this time I am not going to miss anyone) Ratobhaley, Sandhurst Lahure, Bathroom Coffee ... who else ... Jack (where have you been?), Hi Dai, Gundruk ko Jhol, Parbatya, Manvi, Bikash KC and everyone else who has ever posted in the Cafe series - a big hello to you all.
Cast: Avtar Gill, Pooja Bedi, Pooja Bhatt, Rahul Roy, Yunus Parvez Music Director: Anu Malik Director: Mahesh Bhat Producer: Johny Bakshi Lyrics: Year: 1993
Aha, aha, mm hm hm hm hm hm Hey, ha ha, ha ha
Baadalon mein chhup raha hai chaand kyoon Apne husn ki zaya se poochh lo Chaandni padi hui hai maand kyoon Apne hi kisi ada se poochh lo
Baadalon mein chhup raha hai chaand kyoon Apne husn ki zaya se poochh lo Chaandni padi hui hai maand kyoon Apne hi kisi ada se poochh lo
Meri hasraton pe bekhudi si chhaa gayi Tumko dekhkar nigaah ladkhadaa gayi Meri hasraton pe bekhudi si chhaa gayi Tumko dekhkar nigaah ladkhadaa gayi - 2
Nigaah ladkhadaa gayi Nigaah ladkhadaa gayi Ho raha hoon main nashe mein choor kyoon Jhoomti hui faza se poochh lo Ho raha hai bet yeh suroor kyoon
Meri zulf ki ghata se poochh lo Baadalon mein chhup raha hai chaand kyoon Apne husn ki zaya se poochh lo
Chaandni padi hui hai maand kyoon Apne hi kisi ada se poochh lo Door mujhse gham hai aur khushi kareeb hai Aaj mera pyaar kitna khushnaseeb hai
Door mujhse gham hai aur khushi kareeb hai Aaj mera pyaar kitna khushnaseeb hai - 2 Kitna khushnaseeb hai Kitna khushnaseeb hai Jhoomta hai mera ang ang kyoon
Apni rooh ki sada se poochh lo Baj rahe hai dil mein jaltarang kyoon Geet chhedti hawa se poochh lo Baadalon mein chhup raha hai chaand kyoon Hm, apne husn ki zaya se poochh lo Chaandni padi hui hai maand kyoon Apne hi kisi ada se poochh lo
6) Audrey-Danny Combo One of my most favorite combos, can’t get enough of this combo. Funny, lively, carry positive vibes wherever they go. I’m sure you won’t be disappointed by this combination.
I did post a song for today... to lighten up the environment here. I am doing okay... My nose is totally sore, but my meds. helping me. I have actually typed my real name and realized what I was doing right before I submitted it... and then deleted it! I am totally scared that I might reveal my real self here any day. Half of sajha prolly knows the real me anyways!! Ughh..
Oh I must have missed it, this thread has been going between snail pace and rocket pace ... he he
Here's another one to all the folks in the Cafe:
KRISHNA NEE BEGANE - Colonial Cousins (was looking for Sa ni da pa but could find only a karaoke version)
CHORUS: Krishna Ni Bhe Gha-Ni, Baroo ! Krishna Ni Bhe Gha-Ni, Baroo !
Darkness coming around, And every body fight with the brother Every body wants control, Don't hesitate to kill one-another
So come back as Jesus Come back and save the world Bless all the future of every boy and girl Come back as Rama, Forgive us for what we've done Come back as Allah, Come back as anyone
CHORUS: .......
Religion is the reason, The world is breaking up into pieces Colour of the people, Keeps us locked in hate please release us
So Come down and help us, Save all the little ones They need a teacher, And you are the only one We can't rely on, To build a better world A world that's for children, A world that's for everyone
CHORUS:.....
(Interlude)
Time is healer, and time moves on Time don't wait for any one So, Tell me you'll be back But that will take some time I waiting ////...... (with interlude)
I'm waiting, yeah yeah......
Come back as Jesus Come back and save the world We need a teacher, and You are the only one Come back as Rama Forgive us for what we've done Come back as Allah Come back for every one.......
Politically you can totally join us!! Though I am not an old patron of the thread, I take the liberty to heartfully welcome you and tell you that all others will do the same. So whats happening with you?
Embassy of Nepal might be able to help extend TPS for Nepal
I hope all the fake Nepali refugee get deported
Homeland Security revokes temporary status for 532,000 Cubans, Haitians, Nicaraguans and Venezuelans
Venezuela TPS lawuit
TPS for Venezuela is terminated, only 60 days extension for transition period
रबि लामिछानेको दाहिने हात ICE को हिरासतमा
ICE kidnapping people off the streets over op eds
US citizen Petitioning my wife who was out of status when she was in H1B. What to do ?
Democrat lies revealed
#MAGA#FAFO is delicious
Trump admin revokes 18 months TPS extension for Venezuelans
What is the purpose of an F1 student visa in the U.S.?
Measles vax deaths vs measles death in USA
Good News for Nepalese TPS Holders!!!
Please ask KRISTI NOEM in her facebook and other social media to renew TPS
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